http://www.partnertherapy.com/node/1754
Hi, I am a 22 year old male and cannot cum during oral or vaginal sex. I have just recently lost my virginity.
Embarassingly, from the age of 6 to about 18 I would hump the floor without an erection and orgasm that way. That is correct, I actually had orgasms at the age of 6. I did not start ejaculating until probably around my teenage years however.
When I was in my early teens, I learned that masturbation was not to be done with a floor, but with your hand, and I attempted to convert. However, despite trying with my hand for a while, perhaps a week or two, I could not orgasm. Maintaining an erection while masturbating was easy however. I soon gave up as traditional masturbation was not pleasurable. I then went back to humping the floor while limp, without an erection.
...Is my situation at all common for men, and is there anything I can do to convert to orgasming during sex? I'm strongly considering going to a sex therapist, but thought posting this first might be a much better idea.
Hi, I am a 22 year old male and cannot cum during oral or vaginal sex. I have just recently lost my virginity.
Embarassingly, from the age of 6 to about 18 I would hump the floor without an erection and orgasm that way. That is correct, I actually had orgasms at the age of 6. I did not start ejaculating until probably around my teenage years however.
When I was in my early teens, I learned that masturbation was not to be done with a floor, but with your hand, and I attempted to convert. However, despite trying with my hand for a while, perhaps a week or two, I could not orgasm. Maintaining an erection while masturbating was easy however. I soon gave up as traditional masturbation was not pleasurable. I then went back to humping the floor while limp, without an erection.
...Is my situation at all common for men, and is there anything I can do to convert to orgasming during sex? I'm strongly considering going to a sex therapist, but thought posting this first might be a much better idea.





