Christmas Miracles DO Happen!

[Dickson]

Congratulations on your Christmas miracle.
Hope you both find joy & happiness at this time.
I have only two questions.
( I know you can't answer, but) what do you do for a living and how much of a budget do you have for this hobby?

Well Gentleman1963 I own 4 companies but I am in the final stages of selling one and buying two. (the reason we were in Turkey) Budget wise I really do not have one. I spend as needed. Finding someone like Erika is very rare so I want to enjoy. Last year I would guess I spent over $300,000 but that is just a guess. Remember I do not do anything else but work and the hobby. So I do not own anything, my companies do and they cover my expenses so i have nothing to spend on other than the hobby. So I am a little different than others. I hope that helps to answer your questions. Sorry I did not responde sooner but well I was preoccupied. wink wink.

 

[Dickson]

I'm so happy for you, Dickson!!! Thanks for sharing your miracle with us!

My pleasure my dear.

 

[Dickson]

Great story Dick play your cards right and you could have a hot lady in your life, don't be too desperate or POSSESSIVE that is a huge turn off give her some space and get all the poon you can for free! She will feel happy that you think of her as a lover not a hooker remember she really isn't one just a gal with a shitty past! If she's not totally fucked in the head you may have found the gem you are searching for. Hopefully she is not owned by someone or some pimp crews property those east block guys don't fuck around. In either case you should enjoy this for as long as you can, women love to be with a self confident guy REMEMBER THAT! Good luck I crossed my fingers for ya!

Thanks Hatrick. I will enjoy it as long as I can. On the flight back last night she told me she now has an opportunity for a new life, with the offer in Paris and the job interviews today in Berlin, and she was going to give up on the escort thing. So I may end up being her one and only date. Not so sure about where this is going. But I do not think I have to worry about a pimp showing up. The agency I used might be a little pissed but from what she told me she had only been with her first husband and then her boy friend and me. Her first husband was much older and they did not have great sex but the boy friend was wild crazy sex. In the escort industry as we know it can be tough on ladies. I don't think it was the right thing for Erika. Maybe that is why I enjoyed her so much she was so different.

Oh well we will see where it goes but it has been the experience that was great
Erika does give me confidence that is for sure. I had a blast with her.

 

[Dickson]

No I don't want to edit my comments. It was a long read and I didn't see that he was an orphan anywhere that I read on it. Although I didn't read the whole thing because it was a long read. So I could care less. I'm adopted so that makes me different? FU.

Jason, being adopted does not make you different it makes you special. Not sure the fact that I am a orphan makes any difference and as you so respectfully pointed out I may have mommy issues. Sorry for the long read. It might be better in future for you not to read or make a comment that offends people. Just a thought for what it is worth.

I hope you had a great holiday season.

 

[Dickson]

I am also waiting for the second episode and the total bill for the Christmas affair. 99% of the time that ladies' story wouldn't be worth a grain of salt....

booblover I not sure if you saw I posted a update on the holiday with Erika. Total bill for her was 8,000 € and the flights, hotels, meals, tickets to the ballet were all covered though my companies. Not a total on the clothes and incidentals but I would guess it would be around 5,000 € because I pay cash for most of that if I can and some was covered by my host.

Yea you are right for me it has been 100% of the time the situation never works out but with Erika it has been a joy. So enjoy the moment as it only comes around once in our life.

 

[Dickson]

Got that right!

Nice to know I am not alone.

 

[blazejowski]

Jason, being adopted does not make you different it makes you special. Not sure the fact that I am a orphan makes any difference and as you so respectfully pointed out I may have mommy issues. Sorry for the long read. It might be better in future for you not to read or make a comment that offends people. Just a thought for what it is worth.

I hope you had a great holiday season.

Don't waste your time feeding the troll, Dickson. There's a reason he's given one week vacations all the time...

 

[Moderator-1]

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[amacc]

Extremely heartwarming story. I know budget is not a concern for you, but do be careful. I understand that you are willing to "ride the wave", but it would be a shame to realize that in the end it was just a ruse.

With your connections (I'm assuming, here), don't you think you could find an apt position for her to fill that will utilize her engineering education? Or is that what the job interviews were that you alluded to?

Happy new year.


edit:
Wow. I went and read through your holiday update. You live an interesting and very busy life. One could definitely read your story as a fictional narrative, but weirder things in the world have happened. Congratulations, and I'm glad you found someone to spend it with. I still insist that you're careful..

 

[Dickson]

Extremely heartwarming story. I know budget is not a concern for you, but do be careful. I understand that you are willing to "ride the wave", but it would be a shame to realize that in the end it was just a ruse.

With your connections (I'm assuming, here), don't you think you could find an apt position for her to fill that will utilize her engineering education? Or is that what the job interviews were that you alluded to?

Happy new year.


edit:
Wow. I went and read through your holiday update. You live an interesting and very busy life. One could definitely read your story as a fictional narrative, but weirder things in the world have happened. Congratulations, and I'm glad you found someone to spend it with. I still insist that you're careful..

Yea I do have a crazy lifestyle. I will be careful have been burnt before. Right now just enjoying the ride but you are correct in your words of concern. It can get ugly fast. Or at least that has been my experience as well.

I have got her a couple job interviews. She had one yesterday that she said went well and another today. Not sure I want to bring her into my organization at this point. Now that can get messy. I am still keeping an arms lenght. Especially when she tells me she was getting out of the escort business. Now we are in some scary waters.

I appreciate your comments. It sounds like you have been here before?

 

[sevenofnine]

Thread Warning
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Sort of amusing,
There has been a lot of bashing and personal attacks on this board, and no mods. (Check Post #39)
Now somthing kind of minor and a mod suddenly threatens.
Maybe Im missing somthing here,
and in this thread in general.

 

[Papa Chongo]

Wow, quite a story, I hope it works out for you, I enjoy reading your posts, keep it up

 

[sevenofnine]

Sort of amusing,
There has been a lot of bashing and personal attacks on this board, and no mods. (Check Post #39)
Now somthing kind of minor and a mod suddenly threatens.
Maybe Im missing somthing here,
and in this thread in general.

What is that a warning?

Ask me if I care.

 

[Moderator-1]

Did he really say that? And from a guy with 1,100+ great posts under his belt?
Yes, it was a warning... Unheeded obviously.

What is that a warning?

Ask me if I care.

 

[Dickson]

Hi Dickson,

Not to be a spoil sport, but glad to see you're not suddenly bringing her into the fold so to speak.
Is there any chance that you could follow up on the interviews, if you're connections were able to get them for her?

Regardless of whether or not she succeeds, it would be good for you to know if she’s actually qualified as she has stated to you, or if she’s ditching the interviews and having a coffee with her friends during the allotted interview time.

I stand by what I said earlier about enjoying your time and not wasting it by worrying, but if you are considering introducing her to your employers (employees?) that could get ugly fast if her story doesn’t check out.

Whatever you do, keep smiling!

Lost in Japan, Erika aced her interviews and now has a couple of job offers one that she is taking. I don't think she is the kind of lady that will waste the opportunities. She made me a great Ukrainian christmas dinner this week and I really enjoyed my time with her. She is looking for a place and her plan is to be on her own by the end of this week. She is a proud lady and we met at the right time. But all good times come to an end. I feel good about her and I think she feels good about me. I know that I will see her around and she tells me that we will be friends for ever but I have been told that in the past. She has told me that she does not want to take advantage of me as she knows how I get pissed at people who do that so I do not think I have to worry about her that way but you never know.

Good news is that I am still smiling.

 

[Dickson]

I was going to suggest the same thing Dickson.

If you have a real connection with this lady and you think there might be potential for something longterm, don't let her go!

I suggested it but Erika did not feel comfortable with the idea. She wants to get back to the real world. We all know that this could never be a real situation. It was just a good time.

I wish I could keep her but well all good things come to an end. She is very grateful for our meeting and so am I. She is not opposed to meeting every once in a while for dinner and sharing out stories. We had a great connection but my life is not the kind of life she wants in the long term.

 

[Kimber]

I suggested it but Erika did not feel comfortable with the idea. She wants to get back to the real world. We all know that this could never be a real situation. It was just a good time.

I wish I could keep her but well all good things come to an end. She is very grateful for our meeting and so am I. She is not opposed to meeting every once in a while for dinner and sharing out stories. We had a great connection but my life is not the kind of life she wants in the long term.

Letting her go is the best move Dickson. It will give you both time to think about the relationship. If you are meant to be together it will happen, given the time. Sometimes when you get hit with the love hammer things get a little blurry. Now is the time to stand back and let the dust settle.

 

[Dgodus]

Good for you Dickson!

huzzah!!!!

 

[Bobo The Rabbit]

People can just show up in Berlin and get engineering jobs? Wouldn't she need a visa? Some kind of work permit?
I can believe she ran away from her boyfriend and got on a train and started working as an escort, however the job offers/interviews? Then you had to pay her past due one week rent in a flea bag motel? Didn't you just have 4 hours (plus christmas tip) with her so shouldn't she of had a fair bit of cash on her? I thought escorts were paid okay in Germany? What could the rent for a week in a crappy motel in Germany be?

Things don't add up at all...

 

[wilde]

People can just show up in Berlin and get engineering jobs? Wouldn't she need a visa? Some kind of work permit?

Ever heard of the EU?