I am appealing to pooning 'Peggers to just say no to DATO. The Asian invasion SP's have been introducing it as a typical part of their services. As more of us try Candyland and VIPOTG providers, the more we are developing a taste for this particular menu item. I don't want it to become part of the game because it is inherently gross and unsafe. Like most of us, I like LFK and DFK, but when SP's have been tossing unprotected salad then the whole spectrum of kissing is tainted. Who wants to kiss or even get a bbbj if she has a muddy mouth from the date an hour earlier? We're all swimming in the same pool here so let's keep our SP's lips clean. Let's make it a Winnipeg thing: Here in the Peg, butt hole munching is not kosher.
Just say no to DATO
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While I agree the comments regarding being free to choose to see SP's who do not offer this service unfortuantely things like this are a bit of an unknown in this hobby.
You can pick and choose based on the services they advertise all you want but in the end, who knows what they just did with the guy before you.
If you ask the long term pooners I think you'd find we all have stories about a regular or 2 who provided services to us, they did not to every Tom, Dick or Harry who showed up at their door. I've received BBBJ/CIM from a few ladies over the years even though they only advertised CBJ. And these were ladies with stellar reputations. Who is to say they brushed or rinsed before engaging in DFK with their next client?
We hope that the ladies we see clean up between clients but who really knows?
That's where having a comfort level with an SP comes in and when it comes to any activity with an SP involving exchange of fluids or mucous membrane contact (DATY, LFK, DFK, BBBJ, Rimming/DATO) you're best to stick to the ones you trust to be hygenic.
You can pick and choose based on the services they advertise all you want but in the end, who knows what they just did with the guy before you.
If you ask the long term pooners I think you'd find we all have stories about a regular or 2 who provided services to us, they did not to every Tom, Dick or Harry who showed up at their door. I've received BBBJ/CIM from a few ladies over the years even though they only advertised CBJ. And these were ladies with stellar reputations. Who is to say they brushed or rinsed before engaging in DFK with their next client?
We hope that the ladies we see clean up between clients but who really knows?
That's where having a comfort level with an SP comes in and when it comes to any activity with an SP involving exchange of fluids or mucous membrane contact (DATY, LFK, DFK, BBBJ, Rimming/DATO) you're best to stick to the ones you trust to be hygenic.
Doesn't DATO mean that you are licking the SP's ass and rimmig means that she is licking your ass? For the most part, I don't kiss a lot of SP's but I certainly like to feel a nice toungue up my butt hole. So next time a hooker has her tongue half way down your throat, it was probably up my ass an hour before.
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Is this just a troll thread? Because I don't see a big difference between saying "don't pay for sex" and "don't pay for the kind of sex I don't want you to have".
Regardless of whether an SP advertises rimming, she might have been earlier. You don't know if she was. Asking people to please not enjoy acts you don't want them to isn't going to prevent it from happening, a lot of hobbyists don't know about or visit this board in all likelihood. To be completely fair, you don't know if she just blew someone before meeting you anyways, and I can't imagine you'd find that to be so much better, but you can't expect people not to enjoy a bj just so that you don't have to be nervous about kissing.
Sack up or get a new hobby man.
Regardless of whether an SP advertises rimming, she might have been earlier. You don't know if she was. Asking people to please not enjoy acts you don't want them to isn't going to prevent it from happening, a lot of hobbyists don't know about or visit this board in all likelihood. To be completely fair, you don't know if she just blew someone before meeting you anyways, and I can't imagine you'd find that to be so much better, but you can't expect people not to enjoy a bj just so that you don't have to be nervous about kissing.
Sack up or get a new hobby man.
To further expand on this.
How many providers only advertise cbj because they're a little bit pickier about the hygiene of their clients and it's easier to offer bbbj to 3/4 of the clients that day instead of having to turn down 1/4 of clients getting a bbbj (potentially frustrating a client). Same thing could apply to dato (although on less of a scale). This has actually been discussed before (both ladies willing to do dato who do not advertise it and ladies advertising the restricted service but are simply just picky about hygien).
This doesn't even take into account a providers personal sex life. Of the few who talk to me a little more freely one has discussed bbfs and having an std scare (says always covered since then but the point being another lady could just as easily actually catch something as oppose to just get a scare and learn a lesson). And who says the guy that just left before you was a client?
What about simple contagious skin conditions, maybe some which aren't so apparent (something like staph which is an inconspicuous location). How about something like a guy with planters warts using a ladies shower?
Point being. We have no idea what a provider is doing everywhere else. Only way you know a lady is clean is if you watch her shower and rinse. You're exposing yourself in this game if you want to play, one way or another.
Drawing a line in the sand defines what is taboo and what is taboo is attractive to pooners. I suspect that stating this publicly is my undoing. Here I wanted to rally against it and now I've given a forum to liberterians to promote it. Okay, I withdraw my appeal and wish you all well to do whatever feels good. Rubin will say I'm turning the other cheek.
Nope. Those terms are interchangeable, no matter who's licking whose asshole.
I don't judge others, but, personally I find the idea of licking another human being's asshole gross and disgusting. I would never provide that "service" to anyone unless they were holding a gun to my head. I would never request to be rimmed, and if I'm offered it, I turn it town. I've only been rimmed a few times (by surprise) and didn't really enjoy it. Oshean did it to be back when she was CindyFF and a couple of SPs did it to me in Asian MPs in the US. I didn't kiss any of them afterward.
In any case, I'd much rather have my taint teased than my ass licked.BIG thumbs up to that!!!Nope. Those terms are interchangeable, no matter who's licking whose asshole.
I don't judge others, but, personally I find the idea of licking another human being's asshole gross and disgusting. I would never provide that "service" to anyone unless they were holding a gun to my head. I would never request to be rimmed, and if I'm offered it, I turn it town. I've only been rimmed a few times (by surprise) and didn't really enjoy it. Oshean did it to be back when she was CindyFF and a couple of SPs did it to me in Asian MPs in the US. I didn't kiss any of them afterward.
Is it?
As pooners it's pretty obvious that making something taboo merely drives it underground, right? I mean, you don't talk about pooning at work when you're chatting with your boss about what you did on the weekend, right?
The entire idea of something being taboo is ridiculous. If you're so concerned, you should want any and all discussion of DATO to be as open as possible, and that means detaching it from any stigma. If it wasn't viewed as "dirty" and all of the girls who did it admitted to it readily, you'd have an easy time avoiding them.
But this entire conversation is silly. If you want to kiss, you need to accept that you don't know where her mouth was an hour ago. You don't. Maybe she doesn't do DATO but she does on her boyfriend. Maybe she was just doing BBBJ. You don't know. If you ask, you don't know if she's telling you what you want to hear. Either stop kissing or accept the risks. That's all there is to it.
Even if you somehow convinced every single person reading this forum that they shouldn't partake of DATO because it might ruin YOUR date, you'd still only be affecting a minority of the pooners out there. You would still be running nearly the same risk. Give up on changing the way others behave and instead adapt your own behaviour to your risk sensitivity.
