I've been in an SD-SB relationship with a woman for a little over 6 years.
During that time we've had many ups and downs. She's told me she was engaged after about 8 months into the relationship and that she was pregnant. This was shortly after I gave her $1,000 for rent with a promise that we would continue to see each other. She had an abortion months later and broke up with him.
My wife read our e-mails which almost destroyed my marriage especially when there were endearments of how much I cared about her. My wife told her to get lost and for sure I thought we were finished, but we managed to reconnect.
I was a friend of hers on facebook under that account name of T Bond which was obviously fictious until she defriended me a year later.
About two years ago she told me her niece had some health problems, so I gave her $750
Last spring she told me her daughter tried committing suicide. I gave her $2,500 to help her out.
In generally without equating this to a complete exchange of sex for money, she's been there when I needed her, especially after my wife caught us. She was also caught once by her sister and was threatened with social services getting involved and potentially causing problems
I've had more and better sex with her than anyone else in my life, including my wife. She's very attractive and she' quite passionate in the bedroom. Not just with sex per se, I must have massaged her butt for hours upon hours, it's got to be considered one of the wonders of the world.
During this time, we've had fights and we've been out of touch sometimes, but when push came to shove, we always reconnected.
In September she stopped returning my e-mails. Thought I did something to piss her off and send her several e-mails of apology. Never heard back from her. Eventually I told her we'll have to cancel our joint credit card and other things we had set up. thinking she probably met someone special and decided to move on. She still never replied.
then yesterday she contacted me and told me she had a stroke.
She had been in the hospital until recently and apologized for not contacting me earlier. She can't even access her e-mail account because she doesn't remember the password to this or any other of her accounts.
She also said the relationship we had could not continue. But if I was open to having lunch with her, she would be open to this
Now this poor woman is a single mother, she can't work, her daughter recently tried to commit suicide and she has no other source of income. So I'm thinking of giving her 500-1000 month to help her out, with no strings attached.
Is this stupid?
During that time we've had many ups and downs. She's told me she was engaged after about 8 months into the relationship and that she was pregnant. This was shortly after I gave her $1,000 for rent with a promise that we would continue to see each other. She had an abortion months later and broke up with him.
My wife read our e-mails which almost destroyed my marriage especially when there were endearments of how much I cared about her. My wife told her to get lost and for sure I thought we were finished, but we managed to reconnect.
I was a friend of hers on facebook under that account name of T Bond which was obviously fictious until she defriended me a year later.
About two years ago she told me her niece had some health problems, so I gave her $750
Last spring she told me her daughter tried committing suicide. I gave her $2,500 to help her out.
In generally without equating this to a complete exchange of sex for money, she's been there when I needed her, especially after my wife caught us. She was also caught once by her sister and was threatened with social services getting involved and potentially causing problems
I've had more and better sex with her than anyone else in my life, including my wife. She's very attractive and she' quite passionate in the bedroom. Not just with sex per se, I must have massaged her butt for hours upon hours, it's got to be considered one of the wonders of the world.
During this time, we've had fights and we've been out of touch sometimes, but when push came to shove, we always reconnected.
In September she stopped returning my e-mails. Thought I did something to piss her off and send her several e-mails of apology. Never heard back from her. Eventually I told her we'll have to cancel our joint credit card and other things we had set up. thinking she probably met someone special and decided to move on. She still never replied.
then yesterday she contacted me and told me she had a stroke.
She had been in the hospital until recently and apologized for not contacting me earlier. She can't even access her e-mail account because she doesn't remember the password to this or any other of her accounts.
She also said the relationship we had could not continue. But if I was open to having lunch with her, she would be open to this
Now this poor woman is a single mother, she can't work, her daughter recently tried to commit suicide and she has no other source of income. So I'm thinking of giving her 500-1000 month to help her out, with no strings attached.
Is this stupid?
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I would say, if you like her, give her money regularly, so you don't have to play this game of her complaining, you helping her out. It must be pretty demeaning for her after a while. 
