This girl is in love with me, and i know that. I have sex with her, and I tried all the fun things on her. For example, anal (her first time), cof (her first time), cim...I did it all. Am I a jerk for doing all of there? I tried them all because I know I can because she loves me, I still love her though.
Am I a jerk for doing all of these?
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well when two people are in love ..sex is about pleasing your significant other, so unless she loaths about it later on, i say fair game, why dont you ask her about it though.
then again you probably are a jerk.
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then again you probably are a jerk.
ound:so this is just experimental stuff, both of you trying out something that you haven't done before, to judge the effects and feelings about it. that is all. Nothing that wrong with it if you both agree and enjoy. If one of you decides it isn't in the cards again, then that is it stop. Otherwise, enjoy and keep trying new things. I personally think COF is a bit degrading, but then if you DATY you kind of have the same thing in reverse.
It sounds like you're dealing with a conscience-question...
Sometimes, the guy leads the way into sexual experimentation. Sometimes it's the gal who leads the way.
Either way, if you feel it was consensual, and you weren't degrading her, and the two of you can come together saying, "Wow, that was crazy fun...I'd like to do this more, and that less, etc, etc, etc...", then your conscience should be clear.
Some things, we may never want to try. Other things, we may want to try to see if we like them. Just respect each other, while you experiment.
Sometimes, the guy leads the way into sexual experimentation. Sometimes it's the gal who leads the way.
Either way, if you feel it was consensual, and you weren't degrading her, and the two of you can come together saying, "Wow, that was crazy fun...I'd like to do this more, and that less, etc, etc, etc...", then your conscience should be clear.
Some things, we may never want to try. Other things, we may want to try to see if we like them. Just respect each other, while you experiment.
Those two phrases say it all. If it were true, mutually shared love, you'd have said we did it all and we tried them all.
Did she enjoy all those things?
What's next, 2 hour BBBJs, swingers clubs, STI tests?
