Well done there tied. You're going somewhere down the bondage/dom river. Got it!
As wannatry mentioned, Dominique Domme would be a great choice for bondage and forced strap-on and the other yummies you have described. You might also consider JessicaXXX or Mistress Miko locally. If you can handle a little percussion along with your torment, Mistress Petra should be on your radar screen. There are a few other dommes who would likely be happy to oblige too, such as Mistress Jasmine or Beautiful Anna or Mistress Freyja, but I dare not be presumptuous as a severe spanking may result. If you can make it across to Nanaimo, I would STRONGLY suggest a session with Mistress Lalani Electrica for serious bondage and pegging and forced stuff and whatever else your kinky little heart desires. She'll can totally knock it out of the park. One thing I would recommend you be clear about is your 'finishing expectations' and limits. Some domme's are 'by your own hand', some reward good boys with a release, some are YMMV, some are loving FS dommes (and might I say most of these wonderful ladies are very good at it). With regard to limits, honesty is the best policy. Be careful what you ask for--the Vancouver pro's will give it to you, so communication is essential. I sense you are an honest bloke, so best of luck to you, and we want to hear of your exploits once your wobbly knees return you safely to your computer.
Sincerely,
Punt.