About to get my first time spoon

[pwnageKing]

I'm very nervous right now, my hands are shaking.

I'm very worried about possible bait switch. How can I decline and get out of there if this happens? The mama-san told me to call her when I get to her condo.

I also heard you can get diseases from DATY as well. How can I reduce the risk of getting some?

Sorry for sounding noobish. You can tell I'm a first-timer.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

I'm very nervous right now, my hands are shaking.

I'm very worried about possible bait switch. How can I decline and get out of there if this happens? The mama-san told me to call her when I get to her condo.

I also heard you can get diseases from DATY as well. How can I reduce the risk of getting some?

Sorry for sounding noobish. You can tell I'm a first-timer.

And it's poon, Sweetie...take it easy, go with the flow, and do your best to relax and enjoy your first experience! Hopefully, you feel you got some good advice in your previous thread. :eyebrows:

 

[Pillowtalk]

You were talking to a mama-san and you question whether you will get a bait and switch.

*sigh*

Considering your concerns, then don't do daty, and don't allow a bbbj, and try to have fun with whoever shows up at the door, because it won't be the person you booked with. If it is, consider yourself a winner of the day lol.

 

[Pillowtalk]

And it's poon, Sweetie...take it easy, go with the flow, and do your best to enjoy your first experience! :eyebrows:

He might be a spoon collector, tho. Lots of people collect spoons to mark special events.

 

[pwnageKing]

thanks playfulalex. i will do my best

guess im going to get bait switched right pillowtalk...

 

[PlayfulAlex]

He might be a spoon collector, tho. Lots of people collect spoons to mark special events.

You've got a point there... :nod:

 

[grusse]

thanks playfulalex. i will do my best

guess im going to get bait switched right pillowtalk...

if you think you are getting a bait&switch....WALK AWAY.
you don't owe them sweet Fannie Adams

 

[pwnageKing]

Hey grusse. So if it's not her, I just turn around walk away? Are they going to catch me and force me to pay?

Also, I'm very afraid that the escort might steal my personal belongings while I'm taking shower and stuff. What can I do to prevent this?

 

[pwnageKing]

If you're this afraid of going this route, why don't you either just cancel or book with one of the independents that are reviewed here on PERB?

She's well reviewed. What's the difference between the lady I'm about to see and independents? I'm sure they both had lots of sex, and are equally risky. Correct me if I'm wrong, I don't mean to offend anyone. I'm very new to this.

 

[grusse]

Hey grusse. So if it's not her, I just turn around walk away? Are they going to catch me and force me to pay?

Also, I'm very afraid that the escort might steal my personal belongings while I'm taking shower and stuff. What can I do to prevent this?

1st,go to well-reviewed SP's.They have steady volume,not gonna rip you off(bad for business)
if you're really concerned,take your pants with you to the bathroom when you shower,but this is not necessary if you go to
the well-rev'd places.

 

[pwnageKing]

What do you mean "risky"? As in they are ready to steal all your stuff? Or as in they are swimming with disease?

If you are worried about your stuff being stolen, don't bring anything valuable and only bring the amount of the donation. If you are worried about disease bring dental dams, condoms and gloves. If you are just plain worried about everything, cancel and go back when you are not so scared because if you are this scared right now, it will probably stop you from having a fun time.

risky as in swimming in diseases. i've got to do this at some point in life, and i think this is it, or else i'll never be able to move on and stay sexless

 

[UhOh]

Dude you ain't ready yet. stay home a beat off for at least another year. By that time we'll be closer to having an all encompassing pooner's vaccine.
But if you feel you must go ahead than maybe start with just looking for a massage. That way you don't feel as if you are committing to too much. Bring your own soap towels and bed sheet if that makes you feel more comfortable.
I understand your concers but hormones are calling you away from the nest and you're going to have to take that first flight eventually.
Look up, don't look down.

 

[UhOh]

risky as in swimming in diseases. i've got to do this at some point in life, and i think this is it, or else i'll never be able to move on and stay sexless

I didn't see that part. If you ain't done it yet with anyone than back away, this isn't where you want to start. Hormones are one thing but you don't want to be living with regrets for the rest of your life. This is a sport for unhappily married guys.
Put your energy into finding a girlfriend then another and another and maybe a wife.
A lot of people may dissagree with me but thank god I didn't start with an sp.

 

[pwnageKing]

I didn't see that part. If you ain't done it yet with anyone than back away, this isn't where you want to start. Hormones are one thing but you don't want to be living with regrets for the rest of your life. This is a sport for unhappily married guys.
Put your energy into finding a girlfriend then another and another and maybe a wife.
A lot of people may dissagree with me but thank god I didn't start with an sp.

Hey uhoh, you're right, I'm probably not ready for this, and probably not with a sp as my first. But I feel like it's too late to back down now. I've already grabbed my balls and called her up, and got an appointment. If I back down now, I don't know when I'll get this kind of courage.

I've been studying STI chart (http://healthnurse.wordpress.com/faq-about-sexual-health/sti-risks-chart/) and I'm definitely going to put safety first. Probably will just ask massage or GFE.

 

[kickback]

LMAO...When I saw the post heading I thought he meant 'spoon' like he was going to be 'spooning' with an SP for the first time.

 

[Larry Storch]

 

[uncleg]

LMAO...When I saw the post heading I thought he meant 'spoon' like he was going to be 'spooning' with an SP for the first time.

...........didn't really think that, but it was a "WTF" moment.........................:doh:

uncleg approves..............................:thumb: Did he really need two threads about his "first" time.............ound:

 

[blazejowski]

Hate to say it, PwnageKing, but I don't think you're cut out for our world....

 

[gondor]

my first time was spent with a SP, it was awesome, yes, first time was more than nervous, I even thought i might not erect due to the nervousness. BUT everything went to great, SP knows how to relax you, please you, teach you how to deal with it !

 

[pwnageKing]

I think you'll be fine as long as you do your research. And there's nothing wrong with a single guy/virgin/celibate dude wanting to go to a provider for sex. You'd actually be surprised how many virgins providers see! I always try to make it this epic experience because in reality, losing your virginity is typically pretty meh. I love my virgins

You've done your research, you've picked someone well reviewed. Don't take anything of value with you if you are paranoid, though please don't assume because of someone's chosen profession they are automatically a thief. As far as her/the rest of us being disease, look around for someone who is 'Safe' GFE then (condoms for oral, no DATY or covered DATY) to reduce your risks. But honestly, if you do your research you'll be fine and you'll have a great time!

Thanks again for your advice Missy Mariposa!

However, despite all this research, and several senior perb members warnings about me not being ready
(which I was completely convinced until this morning), long story short, I couldn't hold my urge and met
with the SP at her condo.

She was very gorgeous, exactly as reviewed by others, and very kind and warm to me after I told her that I was a virgin and would like
safety first.

In short, I would've been very satisfied with just some hugging and pay the price and leave.

But things sort of went out of control after the shower.

We were just cuddling when she grabbed for junior and started HJ.

Next thing I knew, she put rubber on junior and started CBJ. I asked whether this was safe and she
told me it was.

After that, she put junior (with rubber) inside her. I'm not sure if rimming was somewhere between but
I never felt anything like it, and it was mind blowing.

Overall, we had CBJ, FS (with rubber), maybe rimming, HJ, fingering, russian, BLS, BS, instead of just hugging.

I feel very ashamed of myself for not able to stop myself, and for putting my life on the line for 45mins of pleasure.

I'm just wondering what is the next step for me. According to Health Nurse's blog, I should get tested.
But I also read that I need to wait a few days to prevent false positives and what not.

Not sure what to do, and very confused.