i was betrayed by the girl i had trusted most.
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Lawyering up?
Hope you have deep pockets and a stomach made of stainless steel.
The end result better be worth it financially or it is best to walk away with your money and health in good condition is my Humble Advise.
Good matrimonial lawyers typically run $450/hour and the first hour is not a free consultation. They will want you to move forward with a motion ASAP too. So once you have decided to move on it hold on to your jockstrap and be prepared to write some big cheques.
If you are still talking to her, I suggest a mediated solution and walk away with some $$$ instead of both of you being poor after the fact. This is where you have to keep your emo stuff in check. Suck em up in other words.
If you are dead set on doing it I suggest something I learned from Tony Soprano. Go visit every "good" matrimonial lawyer you can identify. They have to do a conflict check and if you have talked to them your SO is not able to use their services because of breech of confidentiality. It is worth the effort if you want to ensure you have a stacked deck if you ever have to go to court.
BTW if you can be identified on PERB via your cell phone or computer you will have to be prepared for her lawyer requesting your history on your cell phone, computer, credit card records, ATM withdrawls etc etc etc.
Move forward with extreme caution IMHO.
Gee, I read the post and responses a couple of times and thought being betrayed is serious stuff, however, maybe?...."turn the other cheek", "take the high road", "chauk it up to experience, and move on", "don't lower yourself", etc. etc...
Hate can eat you up.... I once read an article that said "forgiveness can do as much for the person doing the forgiving, as it does for the person being forgiven"
Hate can eat you up.... I once read an article that said "forgiveness can do as much for the person doing the forgiving, as it does for the person being forgiven"
your love that is what you called her.
now your going or thinking about legal action.
i don't know what happened but if you loved her, maybe you would accept what she did, as that is who she is or it made sense to her she needed to do it for what ever reason. you love her so forgive her, accept that she is flawed like yourself.
just a thought.
if its revenge well people get what they deserve in the end i believe what comes around goes around.
but if she is going to do it again to some one else like steal or what ever she did, maybe she should be stopped to protect other people,
but i kind of think with out more details forgive her, but perhaps move on.
the best revenge is actually haveing a wonderful life yourself
now your going or thinking about legal action.
i don't know what happened but if you loved her, maybe you would accept what she did, as that is who she is or it made sense to her she needed to do it for what ever reason. you love her so forgive her, accept that she is flawed like yourself.
just a thought.
if its revenge well people get what they deserve in the end i believe what comes around goes around.
but if she is going to do it again to some one else like steal or what ever she did, maybe she should be stopped to protect other people,
but i kind of think with out more details forgive her, but perhaps move on.
the best revenge is actually haveing a wonderful life yourself
I don't think you can seek legal action based on stalking an escort who doesn't want to see you again.
Lucky girl...? Hahaha mr, tourist 9394. If i see angie again.. she will be real lucky girl.
I am trying to piece together what this story is about .. It seem others know more from some other source other then this thread be cause very little has been said what actually is the problem, other then someones attitude..
If you are paying an SP . to be your one and only .. I guess that is a SD relationship .. But sorry to say slavery went out 150 yrs ago .. If she want to take your money and still see others .. only thing you can do is move on and find some one else ..
If you are paying an SP . to be your one and only .. I guess that is a SD relationship .. But sorry to say slavery went out 150 yrs ago .. If she want to take your money and still see others .. only thing you can do is move on and find some one else ..
Am I the only one creeped out by this guy? He's like ESL Bostich. Next thing you know he'll say this private SP of his was chained up in his basement.
Then it's time to change the theme song.
In all seriousness, sex isn't always free, but love is. Therefore if you're paying for it, this is a one-sided love. Those never end well, and it is only yourself to blame. You can either learn from this or make things get real ugly. My advice is, give yourself time to cool down and move on.
