Its no wonder so many guys pay for Prostitutes...

[XXXBod]

Im not talking about married guys... I guess they have there resins why they cheat on there wives/girl friends even though so many of them think there not cheating... Im talking about single guys like my self in our 30's and early 40's. Last night I went down to White Ave in Edmonton. It was a beautifule evening out and wanted to go out on the town in stead of sitting in my hotel room board out of my mind... There was lots of people out. Lots of really attractive looking women as well... But I swear any really decent or half decent girl I saw had a guy holding hands with her...

I guess its been this way for so many decades now, but it just seems to me unless your a certin height and build and have a certin GQ looking face, those seem to be for the most part the type of guys who are with these stunning looking women... And the rest of the women who wern't with guys just seem to mind there own business and not even make eye contact with any one. Its almost like women now a days have this, Im way above you kind of attitude. They dont care if guys are checking them out, or some guy might want to meet them. There just stuck in there onw little world it seems. I went to this Husky truck stop and I had a cute blonde waitress in her 20's I guess. And guess what? She had a nice rock on her wedding finger so you know she's already taken... I mean I dont get it?? How do these guys meet these stunning young women and there in a relationship with them??

Are these guys just so much better looking? Or how is it they are just in a relationship... I really wish I knew what to do... But I dont... I dont want to spend the rest of my life paying for women but I dont see my self ever finding happiness...

Sorry just had to rant...
Xxx

 

[Dgodus]

I'm curious to now how jaded some pooners become with regards to a civilians looks. I mean drop some coin and spend some time having sex with an escort who's ad photos could easily slip into a playboy without looking out of place; would be hard not to believe your "league" is a little higher than it in actuality is. Not saying that's specifically your case, simply curious.

Frankly I believe if you aren't a physical stunner, immaculatly dressed, make substantial money, or are otherwise very noteworthy (aka you're average); you aren't going to do well simply approaching people. I've done well for myself in the past with good looking women, however it was through personality and familiarity; had I approached them as a stranger with the same intent I most likely would have had no success at all.

About people in their own world (I'm gonna mini rant here). I'm often accused of this, it's not that I don't wish to be approached I'm simply not an overly social person so I don't go seeking it out when I'm out and about. Plenty of people are like this, they will respond if approached with something other than inane questions simply for the sake of conversation but otherwise feel no need to "meet"'people, they're simply quite content being who they are. It's not a character flaw like so many very social people looking to meet others and be friendly with everyone seem to think it is. And yes there are some genuinely crabby people out there, do you really wanna talk to those people?

 

[XXXBod]

As for me Im actually from Winnipeg. Im working out here as a truck driver. I have tattoos but now a days that's no big deal, lots of men and women have tats... my salary pays around $100K a year I believe... I dress well when I want to. I have some suits and fancy dressy shirts I some times wear. I look more like a biker I guess or maybe a rock star? But Im not the pretty boy Bon Jovi type. Im only a little over 5'7. I have long shoulder lengh hair. I dont know any one out here and I guess Im quite shy when it comes to metting women... I find it really awkward to just find the curage to just walk up to total strangers and try and strike up a conversation. I dont know what to say to them? And to be honest I think any guy all by him self in a strange city would feel awkward as well...

As far as my looks I can send you my facebook info...

Xxx

 

[Dgodus]

Oh no I wasn't insinuating you were a mongloid or anything, I don't need FB info, I'd never call someone a liar for claiming they look like a normal guy.

I never have been one to just randomly approach someone, and never start talking to someone for the purpose of meeting them. More so simply to pass a pleasant few minutes in conversation (another smoker outside of a building, someone else waiting for their drink to be poured, etc); it creates a very low pressure situation (in your own head) that is easy to walk away from if nothing comes of it (as nothing was supposed to anyways). Sometimes it evolves into an actual conversation.

I think people are simply tired of "lines", pretenses, and of other people wanting to, I don't know the best way to say it - skip part of the process. Plenty of people are so goal and "schedule" driven it really has become a turn off when the flag waves that someone is doing that to you. Think of the times a woman has tried to progress onto a "serious" relationship when it's still in a "casual" state and not letting it progress naturally. It's tedious isn't it?. How about meeting someone and they start on more personal questions under the guise of "getting to know you", how can they understand anything about the answers when they don't have any context of what you are or where you're coming from?

Just because I'm in my 30's I don't feel a need to accelerate any social interactions, in fact being older now I prefer a slower pace. The last woman I date told me I "wasted her time" because I didn't want to move at her speed and I decided she wasn't for me. We hadn't been involved for more than 3 or 4 weeks ffs! So when confronted with certain behavior I'll personally just shut it down beforehand (I've got escorts now, that entertains me fine for the moment, especially the ones who really can pull off the "gf every now and again" aspect of it); I imagine alot of people are in the same boat and "just can't be bothered" dealing with all the baggage that comes along with it and are perfectly satisfied with their lives at that point.

I dunno, when speaking to an attractive woman I'll talk to her like any other woman who I would be speaking to like any other person, young/old/male/female, I think it comes off as genuine without pretense or motive and people appreciate that.

 

[XXXBod]

I think my problem is I just don't know if I really can meet women I've never had any luck with them. And I'm not getting any younger. I fear its that old cliche well unless you look like this guy you might as well forget it... and that scares me because I don't wanna be with someone just for the sake of being with them if I'm not even interested in them... but I also feel I may not have any choice in the matter..

Xxx

 

[Master69]

xxxbod, it's never too late to learn Game

I could go on for hours about Game, but let me get right to it.

1) Check out Lovesystems (Do a search. I can't post the URL address cuz Mod will delete it). They are the largest and best organized PUA company out there.

2) Buy and read "Magic Bullets" by Savoy. Digest it. Learn it well. The "Routines Manuals" may be a help too.

3) If you want a history of the early years of Game and how it was developed, read "The Game" by Neil Strauss

4) Now, with the basics under your belt, take a "boot camp". This is where you learn to pick-up women at bars, in night clubs, lounges etc. I see by the schedule Braddock (whom I recommend) is giving a camp in LA in a couple of weeks, with the famous Mr. M.

(Vegas is a great place for a boot camp and PUA practice, but for some reason there's none scheduled until October)

Tenmagnet and Cajun are both good PUA coaches and are Canadian. Tenmagnet has upcoming bootcamps in Calgary and Montreal. He's in his 30s.

5) Consider one-on-one coaching. If you are older, Bullet (he's 50) is a good choice. Cajun is also a great PUA coach. He's short, not particularly good-looking.......and can really pull the girls!

6) Now, take a "Day Game" camp. Nick Hoss (who is from Saskatchewan) is leading these now (he took over from Soul). He's an All-Star PUA! Great at Day Game. Make sure you rest your feet before the camp...and bring good shoes.

The nice thing about Day Game is you can use it anytime, anywhere, and you don't need a wing-man.

The next move is yours!

 

[XXXBod]

Lol too funny... me and Nick Savoy talk quite often. One day I might take a boot camp with Tenmagnet .... I'm actually looking to maybe do some sarging this Sunday if any one wants to PM me.

Xxx

 

[Bobo The Rabbit]

How do you possibly keep interested in a woman after you ejaculate into her?

I have no interest in a relationship, I don't want to be with someone who is needy or someone who I need to support (emotionally or financially). I don't want to have to impress a girl to get her attention or have to jump threw hoops because she believes "shes worth it".
I do want kids, I do want to get married, I do want grand kids one day but I don't believe that is going to happen for me.
I just want a woman who is normal, nice, kind, sweet and it would be nice if I found her attractive and she found me attractive, however I have wasted my youth with my self indulgent behavior and I cant even bring myself to fringe interest after having sex with her due to the fact that women are just sex objects to me and not "real people". It feels like such a strain to have to talk to them some times.

Women are just exhausting, not in a good way either.

 

[satinguy]

Prior to the relationship that i am in now, I think i can say that i did fairly well with the Ladies. Certainly not a brad Pitt type but i spent time with ladies of all types. I dated some "hotties" in my late teen early 20's and also spent time with some who would be considered average. Honestly, looks are not everything and i know that sounds like a load of bull but some of the best times i have had would have been with girls who were not Victoria Secret models. I like going to the Lake, attending sports events, concerts, festivals that kind of thing and find that the 9's and 10's out there just were not into my kind of fun.

My current spouse is fairly attractive, I would rate her as a 7 maybe even 7.5 but her appeal to me is in our common interests and compatibility. I think when you choosing a partner that compatiability is most important. You can only spend so much time in the bedroom so you should ensure there is more to your relationship than just physical. I turn 40 this year so maybe my perspective has changed but looking back on the past, I could have avoided some grief by choosing companions with more of a criteria than simply looks. Hope you all find happiness in your mates.

 

[overdone]

How do you possibly keep interested in a woman after you ejaculate into her?

It involves having a personality, it also probably helps if you aren't a complete douche too. :nod:

 

[XXXBod]

I mean I am glad we have providers. Some of us are shy and just awkward around women and some of us just don't want to bother getting into a real relationship... as I said I just don't want to spend the rest of my life paying for it because I feel I have but no choice to...

Xxx

 

[unlucky]

to be quite serious i have dated a few hot ladies in the past and have not had a good time simply high maintenance your paying alot to keep them and when your money runs out say example you get laid off or payday was a little less for different reasons they leave ya . been there done that woudl probably not do it again. why pay tons of money for something you might not get when you can go to a mp see a hot one and blow your load for less.

 

[Dialkisfief]

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[kiwi_spawn]

It involves having a personality, it also probably helps if you aren't a complete douche too. :nod:

I am in complete agreement !!!!

 

[Caramel]

well its obvious you are only looking for free sex...and I have noticed that a lot of women are becoming more conservative nowadays. I have been thinking about this lately, when I was in high school, during the sex and the city era, mainstream women were a lot more open with their sexuality than they are today. I suspect it has something to do with the transparency of the internet and the public slut-shaming going on on websites like thedirty or even twitter and facebook...Even Kim Kardashian is acting in a way like her sex tape never existed. It seems like a total shift. Not sure if I'm getting older, or if this is true...because even high school generations are becoming more uptight all of a sudden...

 

[XXXBod]

Jenna Im not sure if I totally agree with that... I was never a wild party guy even in my early 20's. Tonight I went down to Whyte Ave and man there were people every where! One thing I have always found very frusterating in these situations is this. Hot women or even just women who dress sexy wont bat en eye lash at you unless you might look like Justin Bieber or in that catagory. But I swear now a days women are just as out of controle as guys are.

You got to be very aggressive and be the party animal it seems. Women in there cars yelling as they drive buy, guys yelling and swearing in there cars as they drive by, guys giving girls piggy back rides as they walk down the side walks. Its like one big party right on Whyte Ave. I was just standing around having a smoke when three very sexy girls just walked right by me like I wasn't even there and the one said lets pick up some guys and they walked over to these two East Indian dudes who looked like models.

I think women are just as Superficial as men are now a days. These two smoking hot looking Sapnish girls in tank tops and white shorts on, they just stood still for like five miniutes and in that five minutes they had like three different guys try and hit on them. I mean its no wonder women now a days have such alter egos. Take Facebook and Twitter for example. All a girl has to do is take a cell pic of her ass in a thong or some tit shots or just her standing in a bikini and in just minutes watch all the guys kiss her ass with comments.

Maybe if guys wernt to pussy whiped the minute some chick shows some TNA maybe you wouldn't get so many women who think there just the shit and blow off guys cause they think its fun.

Xxx

 

[Christian Bale]

Jenna Im not sure if I totally agree with that... I was never a wild party guy even in my early 20's. Tonight I went down to Whyte Ave and man there were people every where! One thing I have always found very frusterating in these situations is this. Hot women or even just women who dress sexy wont bat en eye lash at you unless you might look like Justin Bieber or in that catagory. But I swear now a days women are just as out of controle as guys are.

You got to be very aggressive and be the party animal it seems. Women in there cars yelling as they drive buy, guys yelling and swearing in there cars as they drive by, guys giving girls piggy back rides as they walk down the side walks. Its like one big party right on Whyte Ave. I was just standing around having a smoke when three very sexy girls just walked right by me like I wasn't even there and the one said lets pick up some guys and they walked over to these two East Indian dudes who looked like models.

I think women are just as Superficial as men are now a days. These two smoking hot looking Sapnish girls in tank tops and white shorts on, they just stood still for like five miniutes and in that five minutes they had like three different guys try and hit on them. I mean its no wonder women now a days have such alter egos. Take Facebook and Twitter for example. All a girl has to do is take a cell pic of her ass in a thong or some tit shots or just her standing in a bikini and in just minutes watch all the guys kiss her ass with comments.

Maybe if guys wernt to pussy whiped the minute some chick shows some TNA maybe you wouldn't get so many women who think there just the shit and blow off guys cause they think its fun.

Xxx

Maaaan, I know guys who are ugly as ffffuck and have no problem picking up women. If you are trying to get the women from the Nightlife, you will need to be way more aggressive and witty/funny than If you were trying to get a normal non slutty girl. Just realize that any woman on whyte avenue will give you 2 seconds to make an impression but if your swag isn't up to par, she goin tell you to fuck off bro. I know you could do it brother!

And Jenna Caramel, seems like you've lost touch with reality. Women are sluttier and more uhhh hmmm---ambitious than ever LOOOOL.

 

[Dickson]

It involves having a personality, it also probably helps if you aren't a complete douche too. :nod:

Well that pretty well takes me out of the game.

 

[XXXBod]

And Jenna Caramel, seems like you've lost touch with reality. Women are sluttier and more uhhh hmmm---ambitious than ever LOOOOL.[/QUOTE]

I totally agree!!

 

[Thelyhi]

First make the money, then you get the bitches.

Wasn't that from Scarface?
Anyway, I worked in this western restaurant and some hot late 20's maybe early 30's Asian woman dressed 'til the nines, all dolled up to be on fashion show,big hair,make-up and form fitting designer dress. Her man or sugar daddy? Was balding,combed over,four-eyes in a wife beater stained T-shirt and surfer shorts with pale old man legs possible late 50's and in flip-flops.This was when smoking was allowed, he smoked a wall of cigar smoke to her face and she hardly said a word as she ate her din-din.
This was after the lunch hour and another couple on the far side of the spectrum sat adjacent to the first couple. This very old man had a wife,but didn't care about her and just stared at the Asian lady while eating his food and smoking cigarettes. He may be old,but certainly not blind.

Make the money to get some honey.