I visited a young escort few days ago, and i had seen her before. Once i gave her the money, her attitude wasn't so great. But as the session went on, i wanted some other services, as long as i told her i would gave her extra money, I could see the change in her attitude when i handed her extra money but I wasn't into the session... It saddened me to see how a girl that young would act because of money... I hope she could find a new life, and i am sorry for her. If possible, i hope someone would help her out a little bit. Have you ever felt sorry for any escort?
Have you ever felt sorry for any escort?
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Yeah, that's why I try to stick to high class, quality escorts who aren't being driven by circumstances so much. Ones that have options, can screen clients, enjoy regular repeat customers (usually upscale). It's just better.
Sex work certainly falls on a spectrum. There is such a thing as survival sex work and it's not nice. On the other hand I wonder if escorts ever feel sorry for us?
Chasing a fantasy with our hard-earned dough and hoping to delude ourselves into thinking they're really turned on. Does happen sometimes which is what makes this activity a little addictive. It's good to do while you're young. Don't wait until you're old!Yes many many times. Too many times for me to count. It is at that point I get sucker punched.
I am just a sucker for a pretty face. The more I get to know them the more I get pulled in. Especially when the "I want to be friends" flag goes up.
I am just a sucker for a pretty face. The more I get to know them the more I get pulled in. Especially when the "I want to be friends" flag goes up.
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Yes, really sorry several years ago. Went to a session booked over the phone blind date type thing. As the session started and the undressing was progressing it was obvious the gal, about mid twenties, was crying. It was obvious she did not want to be doing this, and could not hold back the tears. I hadn't more than undone the shoelaces when that was noted, and decided right then and there to get the hell out. I just bolted, shoelaces undone and all. Actually it was several months after that before I even thought of attending at another SP place. Sickening experience.
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I' ve been lucky so far in that the girls I have seen appear to be working to support their shopping lifestyle or saving to travel or go to school etc. in that vein I don't have any guilt or feel like I am taking advantage of their circumstances + most of them seem to have a fun time with me. I agree it would be a total mood killer to be in a situation where the girl is in dire straits or crying. Not my cup of tea.
It's the older ones that I wonder if they shouldn't have an exit strategy. I don't feel sorry for anyone, but some should definitely consider retiring. Or updating their photos. I'm sure an SP who is 50, is going to look mighty attractive to a guy who is 80, but I'm not there yet.
Yup some do. From reasons of the our bodies not working the best anymore, to not taking the best care of ourselves, to someone who lacks confidence but really shouldn't. It's a good human characteristic to feel empathy for someone struggling with whatever. Tbh I'd rather a provider feel a little sorry about something like me being frustrated at not being able to get hard than her be annoyed or much worse thinking "great I don't have to have sex with this guy now".Yeah, that's why I try to stick to high class, quality escorts who aren't being driven by circumstances so much. Ones that have options, can screen clients, enjoy regular repeat customers (usually upscale). It's just better.
Sex work certainly falls on a spectrum. There is such a thing as survival sex work and it's not nice. On the other hand I wonder if escorts ever feel sorry for us?
Yep, me too. Most of the time it's 'sucker bait', and I've gotten hooked, line and sinker...took a few times to wake up to the fact that most of the time it's a play on your heart strings, since most of us are decent fellas who take a few punches to the face to realize that you have to duck those sucker punches...
Youth has a tendency to think that the current state will continue on for the long term, if not forever! They just cannot fathom anything changing or becoming more difficult in the future! And our culture is so spending-oriented that, when the $500 comes in the door, it's pretty hard for her not to go out the door...to the mall!
I applaud any of the young ladies here that have an exit strategy...no one will need to feel sorry for them, if they consider the future, make a plan, and stick to it! There is hardly a better opportunity than this work, to do so! Wakey, wakey...
you are a sensitive guy.
Maybe once or twice, I felt the same way as you did.
However, I realized that maybe you just have to enjoy the moment, so did the girls.
Maybe once or twice, I felt the same way as you did.
However, I realized that maybe you just have to enjoy the moment, so did the girls.
yeah sometimes
and i guess with some girls more then others
i would reveal to much personal info to explain why
but i think its easy for a guy to enjoy this hobby, and yet have a normal life
family etc, job respect in the community and at work and with family its easy for us guys to have our fun and carry on long a normal family man
its a hell of a lot harder for a women in this,
to carry on with some sort of a normal life, with her kids the rest of her family find a man if she wants one
to get any kind of respect any where it pretty hard for these girls.
and i guess to put up with us, or even me,
its hard some times to deal with people and well just a strain and well these women do it with lots of us guys.
i pay them money and never bitch about what i pay them, i think they earn it no matter what they charge,
and to be honest when i repeat with a lady, i ask her what can i do to make it easier for her, anything at all
but at the end of the day its there choice to do what they do, its there life,
and i guess its my life as well.
and i guess with some girls more then others
i would reveal to much personal info to explain why
but i think its easy for a guy to enjoy this hobby, and yet have a normal life
family etc, job respect in the community and at work and with family its easy for us guys to have our fun and carry on long a normal family man
its a hell of a lot harder for a women in this,
to carry on with some sort of a normal life, with her kids the rest of her family find a man if she wants one
to get any kind of respect any where it pretty hard for these girls.
and i guess to put up with us, or even me,
its hard some times to deal with people and well just a strain and well these women do it with lots of us guys.
i pay them money and never bitch about what i pay them, i think they earn it no matter what they charge,
and to be honest when i repeat with a lady, i ask her what can i do to make it easier for her, anything at all
but at the end of the day its there choice to do what they do, its there life,
and i guess its my life as well.
Tonight I had reason to drive along Kingsway and in Burnaby near Griffiths spotted a young nice looking gal street walking. Our eyes met and suddenly I saw the despair in her face and felt so sorry knowing the hopelessness she faces. I kept driving. I should have stopped and gave her money for food but then if le was watching, would they have believed that.
Yeah one time I came in a azn sp's mouth and it was a huge load and she started gagging and coughing, and her eyes starting watering. I felt so bad, kinda felt sorry for her because I know alot of men prob have done that to her. After that I never did cim again.
I've felt sorry for a few of them over the years. The worst was a very young white girl who I picked up off the street. She was very cute and friendly, but you could tell she had a drug problem...I told her she seriously needed to get help, because whatever she was addicted to was going to kill her. I felt like a piece of shit, because she agreed to a facial and looked like she was going to throw up when my jizz hit her face...
At the same time, a few times I have felt sorry for myself knowing that I worked my ass off, and the SP hardly valued the money...and obviously, she put very a lousy effort into the session...
At the same time, a few times I have felt sorry for myself knowing that I worked my ass off, and the SP hardly valued the money...and obviously, she put very a lousy effort into the session...
Worst I ever saw was a friend of mine who was really into coke - recreationaly, at first. I knew this, and we were able to make a sex-for-money arrangement which worked out great. As the years went by, she got worse, and worse, and kept selling everything she had for crack - I lost touch with her, but when I saw her, she was considering going into rehab, and I helped her every which way I could. Not monetarily, but with anything else.
I am pleased to say she went thru a successful rehab program, and we have become better friends now. No sex, no arrangements, but I always felt horrible for her cause I saw her at her lowest, and in some ways contributed to her addiction. But she is doing great now, and that makes me happy...
I am pleased to say she went thru a successful rehab program, and we have become better friends now. No sex, no arrangements, but I always felt horrible for her cause I saw her at her lowest, and in some ways contributed to her addiction. But she is doing great now, and that makes me happy...
