How do you ask "The Question" over the phone?

[XXXBod]

When ever I call up a new girl or agency, I always wuss out when asking what services do they provide... I mean how many times have you called up a lady and she shows up, takes your money and you get down to business and then you find out she doesn't do DATTY or BBBJ or what ever really turns you on in the sac and mean while you just paid her 3 bills. If you knew all this before hand, maybe you would not have booked her. I don't like to ask those kinds of questions over the phone and I know from years back a few Escort Agencies or Indy's don't like to discuss those types of details over the phone. Even just the slang, BBBJ or CIM or DATTY I dont think most girls like to discuss that over the phone. This is why I prefer text messaging. I guess for me its easier to just type it in the phone then say it out loud to some one. Sounds kinda weird but that's just me. So what is the best way to not be so vulgar or graphic over the phone to ask a provider if she offers those types of services? I guess you could just ask "Is everything covered?" Then I guess she would tell you over the phone if she offers it or not... Hmm I think I may have answered my own question... lol



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[blazejowski]

I honestly try to avoid phone calls, I prefer to stick to emails, and failing that, texting...

 

[CliveAllen]

Got to agree with Blaze. Text and email.

 

[blazejowski]

Part of the reason I see SP's is that I suck at picking up women in real life - I am the type of guy that is oblivious to a girl hitting on him, even though she'd wearing a t-shirt that says "Fuck me Blaze"
So the appeal with SP's is I can ask what I want anonymously online, and that helps things out a lot.

 

[johnniejetpack]

I agree with you guys that text/email is better sometimes. I always want to speak to the SP on the phone before I head over though. You can't always pick up some things in an email. Things like she's a flake or she's strung out, especially if you are going to TOFTT. You can hear it on the phone right away. If you are on the phone, ask something like "what restrictions do you have?" or "what types of sessions do you offer?" This may get her comfortable with talking about the subject and she may open up. If not, follow up with an email later.

I hope this helps, Peace out dudes

 

[XXXBod]

I feel more comfertable in text messages rather then discussing it over the phone. But there's a few Sp's who specifically say in there ads, "NO BLOCKED CALLS OR TEXT MESSAGES!" I can understand the blocked calls but I rather do text messaging my self. johnniejetpack I like the "what restrictions do you have?" Sounds more professional.

 

[WreckBeach]

I'm not very good on the phone, I prefer email contact when possible lol...

Just be upfront and ask directly. No sense in beating around the bush and getting vague answers that could fuck up your session.

 

[george.caruthers]

I just ask what do you offer and what do you not offer. If what I am looking for does not come up, then I ask directly. I usually do this part by email, with a phone call to follow up. Voice is important to me.

 

[WreckBeach]

I just ask what do you offer and what do you not offer. If what I am looking for does not come up, then I ask directly. I usually do this part by email, with a phone call to follow up. Voice is important to me.

Yeah, ditto on the bit about voice. A persons phone manners and how they talk can tell you a lot about them. I've opted out a few times just based on how flaky or rude the girl sounds...

 

[Ms. Yoko Anna]

Can those question be answered by visiting her website?

Main reason I do not like to be asked what I do and don't do, rate, and such is that It is on my website.
I would like everyone who see me for the first time to at least quickly skim through my website to be familiar with me and my service.
I have a set of hygiene standard that I take seriously, and I would like everyone to know what can be done for a delightful session.

And someone who phones me and ask "hi, do you offfer bbbj and cim?", I can tell the person did not spend his 5min to visit my website, then I say "please visit my website, there is a lot of info I would like you to know."
If he said, "oh I did, but could not find the info"
I tend to think either he is a lier or a not a sharp guy...... And this happens quite often.
(speaking of that, I would appreciate some feedback on my website. Is it really easy to locate info as I think it is?
It is ratherj off the topic of this thread, so you can pm me or email me!)

 

[Hole In The Sky]

Got to agree with Blaze. Text and email.

LOL I do that also

 

[XXXBod]

Hi Yoko. In fact I did see your web site and Its good that providers like you mention what you offer and will not offer. I know some SP's like Zoe mention what's on the menu. Some SP's even have it spelled out in case your not familiar with the Term's like they will have

CBJ (Condom Blow Job)
BBBJ (Blow Job With Out A Condom)
DATTY (Dinner At The Y) And so on... It would be nice if all providers mentioned everything they offer that way guys don't have to call or text and ask them.



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Can those question be answered by visiting her website?

Main reason I do not like to be asked what I do and don't do, rate, and such is that It is on my website.
I would like everyone who see me for the first time to at least quickly skim through my website to be familiar with me and my service.
I have a set of hygiene standard that I take seriously, and I would like everyone to know what can be done for a delightful session.

And someone who phones me and ask "hi, do you offfer bbbj and cim?", I can tell the person did not spend his 5min to visit my website, then I say "please visit my website, there is a lot of info I would like you to know."
If he said, "oh I did, but could not find the info"
I tend to think either he is a lier or a not a sharp guy...... And this happens quite often.
(speaking of that, I would appreciate some feedback on my website. Is it really easy to locate info as I think it is?
It is ratherj off the topic of this thread, so you can pm me or email me!)

 

[XXXBod]

Quote: Can those question be answered by visiting her website?

Yes but not all providers have web sites and most don't mention what they offer. most just say GFE And in my experience GFE seems to really varry when it comes to different providers... Some say they are GFE yet don't kiss or really treat you like there your girl friend. And some go the whole nine yards. Just like some advertise PSE yet everything is covered and they don't do any more then a normal safe girl friend experence would do yet they charge more money for it...

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