Has anyone here ever dated a SP before?? I'm caucasian and have talked about going on a date with an asian SP, limited english but not too bad, and she's super sweet. But seems kinda weird, any thoughts? SP's feel free to comment on this as well, if you have or thought about dating a client.
Dating an SP
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I'm sold, going to make some popcorn and search the archives!! Any of these as good as the misty moonlight fiasco I read not too long ago?
Or maybe I don't want to waste time searching through archives that may or may not be helpful. Or maybe if you don't want to contribute to this, then you don't have to. This is the proper forum for this is it not? If you just can't bear talking about this repetitious subject, don't, and start a thread about something else.
Just search the archives dude, think of how much of a waste of time we think it is repeating the same thing over & over again.
Here is one or two realities of dating an SP .. It will cost you money just like any relationship ? friend ship ? GF ? How much that depends on you . If you turn in tio the friend then there will probably be no sex . But some teasing and just maybe once in a while to keep you interested .. You can also just offer to pay for it like you always did .. that might be cheaper .
I seem to have dates or am friends with one or two .. I don't expect sex from them on a pay per use .. it works for me and them and it is not exactly
the same as a client because we hang out before and after .
As for Asian Sp there is more going on then just GF so as long as you know that you won;t be too surprised when she asked for some help in other areas .
Every one needs help if you are the type of guy that like doing it and does not mind giving more then they get .. It might be the start of a beautiful relationship
Good Luck . I am happy with mine
I seem to have dates or am friends with one or two .. I don't expect sex from them on a pay per use .. it works for me and them and it is not exactly
the same as a client because we hang out before and after .
As for Asian Sp there is more going on then just GF so as long as you know that you won;t be too surprised when she asked for some help in other areas .
Every one needs help if you are the type of guy that like doing it and does not mind giving more then they get .. It might be the start of a beautiful relationship
Good Luck . I am happy with mine
WOW!!
First of all this was a genuine attempt for honest feedback regarding the dating thing. I've NEVER read anything in this section before, and I know if I'm curious about seeing an SP then searching reviews is wise. Since this is not the case, and I simply wanted to open a dialogue on this I figure start a new thread. Simple as that.
Second, for the people who think it's a waste of time to talk about this, yet find time to write that they don't have time, blow me! Go troll somewhere else, there was never a reason for the hostile attitudes, and really, don't respond with more. Give your heads a shake! Go rant and rave on CL about it! And the next time someone brings up politics, or the Canucks, or how it snowed today, tell them you're sick of talking about the same old shit, weather, sports, there couldn't possibly ever be a new thought on an old idea.
Lame
First of all this was a genuine attempt for honest feedback regarding the dating thing. I've NEVER read anything in this section before, and I know if I'm curious about seeing an SP then searching reviews is wise. Since this is not the case, and I simply wanted to open a dialogue on this I figure start a new thread. Simple as that.
Second, for the people who think it's a waste of time to talk about this, yet find time to write that they don't have time, blow me! Go troll somewhere else, there was never a reason for the hostile attitudes, and really, don't respond with more. Give your heads a shake! Go rant and rave on CL about it! And the next time someone brings up politics, or the Canucks, or how it snowed today, tell them you're sick of talking about the same old shit, weather, sports, there couldn't possibly ever be a new thought on an old idea.
Lame
Thx Old Maxx! I'm not opposed to dating this woman, but I'm pretty sure I'm not going to have her as a girlfriend either. However, I have thought about her asking for help in other areas, like financial, or maybe wanting to stay in the country for longer type help, and although I'm the nice guy who has a hard time saying no to people in need, I'm always cautious about not being taken advantage of. I've never dated an SP before though, or an asian one at that, so I guess I'm hoping to not hear about any horror stories!
And ya I guess like any date it could be pricey, but I guess the donations wouldn't be necessary anymore eh?!
And ya I guess like any date it could be pricey, but I guess the donations wouldn't be necessary anymore eh?!
Although not overtly stated, most threads about dating escorts are about dating caucasian escorts. I would say there is a huge difference between dating an ESL Asian SP and a caucasian SP.
I'll make it simple for ya. You're a mark, she sees you as a possible cash machine, a link to staying here in Canada....who knows, but mostly watch your ass. These girls learned to survive in a tough market back home where scruples are secondary, so she came here to make money, maybe meet a nice mark like you to cash in on or to anchor herself here, or to set you up for a long term leaching....but it's your life, do what you want.
There are two types of sp's. Girls that want to do this, and girls that have to do this. I've found it easier to get close to the girls that have to do this because then theres a possibility that if a relationship were to happen, then other ways of getting an income are possible. For me it always comes down to them moving on with there life in a more positve and happier situation and also more emotionally managable for the both of us. I'm fairly sensitive and the closer i get, the harder it is. (while there working as an sp.) I dated a woman who i met in this industry for about a year and it was was probably the most important year of not only my life but hers as well. (plus the sex was amazing)She stopped working in the industry shortly after we met and we are great friends over two years later.
I'm not sure about being with and sp from another culture tho. I don't think i would take that chance.
Furthermore, this is a lounge and if you don't like the topic then don't reply. I think there are always new insights and things that people can share here.
I'm not sure about being with and sp from another culture tho. I don't think i would take that chance.
Furthermore, this is a lounge and if you don't like the topic then don't reply. I think there are always new insights and things that people can share here.
This sounds like a terrible idea to me. Take what I say with a grain of salt as after pissing away the back half of my 20's on BS I want any relationship I have to have to word Business firmly affixed in front of it, nor is it time wise possible with what I have to do in catching up with where planning for my future should be.
Dating an provider that works in the industry out of necessity involves way too much potential of you being a "mark" if you ask me. On top of that why would you want to get involved with a provider when you couldn't handle them working in the industry while you were together? Glad it worked out for you but it seems to me waaaay more often than not that situation would lead to a spectacular train wreck (somebody else correct me if I'm wrong in that assumption). Yikes!
just a couple of thoughts
sps are just women, ok
they want and expect the same thing any other women wants period
and sure sps have issues, but well every one has issues, and i mean every one has issues, if you think you don't well,
i have seen an sp for eight years, and to be honest, it feels like im dating her,
and honestly im married but i might if i wasn't
not sure me and her are material for getting married, but we have lasted seeing each other for almost a decade, we like each other and are comfortable with each other,
hell i would date her, but
well that is easy to say, in the real world whos to know, its easy to get along when you see each other a few hours here and there,
i have said it before sex is easy, people make such a big deal about it,
its relationships that last which are difficult to sustain for years and years.
but honestly sps are just women they come in all shapes and sizes and personalities, there not broken or damaged,
any more then the guys us that pay for them
sps are just women, ok
they want and expect the same thing any other women wants period
and sure sps have issues, but well every one has issues, and i mean every one has issues, if you think you don't well,
i have seen an sp for eight years, and to be honest, it feels like im dating her,
and honestly im married but i might if i wasn't
not sure me and her are material for getting married, but we have lasted seeing each other for almost a decade, we like each other and are comfortable with each other,
hell i would date her, but
well that is easy to say, in the real world whos to know, its easy to get along when you see each other a few hours here and there,
i have said it before sex is easy, people make such a big deal about it,
its relationships that last which are difficult to sustain for years and years.
but honestly sps are just women they come in all shapes and sizes and personalities, there not broken or damaged,
any more then the guys us that pay for them
As an ESL Asian SP, I want to contribute to the thread, but cannot come up with with anything profound. Huh.
I have had a client who had fallen in love with a Korena SP, and we spend pretty much three hours discussing what is the best way to deal with it. She wants to quit the job, but she is not capable of quitting yet. And they have huge language barrier. They were beyond client-sp relationship as there was no monetary exchange. So I suggested him to find out what does she need the money for (family obligation?) and possibly funding some tuition for her ESL schools.
He went home, and called her, suggested the idea, but appaearently she did not understand the part he wants her to go to school for ESL and he would pay for it.
So, it is hard. It is same with any inter-racial relationship, I assume.
I don't think being a SP adds much difficulties in the relationship in regard with cultural difficulties.
But if you want her to quit the job, you may want to make sure there are no family member who needs the money back home.
Also, if you want her to learn English well enough for communication, it is only fair, I think, that you learn her language as well. At least the effort is appreciated to us. You need to communicate with her family as well. Asians are very much faily oriented. We like guys who care about our parents as much as their parents.
just curious
if you guys think so highly of an sp or any sp, that you wouldn't date one
why do you bother seeing them,
i can't speak for every sp, out there, but the ones i have seen, or know are just typical women who happen to work as escorts
i see her or the ones i have repeated with, because i enjoy there company, i respect them and like them as a human being,
i like her period, as a women and as a friend.
i wouldn't see a women repeatedy i didn't like and respect, and that is good enough to at least trying dating and see where it goes.
it seems odd to me, that you or men don't respect the women in this enough to try dating or give it a chance,
i agree, it won't or isn't going to be easy, if she continues to work as an sp or even quits at some point,
but is any relationship easy
but like i said i have been with a women in this so much it feels like were dating. and i have a wife, she has some one as well,
but honestly we put our cards on the table.
i think you have to start with honesty. and truth,
and i think that says alot if you think there isn't one women in this that is worth risking or taking a chance on and dating her
maybe the problem isn't the women
im just saying
would any women be good enough for you
if you guys think so highly of an sp or any sp, that you wouldn't date one
why do you bother seeing them,
i can't speak for every sp, out there, but the ones i have seen, or know are just typical women who happen to work as escorts
i see her or the ones i have repeated with, because i enjoy there company, i respect them and like them as a human being,
i like her period, as a women and as a friend.
i wouldn't see a women repeatedy i didn't like and respect, and that is good enough to at least trying dating and see where it goes.
it seems odd to me, that you or men don't respect the women in this enough to try dating or give it a chance,
i agree, it won't or isn't going to be easy, if she continues to work as an sp or even quits at some point,
but is any relationship easy
but like i said i have been with a women in this so much it feels like were dating. and i have a wife, she has some one as well,
but honestly we put our cards on the table.
i think you have to start with honesty. and truth,
and i think that says alot if you think there isn't one women in this that is worth risking or taking a chance on and dating her
maybe the problem isn't the women
im just saying
would any women be good enough for you
