Would you care if your SP has a boyfriend/husband/spouse?

[Ms. Yoko Anna]

Hi there

I am throwing a question that I always have wondered.

If not much of recent thread on this topic is going on, I would like to open a poll.

Please take a moment to think about it.

Sincerely

Yoko Anna
Xoxo

 

[luvsdaty]

Nope, don't really think it's any of my business.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

it's none of my business so i don't want to know

if the lady insists on telling me then i will receive the information with a neutral mind

if what she tells me indicates greivous abuse, then i will tell her so (unless i really want to see her again, then i'll keep my mouth shut lol )

 

[the old maxx50]

I voted no i don't care .. but actually there are two aspects that i have seen a few escorts that said they had a boy friend or SO .. Some i have be come friends with and meet the boy friend and got to know them . Other escorts that i knew .. started dating a fellow perb that i knew in both those case i stopped seeing the girls because i did not want any confrontation or it harming the friendship i had with both .. When the relationship ended then i had no problem seeing them again.

If i had not meet the person then it would not have stopped me from seeing the girl .. Now there are any number of screwed up situations that i can accept also Like knowing and seeing girls living with ex boy friends and all so seeing a lady i knew were swingers be for i meet both of them .. So some i won't some i will.. Different strokes for different situations .. and how comfortable I feel doing it.

 

[donovan12345]

I have no problem with the SP having a SO. Don't even want to know unless I had some kind of hopes of seeing the SP on a regular basis and then for my info only. In most cases I would assume that there is a home in addition to the incall location or at least would hope so. Not my idea of fun to get interrupted by the unexpected arrival home of the SO.

 

[sevenofnine]

its just a given isn't it, that girls have a someone in there life, or at least trying to have some one in there life.

there human, humans last time i walked down the mall or went out we seemed to be paired boy girl boy girl,
at least most of us, i think sometimes people can just get tired of relationships or the pressure of making a relationship work or people in general, and just want to be alone, i have been there myself, were its just nice to be alone, but generally most people want someone in there life.


to be honest with you i prefer women that have some one in there life.
im married and not interested in a relationship, well i want want while the session or with in the session, i like the chemistry the friendship, the emotional sort of closeness you can get with some one, it makes the sex better or more comfortable.

but i have been with women and they say or tell me i don't have to leave period, i can just stay. they like want me to come over on the weekends and just hang. at first its very flattering i mean i don't count myself as anything special so at first when a icon in this idustry tells me i simply don' have to go any where, like ever. i kind of just go wow, its like this big boost to my ego,

but then its like fuck, i have a life i have wife kids, etc its actually not a bad life all in all.
and i wish to be honest, don't get me wrong i love escorts and love the chemistry, and friendship, but want it all to stay within a session, and well escorts that have a boyfriend are safer

i sometimes think escorts just test me, i mean they say he is this good nice family man, lets see if i can get him to spend the night,
and i actually kind of feel sorry for escorts, i mean i have my fun with them then go home to my wife and kids, and leave them alone
sure they have my money, but well does money replace lonliness,
so i prefer, sps, who are in some sort of stable relationship,

or simple don't want one at the moment there trying to go to school. or take care of there kids or whatever,
or just done with men, in the sense of love.

 

[westcoast555]

Sometimes I'm curious but I generally don't ask... because I usually don't want to know. If they are totally unattached then it just underlies the fact that they're doing this for the money. If they do have a guy it just underlies the fact that he's getting it from her willingly and you're sitting there forking out a couple of hundred dollars. That can ruin the fantasy a bit.

It's best to just not ask. And it's something best not offered. Don't let anything disturb the fantasy.

 

[curmudgeon]

Over the years, I've probably met a few SPs with a significant other, and didn't know it.

And generally speaking, I wouldn't care....... UNLESS, she's keeping her SP work a secret from the SO.

In that case, I don't want to be on her cellphone call list, or anywhere near if the SO discovers the truth, and decides to vent his anger on her or her recent clientele.

 

[Dgodus]

Don't really care. Don't mind hearing about it. The ones I like spending time with and talking with (plus the crazy monkey sex of course) I'd rather not that the topic dominates the conversation though.

I'm not asking though, nor am I asking about any other private/personal information. I don't mind hearing things, but I'm in no way shape or form someone who feels the need to know things others don't. As I do expect the same courtesy from her unless I've shown I don't mind talking about personal matters with her.

 

[HeMadeMeDoIt]

Don't care if they're married, have a bf or an appointment ten minutes after I walk out of the door providing that none of it interferes with my session!

 

[McDiver]

Shouldn't this poll have a question "Yes I do care" to make any sense? Otherwise what are you measuring the replies against?

 

[the old maxx50]

I don't have any fantasy that they are there just for me .

it just some thing we are doing at the moment and then we will be off and do some thing else . if she just came from a call .. i don't mind hearing about., hearing about where she is heading to ..

i enjoy hearing about any ones life .. and SP's can be very interesting .. i have seen them as clients , been their driver and have them as friend .. and find they all talk about family , friends and lovers .. It just part of every day life . and am comfortable to talk about it and to listen ..

 

[WreckBeach]

Over the years, I've probably met a few SPs with a significant other, and didn't know it.

And generally speaking, I wouldn't care....... UNLESS, she's keeping her SP work a secret from the SO.

In that case, I don't want to be on her cellphone call list, or anywhere near if the SO discovers the truth, and decides to vent his anger on her or her recent clientele.

What this dude says. I don't think I'd be up for taking an SP's angry SO by the horns- escaping unscathed would be unlikely lol.

But yeah, in general it's none of my business so meh.

 

[ThisEndUp]

Don't really care

BUT

I don't want to be hearing anything about him/her during my session

 

[Quarter Mile'r]

Interesting topic.

I'd like to see the reverse put on this.
Do the boyfriends, husbands, spouses care if their SO is an SP?

I wonder how they would handle it if he is walking with his SP/SO
in a shopping mall and a regular or former client walks up to them,
and says "hello" and maybe more?

HMMMMM.............





.....................QM'r

 

[Dgodus]

I wonder how they would handle it if he is walking with his SP/SO
in a shopping mall and a regular or former client walks up to them,
and says "hello" and maybe more?

.....................QM'r

That's why you're NOT supposed to walk up and say hello or something more.....
Did that really need to actually be said /boggled

 

[Ms. Yoko Anna]

Interesting result.

I honestly thought, most of men do not care if your sp has a man in her life.
(by the way, what SO stands for?)

I was wondering about it because I get to asked the question all the time.
"do you have a boyfriend?"

And I never can guess the purpose of the question.

Does he wants more than business relationship? Then I would say YES, to avoid the hassle. But am I supposed to say NO to keep his fantasy? What is the better answer? I sometime wonder what sort of agenda is behind the question.

 

[Man Mountain]

I was wondering about it because I get to asked the question all the time.
"do you have a boyfriend?"

And I never can guess the purpose of the question.

Does he wants more than business relationship? Then I would say YES, to avoid the hassle. But am I supposed to say NO to keep his fantasy? What is the better answer? I sometime wonder what sort of agenda is behind the question.

Q: Do you have a boyfriend?
A: "Quite a few!" or "Yes, a bunch of them!"

That'll keep him guessing!

 

[steverino]

Being an escort is a job, I would expect the ladies to have a personal life that includes an SO. Having said that, I am not interested in hearing about relationship problems or joy as it seems strange to have sex with someone as you are talking about their partner.

 

[westcoast555]

When guys ask you that they are hoping that you enjoy having sex with them enough that you might decide to see them in a non-professional setting.