Excellent, ... I'll put a cork in the coffee expenditures to hasten the day.Lol! It's still good!just remind me <3
Telling us your board handle helps too so we can see what your posting is like, fyi!
Correct Protocol for supplying references
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People ask for a reference when THEY are going to pay you money not the other way around. Both you and the SP are on crack, her for asking and you for even entertaining the ridiculous request!
I agree, when 95% of ladies don't require this, just move on.
The fact is, from time to time even reputable SPs cause problems. MM......her pimpess posted a list of phone numbers and names of clients.
Why on earth would any of us take that risk. Reviews speak to the ladies appearance, skills, enthusiasm.....not about whether she has a spiteful pimp, she isn't getting along with well.
Agreed.
But there is nothing wrong with a lady asking for a guys DL if that is what she needs from him to feel safe...and he is moronic enough to comply with that request.
you got that right!!! that polite, doting, suave, sophisticated, gorgeous beauty that services you so nicely now and has done so for years, can turn into the absolutely meanest bitch in the world when she perceives a slight, or her livelihood is threatened, or somebody outs her, or she just plain decides to go bat-shit on you... this is reality - people change, and sometimes without any warning. be cool and keep your personal information to yourself. you don't gain anything by blabbing about who you are, what you do, or even what your posting handle is. fun and polite conversations can be had without crossing any boundaries - and you'll thank yourself immensely if the worst happens...
i'm not making this shit up - it's happened before and it will happen again
I personally don't see a big deal with providing my perb name. Many escorts keep a low profile and don't post much and they may realize from my posting history that my personality will clash with theirs like oil and water. I know I sure as hell would never ever book with some escorts here just from their personality that comes through in their posts.
But just as every escort needs to be comfortable with the info they require, each client needs to be comfortable with what they provide.
But just as every escort needs to be comfortable with the info they require, each client needs to be comfortable with what they provide.
In certain cities, I do screening by escort review board name or reference from other ladies to see if the person is serious about coming to see me.
I found most of men are more genuine and sensitive than what general idea of men appear to be, and had never had a single experience of being in so dangerous situation that I had to give "Yoko Smash☆(
A+X+L)"
But when I am touring, I would do my best to avoid those who just book and stand me up.
The main reason of screening for me, and for some touring girls, is just securing the appointment.
In Vancouver, I have not had a single no-show, so I don't request reference.
If I start getting some, yes, I would start requesting a reference.
Would that make sense from SP's point of view for screening?
I found most of men are more genuine and sensitive than what general idea of men appear to be, and had never had a single experience of being in so dangerous situation that I had to give "Yoko Smash☆(
But when I am touring, I would do my best to avoid those who just book and stand me up.
The main reason of screening for me, and for some touring girls, is just securing the appointment.
In Vancouver, I have not had a single no-show, so I don't request reference.
If I start getting some, yes, I would start requesting a reference.
Would that make sense from SP's point of view for screening?
In certain cities, I do screening by escort review board name or reference from other ladies to see if the person is serious about coming to see me.
I found most of men are more genuine and sensitive than mass media portraits, and had never had a single experience of being in so dangerous situation that I had to give "Yoko Smash☆(A+X+L)"
But when I am touring, I would do my best to avoid those who just book and stand me up.
The main reason of screening for me, and for some touring girls, is just securing the appointment.
In Vancouver, I have not had a single no-show, so I don't request reference.
If I start getting some, yes, I would start requesting a reference.
Would that make sense from SP's point of view for screening?
I really wouldn't waste any more of your time explaining this to them, they are simply being deliberately confrontational about it. Whether they are just trying to shame sps to stop requiring them or shame clients from providing them, either way screen however you like, and in the end you screen away the idiots, lol. Let them sit and complain about all the sps who don't care as much who they see.
This one is a real piece of work. Bad attitude. Sounds bitter. Bitter beer face.
Back to the intelligent conversation...In certain cities, I do screening by escort review board name or reference from other ladies to see if the person is serious about coming to see me.
I found most of men are more genuine and sensitive than what general idea of men appear to be, and had never had a single experience of being in so dangerous situation that I had to give "Yoko Smash☆(A+X+L)"
But when I am touring, I would do my best to avoid those who just book and stand me up.
The main reason of screening for me, and for some touring girls, is just securing the appointment.
In Vancouver, I have not had a single no-show, so I don't request reference.
If I start getting some, yes, I would start requesting a reference.
Would that make sense from SP's point of view for screening?
The whole point of some in this thread is that those naive or novice pooners may think that giving out personal info is the standard especially when someone pipes in with assinine information such as implying that all reputable escorts expect references. Apart from that being completely inaccurate, it's also insulting the majority of those who don't ask for references - as if they are doing something wrong.
But yes, I can see how it makes perfect sense from an escorts POV especially when they are touring. It probably even makes sense to pre-screen to ensure there is enough interest to make sure a tour to a city is even worthwhile.
Just to clarify my original posting, because some of you seem to have gone off the deep end...
I have no problems being asked for and supplying references. By "References", I mean the contact details of other ladies I have seen and so can vouch for me: I expect them to acknowledge that I show up as arranged, and I'm not generally unpleasant. In order to supply that information, I end up supplying the email address I use for this sport. That email address is not in any way connected to my real life and involves a pseudonym. If need be (because the girl I'm asking to vouch for me is slow responding), I'll forward the email thread I used in booking. It shows my communication style, what I've asked for, and my "Thanks" after.
As far as sharing personal info. All I'll ever shared is my cell number. To-date, I have not yet secured a poon-only phone, so I realize there is some risk there. This will change if I remain in this hobby. I was once asked for an email from my work domain - I did not provide that, and still managed to secure the appointment by providing reference details as per the above paragraph.
Supplying personal details beyond cell phone ( and yes - even that) is foolish IMO.
Supplying references as I suggest above seems perfectly reasonable.
I have no problems being asked for and supplying references. By "References", I mean the contact details of other ladies I have seen and so can vouch for me: I expect them to acknowledge that I show up as arranged, and I'm not generally unpleasant. In order to supply that information, I end up supplying the email address I use for this sport. That email address is not in any way connected to my real life and involves a pseudonym. If need be (because the girl I'm asking to vouch for me is slow responding), I'll forward the email thread I used in booking. It shows my communication style, what I've asked for, and my "Thanks" after.
As far as sharing personal info. All I'll ever shared is my cell number. To-date, I have not yet secured a poon-only phone, so I realize there is some risk there. This will change if I remain in this hobby. I was once asked for an email from my work domain - I did not provide that, and still managed to secure the appointment by providing reference details as per the above paragraph.
Supplying personal details beyond cell phone ( and yes - even that) is foolish IMO.
Supplying references as I suggest above seems perfectly reasonable.
You've got all that right, Cowboy! I just had a gal, seemingly well regarded here, totally flip! ...
She asks me for a reference; I say I'll ask the prior SP as a courtesy; She's impatient - says it's customary in this business to just provide it??? Anway, the reference is eventually okayed and provided to her. Then I ask about her health situation and recent testing (her just having come back from touring the Canadian high spots, like Regina, Ft. Crack, etc. Jeezuz- I've worked in construction camps and the guys are not in the least worried about health issues. Everything BB - easy cum, easy go. Like the rest of us, an S.P. goes for the $$$ - 'cause it sure as hell ain't for the scenery!)
She's totally insulted that I even ask such an impertinent question of a " well-reviewed, high class, reputable service provider." ... Okay ... So we mutually agree that we are a "poor fit."
Perhaps "M'lady protests too loudly." as Willy Shakespeare once observed. I'm getting educated, Cowboy - be cool, man.
Onward ... Three more appointments now booked from reputable S.P.'s with absolutely no reference issues, humbrage or any other drama. V. Nice! Rock and roll. - Red.
She asks me for a reference; I say I'll ask the prior SP as a courtesy; She's impatient - says it's customary in this business to just provide it??? Anway, the reference is eventually okayed and provided to her. Then I ask about her health situation and recent testing (her just having come back from touring the Canadian high spots, like Regina, Ft. Crack, etc. Jeezuz- I've worked in construction camps and the guys are not in the least worried about health issues. Everything BB - easy cum, easy go. Like the rest of us, an S.P. goes for the $$$ - 'cause it sure as hell ain't for the scenery!)
She's totally insulted that I even ask such an impertinent question of a " well-reviewed, high class, reputable service provider." ... Okay ... So we mutually agree that we are a "poor fit."
Perhaps "M'lady protests too loudly." as Willy Shakespeare once observed. I'm getting educated, Cowboy - be cool, man.
Onward ... Three more appointments now booked from reputable S.P.'s with absolutely no reference issues, humbrage or any other drama. V. Nice! Rock and roll. - Red.
cheers rr. yes, you only have to observe one escort flipping out to understand how thin the veneer of respectability is with which we coat ourselves. i'm glad it happened to you early in your career (at least i assume so by your wording). just wait until the next public meltdown of an escort to really see what i mean
i'm all for travelling ladies doing what they have to do to limit being stood up for appointments, as that is a reality of travelling - but for a local escort making a local booking in Canada, there is no need for it. to me it says that either the lady lacks confidence, or she knows from experience that she has no street smarts. in either case she should examine whether independant escorting really is for her. at least when she's working for an agency presumably the managers are being paid to look after those kinds of details for the escorts
good luck with your future pooning :thumb:
