When an SP asks "will I see you again?"
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i saw one once who spoke for 45 out of 90 min without very much action.
When I was leaving she asked that exact question to which I laughed and said "yah right"
Its amazing how some women can blabber on indefinitely and have no idea how much time they've been speaking, or for that matter, how little the other person has been paying attention, or have no idea that talking with someone usually requires interaction.
Anyways, I've been asked that and I usually look at them and say nothing. That's the way females would react to that kind of question when they have nothing positive to say, especially to a stranger, so they get it. The reaction is usually silence and the face usually droops.
One time I said, "are you kidding?". That was when the jaw dropped open. I did an about face and left without shutting the door.
But probably the worst thing I said was, "No Thank You!", in a pleasant sales-person-at-the-counter kind of way with a big smile. I think I enjoyed that one the most.
First two I ever saw said something like this "we should do this again sometime". To be honest that or "thanks for coming by" is the only things I'd like to hear as I'm going out the door so I know if I'm welcome back or not. Anything else and I may get confused (blond, sue me).
I answered most definitely to both that asked me, only meant it once. Only time I would have said no flat out, I'd already long checked out so basically just walked out saying uh-huh, uh-huh, uh-huh. She probably didn't notice as those were the only words I could get in all night. I don't mind conversation, but at least let me get a few words in ffs.
I have never had the balls to say no. Not sure why. I don't want to hurt thier feelings or I just do not know what comes next. But then again not too many SPs want to see me again. They do say if I happen to be in town again feel free to call them again. Like asking if you want fries with that. Or "come on back you hear"
Since we are on this topic. Sometimes when I walk into a store and the young ladies working the store say "How are you doing today? or "How is your day going" I will say "much better now that I see you".
Is that offensive? I have been told by a lady that works for me that this statement is offensive. Is it kinda like will I see you again?
Are people becoming too sensitive?
Is that offensive? I have been told by a lady that works for me that this statement is offensive. Is it kinda like will I see you again?
Are people becoming too sensitive?
I have been asked that a few times, I will answer by saying sure as long as I am not busy, but never do. Its just too easy for them for yo u to see them again and make a few more hundred dollars. Especially when the guy does all the work,( as far as i am concerned) I just move on to someone new.
You poor man, the ones I like never leave me to do all the "work". It's why I wanna see em again!!:thumb:
I can see why a female would find that offensive. Females are sexually objectified all the time, so there is this default understanding that anything said to them is meant sexually. However, perceptions aside whether right or wrong, there is the objective truth. Some females choose to look for the truth. Imagine what kind of person that would be if you accept the notion females feel objectified by default.
^This
Generally when something is said as a joke or an obvious light-hearted compliment it is taken as such.
Saying something such as that with a smirk or a leer and yea, you're a creepy eff'in old man!!! rofl
Can also depend on recipients mood/current state of mind.
All things considered equal, if you say it in a nice fashion and you get "that's offensive" you're probably talking to a real prude and you should back away slowly, prudes are not to be triffled with!
That has to be one of my biggest pet peeves when a stranger asks you how your doing. It's a giant slap in the face because you know they could care less yet it's a social norm to do so. I'm going to start responding with shocking replies and if they are offended maybe they'd stop asking.
Read a nice quote basically stating "hello is something someone says to you when they dont want to talk to you", more referencing casual acquaintances and strangers. I find it applies to similar "greetings" like the one you mentioned.
i guess, first of all i was seeing some one from arrangement seekers,
and she said she would never phone me or bug me, stuff like that,
but then she turned around and did pretty much all the things she said she wasn't going to do.
and tried to lay this guilt trip on me, that i had to see her etc, and i was kind of rude if i didn't,
shit,
i just saw some one i have been with along time, like seven years or so and its just well we pretty much just put our cards on the table no bull shit from either one of us, its just nice and refreshing, to deal with some one that is honest, no bull shit, etc. its easy as hell to make a choice who to see in this hobby, when you find a lady, like that. compared to some one that bull shits you and guilts you into coming back to see her.
and i guess, my perspective on dealing with ladies in public and maybe at there work place or mine.
i mean part of my job is public relations ok. and so some women comes to see me because she has to, there is something she needs i have, i just fine it wrong or inaprobiate for me to stare at her look at her if she is hot or make any comment that some one could take the wrong way. like i said she is there because she has to, she doesn't need me hitting on her or making comments that could be interperted in certain ways. so i just don't, and i think it is rude if you do,
that being said, if im not at my work place and i find a girl attractive, i give them the biggest friendlist smile i can they know, i mean they know that i like what i see, well i guess any girl does, whether i am at my work or theres if i find a girl attractive i give them the biggest friendliest smile i can, but it ends there,
and i guess if a girl is dressing suggestive, low cut blouse revealling alot of boobs, or short skirt etc, more then the norm,\
dam well im going to look, and let the girl know im looking, not at my work because i can get into shit,
but my opinion is if a women is showing of her tits she wants me to look, there was a thread some girls give this guy a test, well if i wear this low cut blouse and he looks then he is an ass, and he is gone.
my opininon if she is wearing a low cut blouse she wants the attention and im dam well going to look and she knows im going to look , she if she is playing some mind games, well whatever
and she said she would never phone me or bug me, stuff like that,
but then she turned around and did pretty much all the things she said she wasn't going to do.
and tried to lay this guilt trip on me, that i had to see her etc, and i was kind of rude if i didn't,
shit,
i just saw some one i have been with along time, like seven years or so and its just well we pretty much just put our cards on the table no bull shit from either one of us, its just nice and refreshing, to deal with some one that is honest, no bull shit, etc. its easy as hell to make a choice who to see in this hobby, when you find a lady, like that. compared to some one that bull shits you and guilts you into coming back to see her.
and i guess, my perspective on dealing with ladies in public and maybe at there work place or mine.
i mean part of my job is public relations ok. and so some women comes to see me because she has to, there is something she needs i have, i just fine it wrong or inaprobiate for me to stare at her look at her if she is hot or make any comment that some one could take the wrong way. like i said she is there because she has to, she doesn't need me hitting on her or making comments that could be interperted in certain ways. so i just don't, and i think it is rude if you do,
that being said, if im not at my work place and i find a girl attractive, i give them the biggest friendlist smile i can they know, i mean they know that i like what i see, well i guess any girl does, whether i am at my work or theres if i find a girl attractive i give them the biggest friendliest smile i can, but it ends there,
and i guess if a girl is dressing suggestive, low cut blouse revealling alot of boobs, or short skirt etc, more then the norm,\
dam well im going to look, and let the girl know im looking, not at my work because i can get into shit,
but my opinion is if a women is showing of her tits she wants me to look, there was a thread some girls give this guy a test, well if i wear this low cut blouse and he looks then he is an ass, and he is gone.
my opininon if she is wearing a low cut blouse she wants the attention and im dam well going to look and she knows im going to look , she if she is playing some mind games, well whatever
yes i have had this experience a few times and generally just pass on commenting. funny how after two dates with one of the banner advertisers just before Christmas i kind of got this encouragement question and it took me a day or two to decide on what answer to give. so i finally arrived at making an offer which she turned down which kind of ended it. but so i carried on and promptly found a click elsewhere.
so i would just say that what is meant to be, will be.
so i would just say that what is meant to be, will be.
I always say soon...in the next couple of weeks...but I remind them that some of us work for a living...
I find most SP's will ask you this if you cum fast... and they view you as a sucker for quick cash..and/or you didn't pump them too hard or ask them to do nasty stuff...like lick your asshole etc...
I find most SP's will ask you this if you cum fast... and they view you as a sucker for quick cash..and/or you didn't pump them too hard or ask them to do nasty stuff...like lick your asshole etc...
When an SP asks "will I see you again?" I ask myself, "What would ol' Jack Burton say at a time like this?" And I believe the correct answer is: "You never can tell."
Just had to go through this situation on Thursday - I had to restrain myself from saying anything, mostly because I was so pissed at the time I didn't want to explode into a torrent of profanities....
