The way I've gone about it is like this. Back in 2009 I was at Teasers. Back when they use to do the private one on ones in the back lobby where they turned a hotel room into a stripper room. Domica Lynn was on stage and later on she came over to join me. Never spoke a word to her before. This was the first time I saw her.
We went back there and just did normal lap dances, but I could tell she was one horny chick. She let me suck her big naturals and her hands were all over my cock even though it was still in my pants. At the time it was $130 for 15 mins... But that's how long you were aloud to be up there. She came back down and sat with me and we did shooters. She was all horny and turned on and wanted to go back up and do more lap dances.
I was horny and she was hot and I wanted my dick sucked! I basically just said, I'm too horny, I want more then a lap dance! I did this in a joking yet not so joking kind of way if you know what I mean... First she was like, well I don't really do more then just lap dances. Now, when a stripper says "I don't really do that" It really means, She has done shit in the past but doesn't do it often or doesn't like doing extras.
But she has done it! Then she asked me what I was looking for. When a dancer asks you that means she's at least open to here your requests. I said, well could I get a blow job? I was being as sweet and innocent asking this as I could. She kind of got embarrassed and said, Ohh noo.... I don't do that... I'm not a hooker... sorry... I looked at her and said, would you do it for $400?? Her eyes got big, she had a big smile on her face and said YES!!
We went back up, into the bath room of the stripper room, cause it was just a hotel room they turned into a stripper room, she kissed me, unzipped my pants, she got all naked, and sucked the hell out of my dick! She then tit fucked me, slapped my dick on her ass, jerked me off, sucked me off more and I jizzed all over her huge natural boobs.
One of the hottest experiences I ever had. She then kissed me and I think she was in love at this point. She told me I was the first and only guy she ever did that with. BS? Probably... But it was hot no doubt about that. Now, If I were to offer her $150 or $200 she would just have said, no sorry I don't do that.
But because I offered a high amount, she was hook line and sinker. Basically I just ask girls once I get to know them and I know they like my company if they do private shows out side of the strip club. Keep in mind a lot of dancers do bachelor parties, and I'm sure there are times there's more going on then just girls getting naked...
It all depends on the stripper. In most cases they don't do more then just lap dances. At the Yellow Head in Edmonton if you buy longer shows in the back some dancers will let you do full contact while others wont. Sakura Suzuki is the most open minded dancer I know at the Yellowhead. She lets me suck her pussy and she's jerked me off while sticking her hands down my pants and she has never charged me extra.
But with her its how long you go back there for. so basically if you pay for 20 some minutes of dances, the more friendlyer she gets. She told me on the 4th time I buy a show from her she will suck my dick back there. I've been trying to get her to came to my Hotel but any time I text her she never replies back... So I don't think she's ready to do that yet. But she will text me every now and then just to say hi.