How much notice would you think reasonable to book an appointment?

[Ms. Yoko Anna]

Hi there

I have been not able to be available with short notice.
If the appointments is going to be my first one of the day, I like at least one hour notice.
Or even two hours if I am at home, not my incall.

When I was working at an agency, I was expected to be ready in 15 minutes, or even in a minutes if a walk-in client wants me. However, I have never liked any appointments that has been booked 15 minutes before the session. It is not only I disliked that I have to get ready in flash like Clark Kent, but also I hated the mentality that people expect a girl to be ready to get fucked whenever they want without considering my life outside of work. My agency later on respected my feeling about booking appointment with short notice, and they avoided doing that to me. Now, I'm independent, and my prep time is getting longer and longer as there are many more things to be ready.

Now, I do understand I'm naive and picky. May have even come across almost arrogant to think in that way.

Gentlemen, how much of notice do you think it would be reasonable to give ladies when you book an appointment?

Ladies, how much notice would you need, and ideally would you want?

I like 24 hours notice the best (mainly I live far from my incall).

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[bcneil]

The problem is, its like a big game.

More than once I have called a lady to make an appointment a week or more away. Only to be told, they don't take dates that far away, cause they find the guys that do this are usually flakes.

More than once I have called a lady the day before to make an appointment. Most are fine with this, but still many can actually be outright rude on the phone. "Only call when you are ready to play"

I try avoid last minute things. But from time to time, an sp might call to cancel. If I have been waiting for this a couple days, I will at least call around, to see if anyone is free. But get it, if they can't see me that soon.

 

[twoblues]

I'm terrible with the last minute thing...that's me...

Unfortunately, I rarely know my schedule until the morning of each particular day...and it can change as the day goes on. It does make booking appointment tough

 

[kenchorney]

The problem is, its like a big game.

More than once I have called a lady to make an appointment a week or more away. Only to be told, they don't take dates that far away, cause they find the guys that do this are usually flakes.

More than once I have called a lady the day before to make an appointment. Most are fine with this, but still many can actually be outright rude on the phone. "Only call when you are ready to play"

I try avoid last minute things. But from time to time, an sp might call to cancel. If I have been waiting for this a couple days, I will at least call around, to see if anyone is free. But get it, if they can't see me that soon.

I've had the same issues many times, I have no problem booking a few days ahead, for the traveling girls a week or more and in one case with a lady in Toronto I actually booked almost two month ahead with the understanding that I would confirm a week ahead and again the day before.

It would be great if more ladies would state their preference in the ads.

I don't think asking for a couple of hours notice is unreasonable but I usually prefer to book a day in advance. I would think this is the norm for most of the better ladies.

 

[Ms. Yoko Anna]

I get that you never know your schedule.
I do have a few regulars who gives me last minutes call, and they do understand they may not be able to see me.
A lot of regular clients prefer seeing me without make-up, and that enabled me to cut a few miutes of prep time!

I would say a couple of hours is reasonable.
I can take time to eat, tidy up place, clean up myself, and no time pressure.

 

[newatit]

well it is a game. A lot of us drive around, totally unaware that we may feel like it till we do, then hope a last minute phone call will work. Often it does. Many gals are prepared for this type of call. Others are not. Those that are ready get the business. Simple as that.

Sure we understand prep time, but often most of us would prefer the lack of make up, perfume, etc. A clean place, isn't it always clean?

It is just up to you, we only fit in to what is available.

 

[Aeiyah]

The dictates of the libido often means that the decision to see an escort is a last minute thing. Also, many of us has experienced the last minute cancellation which has left us scrambling to find an alternative plan. With that said, I think a minimum notice should be an hour, although I know a few SP's who can be ready in 15 minutes to half an hour. IMO, booking more than 1 or 2 days ahead is fine with the visitors, either pooners or escorts who are from out of town. For locals, it really doesn't make sense to me. It's like deciding on Tuesday whether to go to Starbucks or JJ Bean on Friday.

 

[Ms. Yoko Anna]

I see that both has good points, (although I never consider my business a game...)

I suppose this can be also seen from the fact there are different types of service ladies cater.
Sometime ladies offer service to satisfy your libido only, and in that case, like newatit suggests, men need laides who are ready to accept appointments. Often, this can be found easier in agencies, as I have been in the situation.
On the other hand, some likes connections, and those appointments are often booked in advance with some pre-email conversations to assure what is needed and what can be offered.

(However, I would like to mention this to those who take it for granted that ladies should be ready in 15 minutes "to get business," If you ever do last minutes booking, please acknowledge the effort of having a guest in such a short notice. I have done that, and I've seen many girls did that when I was in an agency, and it's amazing to see how fast we can move and be multi-tasking!)

 

[Dickson]

I am coming in from Europe so I try and book as soon as I know when I am coming into town. Lately I just confirm if the lady will be around then I confirm when I get into town unless I want her to meet me at the airport. Then I will call when I am ready to board to confirm. So for me it normal to book a few weeks ahead.

 

[HankQuinlan]

For some of us old farts (well, for me anyway) -- it can be hard to plan a day ahead, because my system may not be at optimum when I get up the next day (not enough sleep, etc.). I would often prefer to book early in the day for later that same day, when any creakiness can be anticipated.

 

[luvsdaty]

Half an hour, otherwise i move on.Had a few indies promise that & then keep stalling & stalling,i usually give them one stall ,then i cancell the appt.

 

[Ms. Yoko Anna]

Wow, I never thought health condition can affect your booking situation, but it absolutely makes sense.
I do get bookings in a few weeks of advance, and I'm sure that applies to other ladies.
I'm starting to feel expecting at least one hour of notice is not so outrageous nor arrogant of my end.

Well, I suppose "putting things back to where it was right after I use it" has been my new year resolution for last decade, and I am attempting next year again. Though, I can motivate myself better if that may help those who work with an intense and unpredictable schedule.

 

[the old maxx50]

When i have a regular , and she is the only one i see ..( or see most of the time ) then my booking is dependent on when they are available . Of course i would phone or text when i am horny or miss them and have the need to see them .. I all way hope that it would be with in the next hour or two.. but I would wait for when they are available . some time i would have to wait till the next day .. it kind of dampens the desire ..

When I don't have a regular I can call, I kind of have to work my self up to seeing some one new. . May take weeks . But when i finally decide on some one and phone , then i would like to see them as soon as possible . Usually i have already showered and dressed . I am ready .. and can be there in 30 to 45 min ... That is the best for me because then i still have the desire and the adrenalin is flowing ...I don't find it easy meeting knew people let a lone escorts .. but with a escort i know Ii will be having sex . Although they all ways can say ..NO..

With some of the escorts that i am friends with .. and spend social time with . I may want to see them as a client .. but it starts to get awkward arranging when to get together or if they do want to have sex... It is not even any thing like a GF or FWB

 

[Pillowtalk]

It couldn't hurt to balance 24 hour notice policy in general, and a one hour notice policy with a set schedule. Many sps remain at their incall when they have a set schedule, it is not a matter of libido 'only', but that they treat their business like a business and have actual 'office hours'. this would be the times when someone could reasonably expect to call her up the same day and arrange an appt start time in an hour from the call (given that she is not already booked of course). For longer appts, it would probably a better idea to require the client to set that up a minimum of 24 hours in advance, to confirm the day of the appt to reduce time wasters.

You can do both, as many do that, and I don't think that many clients would expect you to be able to appear in 15 minutes outside of your schedule hours, but I think you can actually benefit yourself from being organized (hair, makeup done first thing in the morning, not based on appt booked, incall clean, tidy and prepared for next appt the day before, etc etc) as you could be able to be ready without stress.

 

[Dgodus]

I have anywhere between 2 to 4 hrs of driving to go see someone. With that I like the traveling ladies I like to book at earliest possible convinience. Let's me get a good timeslot (not too mention not hearing "sorry all booked"), gives me something to look forward/take my mind off of some of the lazy idiots I gotta work with, and the extra time gives me a chance to really get worked up to enjoy myself. Shortest I've done is 48hrs and that's what I consider spur of the moment.

 

[lenny]

occasionally i book a few days in advance, more often a day or two, or on the same day,
and hundreds of times with SWs on the testosterone of the moment.

 

[Ms. Yoko Anna]

Thank you for all the insightful suggestions.

I think I may put on my website for minimum 1hour notice required.
Though, it is often those who don't spend time visit my website makes that kind of last minutes calls.

Happy pooning!