I am moving on...
So glad for her that you are moving on....she may never know how lucky she is :doh:
New GF told me she has herpes on 2nd date!!!!
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So glad for her that you are moving on....she may never know how lucky she is :doh:
oh i think after she got the silent treatment she pretty well got the picture... lol
While reading this thread, I was just thinking that, how you could be counted on for being direct and talking about your experiences and pretty much without fear of what the feedback might be like.You guys and gals should be congratulating me...for being honest and sharing my life experiences on this board!! Instead, you trash me and treat me like toilet paper that is barely worth using!!!! You know...the brand that burns your ass when you use it!!!
Ok maybe you like the drama but I do like the resulting 'discussions'
You probably shouldn't have said ok at first but while getting news that's off putting for you, it's easy to just say something that gets you out quickly and easily and then digest in full after. Oh well, like you said, you're not interested in being just friends.
So much hatred on this thread towards me...not just you Hunka!!:fear:
You guys and gals should be congratulating me...for being honest and sharing my life experiences on this board!! Instead, you trash me and treat me like toilet paper that is barely worth using!!!! You know...the brand that burns your ass when you use it!!!
Just to make you "sheeple" happy, I sent her a text and told her about my concerns. All I got back was an OK...
Maybe I waited too long and she is just dissing me or expecting me to do more...???:doh:
I am moving on...
............just be glad she wasn't somebody that decided to share the gift that gives on giving, just out of spite............
ound:
Dude, you're missing out on half the world's population! I guess you didn't get the memo, but women have a lot of other awesome things to offer the world other than sex ( wait, let me guess, somebody's gonna say "cleaning?" "cooking?" Oh, the originality!I simply don't want herpes...if I can avoid it!!! Secondly, I really don't hang out with women, unless sex is involved or a desired end "goal!":clap2:
)Cooking? I was going to say hugs, cuddles and herpes-free french kissies?Dude, you're missing out on half the world's population! I guess you didn't get the memo, but women have a lot of other awesome things to offer the world other than sex ( wait, let me guess, somebody's gonna say "cleaning?" "cooking?" Oh, the originality!
You texted her? Yeeesh, you're lucky you didn't get a "fuck off" in response.... do you break up with chicks by email and text too?...Just to make you "sheeple" happy, I sent her a text and told her about my concerns. All I got back was an OK...
Maybe I waited too long and she is just dissing me or expecting me to do more...???:doh:
I am moving on...
You sent her a text?.....dude you are a spineless glob of teburculotic sputem......the gal was honest with you....you should have had the stones to at the very least give her a phone call.....if you had any decency you would have met her and told her why face to face.So much hatred on this thread towards me...not just you Hunka!!:fear:
You guys and gals should be congratulating me...for being honest and sharing my life experiences on this board!! Instead, you trash me and treat me like toilet paper that is barely worth using!!!! You know...the brand that burns your ass when you use it!!!
Just to make you "sheeple" happy, I sent her a text and told her about my concerns. All I got back was an OK...
Maybe I waited too long and she is just dissing me or expecting me to do more...???:doh:
I am moving on...
SR
Q: how do tell who the modern women are?Dude, you're missing out on half the world's population! I guess you didn't get the memo, but women have a lot of other awesome things to offer the world other than sex ( wait, let me guess, somebody's gonna say "cleaning?" "cooking?" Oh, the originality!
A: the ones who think 'clea-ning', coo-king' and 'fu-cking' are three cities in china!
ound:sorry, couldn't help it - you left me SUCH a good lead in...
Nor did he have the guts to tell her that he is a frequent visitor of escorts. I suspect that she might have had an issue with that, as much or more than what he had with her. Being up front about prior sex life is expected of her, but not of him, which is somewhat hypocritical.
lol! That's funnyQ: how do tell who the modern women are?
A: the ones who think 'clea-ning', coo-king' and 'fu-cking' are three cities in china!
sorry, couldn't help it - you left me SUCH a good lead in...
I've read that the 80% figure for oral herpes is pretty accurate. Apparently STD clinics do not test for HSV1 (unless specifically requested) because it is so common that most adults would be positive....most often caught as children when a grandma/aunt/adult with a cold sore lesion kisses a child. If you've ever had a cold sore...you have it...if not...you still are likely to have it, you just haven't had an outbreak.
The plus side is, a person that harbours HSV1 (dormant) has more resistance to infection by HSV2 (genital herpes) as their system has already experienced and reacted to a similar virus (HSV1 and HSV2 are quite similar in structure and mechanism)....and the vice versa is also true. It's apparently hard to be infected by both.
The other thing is that HSV1 (oral herpes) when spread to the genitals....does not do that much as it has evolved for the conditions of the human mouth...and HSV2 (genital herpes) does not do that much (not very severe outbreak) when spread to the mouth (as it has evolved to attack the genitals).
Did she say she had oral or genital herpes? If it was oral....you might as well kiss goodbye to 80% of the female population....although odds are you already have it.
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westcoast555
Be kind... Respect the fact she told you. It means a lot. Also it's damn near statistically impossible that you haven't been with with someone who either knowingly or unknowingly has it.
You don't have to risk being with her but it would be good to take her out, talk to her and let her know that you appreciate her being honest. She may be worth the risk in the end. Most people with herpes get little or no symptoms.
She sounds like a good girl.
You don't have to risk being with her but it would be good to take her out, talk to her and let her know that you appreciate her being honest. She may be worth the risk in the end. Most people with herpes get little or no symptoms.
She sounds like a good girl.
Had the nerve to ask out this cute 20 something woman...after feeling some chemistry at her workplace. We had a great 1st date and ended up making out for 20 minutes before I had to head out, due to shift at work.
Anyhow, we talked everyday all week then on our second date, we were sitting at a bar, candle light, she lives just 3 blocks away,and I could sense I was going to bang her...then she said, "I have to be honest with you...if this relationship is to continue, I have to let you know I have herpes..."
My jaw dropped to say the least and I told her I am okay with it. I obviously didn't bother going back to her place that night and I stopped calling her...
Am I evil for caring about my own Health?
