A question for SPs....
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Hahaha! I will patiently await the day then!Understandable, we've yet to meet.
I haven't feel in love but i have met men that i click with and would definetly date under different curcumstances.
To happy being single...hehe
To happy being single...hehe
Aww... why not? It might be a missed connection and he was into you too!
For curiosity sake, how would you know the SP is into you (more than just a client)?
For curiosity sake, how would you know the SP is into you (more than just a client)?
Hey ..... I didn't know you were on here too ! For me, they won't know until I'm done doing 'this'. Maybe I'll be too late by then but I'm on a mission here and my goals come first in this chapter of my life. I have been such a 'fool for love'. Lost sight of so many things and so many goals ... this chapter is all about moi ! I think if you wanted to know if the SP was 'into' you .... maybe ask them out or make some kind of move. Good luck !Aww... why not? It might be a missed connection and he was into you too!
For curiosity sake, how would you know the SP is into you (more than just a client)?
Yes, I am on here... more of a lurker though.
Nothing wrong to be a little selfish and put "Yourself" first. Mmm...some kind of move eh? I've got to talk to you about that. LOL
Nothing wrong to be a little selfish and put "Yourself" first.
Mmm...some kind of move eh? I've got to talk to you about that. LOLLol a while back before CL was shut down, I briefly saw an SP off of there for a few months. She was really friendly but a little strange and told me after about four months that she really liked me. I was kinda flattered at first but then she started being creepy and phone stalked me for a while so I had to change my number lol.
Haha hey! That's correct.. Never! Lol not saying I don't date though..hi Kali! Good to hear from you. So never eh?
I just don't date my clients.That's smart.Haha hey! That's correct.. Never! Lol not saying I don't date though..
I think if you're gonna be an effective SP, you have to close off your heart.
For sure! I just see it as a bad business decision really. Too much personal information becomes available when dating and can be used against the sp if the other party ends up hurt for any reason. Not saying that it couldnt happen when one dates someone that isn't a client, but it seems less likely for them to interfere on a business sense in the end..
I think that escorts should do what works best for them when it comes to mixing clients with romance. I know someone who stopped seeing a client when she started having feelings for him. I also know some ladies that have dated clients. We're all different, and need to set boundaries that allow us to feel safe and comfortable.
Interesting thread
well from a client's side, yes, I know two SP's that have fallen in love with me and one that I councilled through a nasty love affair ending. The first gal was back about 30 years, and it was so evident to me that this had happened. She never came out and said it, but there were so many little signs here and there. It ended one day, when she couldn't service me, and asked a girl friend to do the duty. For some reason after that we kind of stopped clicking, and the business side ended too. Next time was many years later, but the gal just could not break off with the business end of things, and I decided to end it. The third happening, a friend in the business took a vacation with me, we were not lovers, just a business deal for both of us, but had seen each other over several years and decided to do a southern vacation together. She spilled the beans one night of her love affair with a married man (client), but as the story unfolded, it was evident she was in love with a total jerk who was just using her. Well, the story is too convoluted to get into, and I am not sure she is out of it yet, but it is the kind of story I've seen so many times. Gal meets jerk, falls in love, nice guy who loves her gets the shove, she ends up with jerk who wrecks her and then leaves, and nice guy who loved her sees the stuipidity in having such a person with poor judgement and finds a nice gal at Just for Lunch and gets married. Man, life is jut like the soap operas.
You nailed it there but I wouldn't join Just Lunch though. $1500 to join and you got to deal with all the superficial guys & girls. A friend recently joined that and despite going on close to two dozen dates, she still couldn't find a good quality man who likes her for who she is. She got a lot of sex requests though!
one of my favorite ladies, we felt close, more her pulling me in her direction,
she wanted me to spend the night and come over on weekends,
don't know if it was love, but there was something going on.
the lady i see now, she says a client will never know, she believes clients don't come to her for love, there married she doesn't want to mess with that.
were close, but its a friendly business relationship
which is the way i like it,
i have told ever sp, i have repeated with im married and its staying that way.
it takes the pressure off both of us,
we can be friends with out to many complications.
she wanted me to spend the night and come over on weekends,
don't know if it was love, but there was something going on.
the lady i see now, she says a client will never know, she believes clients don't come to her for love, there married she doesn't want to mess with that.
were close, but its a friendly business relationship
which is the way i like it,
i have told ever sp, i have repeated with im married and its staying that way.
it takes the pressure off both of us,
we can be friends with out to many complications.
