If you had to depend on Cialis or Viagra forever, would you be depressed?

[BrokeBastard]

Been going thru some physical problems(and stressful conditions) and it looks like I might have to take C or V for the rest of my life if I want to have sex.

Knowing you had to depend on a pill to get hard, would that make you depressed? Or would you just be glad you could still get hard even if you had to take something for it?

 

[vancity_cowboy]

just think about what it would be like if there weren't any pills!!

and you should get over any depression

 

[HeatherMorgan]

Let me put myself into a guy's brain for a second (no pun intended) and think for a sec.

I would be really jealous of everyone else who didn't have to go through the hassle and probably be down for a bit.
And then find a fancy silver case to carry around my pills in.... oh ooops girly side coming through again.

Sucks that's happening for you. Glad you have an okay solution for time being.

 

[Monet]

Knowing you had to depend on a pill to get hard, would that make you depressed?
no. i would not.

Been going thru some physical problems(and stressful conditions) and it looks like I might have to take C or V for the rest of my life if I want to have sex.

Knowing you had to depend on a pill to get hard, would that make you depressed? Or would you just be glad you could still get hard even if you had to take something for it?

 

[stanley manley]

Been going thru some physical problems(and stressful conditions) and it looks like I might have to take C or V for the rest of my life if I want to have sex.

Do you mind if I ask how old you are?

Like someone else said, just be glad that there are pills. Yes, it has to be pre-planned and can't be quite that spontaneous. Imagine what it was like even 20 years ago, before we had C, V and L.

 

[Umbras]

Only time to start worrying, is if you lose interest in sex period. I would imagine Ernest Hemingway's fate might have been quite diferent if viagra was available when he was still allive. shit look at Hugh Hefner the guy probably owns half the company with amount of money he has spent to keep him going.

I hopefully won't have to worry about this for awhile, but when the time comes, I would not have a second thought about taking one to get me going.

 

[steverino]

I would be more concerned if I were a broke bastard because the pills aren't cheap.

 

[BrokeBastard]

Have you exhausted all means to restore your sexual health? There are several simple changes and some not so simple that can help.

One key area I have to focus on is losing some weight and changing my diet. I'm overweight but not obese. Still wear size 34 pants but I do have a gut and my face is too round. Thankfully I don't take drugs, liquor, or smoke. I workout on a regular basis but I think the weight is really hampering my erections. I am going to the doctor this week to run some tests.

I forgot how strong Cialis is. My erections have never been that hard and I am happy to have that alternative. I just wish I could do it on my own instead.

 

[BrokeBastard]

Do you mind if I ask how old you are?

Like someone else said, just be glad that there are pills. Yes, it has to be pre-planned and can't be quite that spontaneous. Imagine what it was like even 20 years ago, before we had C, V and L.

I'm turning 40 in a few months. Never had a problem before but I guess it happens to anyone at any age.

 

[Umbras]

I'm turning 40 in a few months. Never had a problem before but I guess it happens to anyone at any age.

Main thing is start eliminating/reducing the stress, I had tons of it for years until I came to a point in my life that I said fuck it. Made some changes for the better in my professional and personal life that reduced my stress load. Sure working a better paying job is nice but if it stresses you out so much, but is it really worth the years your shaving off your lifespan for stuff that does nothing for you when your dead?

Anything else that arises, I deal with it in best way possible and am not ashamed to ask for advice from those that are wiser and more experienced in dealing with such matters. Life gets overwhelming at times, but nothing in life is more valuable than your health and happiness.

Also turning 40 is just the beginning of the next phase of your life, enjoy it while your mental faculties and physical health allow it. When your old and grey in the home, you can shock all the staff with your reminiscing of all the ladies who's company you enjoyed.

 

[asdfg1218]

So, you've never said anything remotley offensive on Perb?

...

Good excuse

Sorry to hear about your condition, BrokeBastard. Hopefully it's just a temporary thing and with some changes/new techniques it will return to how it was before. Just a suggestion but have you considered going to a sex therapist? Might be worth a try.

 

[Unpossible]

Good excuse

Sorry to hear about your condition, BrokeBastard. Hopefully it's just a temporary thing and with some changes/new techniques it will return to how it was before. Just a suggestion but have you considered going to a sex therapist? Might be worth a try.

Take a pill guy.

Direct quote from BrokeDick.

 

[Guardian Angel]

Main thing is start eliminating/reducing the stress, I had tons of it for years until I came to a point in my life that I said fuck it. QUOTE]
Years ago when I was having marital issues, I found myself unable to get an erection. It was a huge concern as I was in my late 40's and early 50's. I tried Viagra, from a qtr of a pill to a full dose. Nothing helped. Stress (as much as I kept telling myself I was not stressed) neutralized any reaction Viagra was supposed to assist with.

I new what was happening because I had no problem with erections, it only happened with my ex-spouse. When I finally dealt with my issues (I am now divorced) my problem corrected itself.

One thing I should point out though, there are still times I have not been able to get an erection. I accept it knowing shit happens and Mr. Happy just decides to be stubborn. That's when my lady gets all the attention, lol!

G.A.

 

[InTheBum]

Been going thru some physical problems(and stressful conditions) and it looks like I might have to take C or V for the rest of my life if I want to have sex.

Knowing you had to depend on a pill to get hard, would that make you depressed? Or would you just be glad you could still get hard even if you had to take something for it?

Sounds like Hypertension to me...
If so, it can be reversed...

BTW - Having to take a Viagra to get hard doesn't seem to bother Hunka...and he uses it just to jerk off!!!ound:

 

[Sirenah]

why would it cause you to be depressed? Its just like taking a pill for something you want to achieve, if a person still has a sex drive at that age but require a pill to accomplish that goal then be happy theres a pill to use as an aid. It would be DEPRESSING if there was no such aid

 

[asdfg1218]

Did I say something offensive?

 

[asdfg1218]

Are you talking my comment...lol. It is not directed at anyone just reading this a few think it is no big deal, and not to worry. I am just putting the question out there.

No referring to post 17 and 18 in this thread.

 

[MissJasmine]

I'm sorry to hear about your problem, but don't limit yourself to thinking that the quick fix drugs are the only long term solutions.
Pharmaceutical companies have an evil way of convincing their clients that we need them "forever" but often we only need a temporary aid to deal with pain, lifestyle changes, stress etc.

To put things in perspective there are people of all ages who need to be on medications every day just to stay sane and breathing so if you find that Cialis and Viagra works for you , be happy and not depressed. In the meantime keep on looking

 

[Sirenah]

The ability to have an erection naturally is just as good as the ability to have an erection with some medicated help. I personally believe a male's "manhood" should be about what he can do for his woman, be it emotionally, physically and sexually. I've had clients that are paraplegic and even though they couldn't get it up or hardthey still managed to 'get off' during our sessions together. Most men I meet enjoy giving pleasure more so then receiving pleasure. You don't necessarily need a hard cock to have a good time. ED is a serious issue, but there are ways around it and a person should not be depressed about needing to take a pill.

 

[vancouver1992]

If one is on hypertension meds, Cialis i know can cause almost a fever feeling and increase in blood preasure however i have not tried Viagra.

i just muddle through and enjoy a Womens company. It helps i am so submissive...LOL