Carman Fox

Any guys suggested to their female friends to become sp?

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I've never done it cause i already have a reputation as a pervert. Been tempted to suggest it cause I have some female friends who are are struggling with with bills and going to college.
 

Flaw

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When I first read this I thought maybe you had some female friends that you wanted to poke.
 

Monet

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Are you going to suggest them? or YOU can help them out....
I've never done it cause i already have a reputation as a pervert. Been tempted to suggest it cause I have some female friends who are are struggling with with bills and going to college.
 

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heiheihei...i guess it is up to them, the fact that they choose not to do it doesn't necessarily mean they are not open-minded....in my humble opinion...
what's up with you these days dude? haven't seen you for a while....

Was going to suggest to them to work as independants or at a place like the foxden. Decided not to cause not many people are open minded.
 
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Not much being going to wreck beach since it's sunny. Been on a diet so so feeling good. Nah has nothing to do with them being a sp. But soon as you mention being a sp to them they'd freak.

heiheihei...i guess it is up to them, the fact that they choose not to do it doesn't necessarily mean they are not open-minded....in my humble opinion...
what's up with you these days dude? haven't seen you for a while....
 

suPERB

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You should go ahead and suggest it to them. :) when they decide to go for it, give me a heads-up and I'll volunteer to train them!

I've never done it cause i already have a reputation as a pervert. Been tempted to suggest it cause I have some female friends who are are struggling with with bills and going to college.
 

Ned Flanders

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Based upon past experience, I would recommend against it. I had a friend who was attractive, had constant financial problems, and was primarily attracted to 40-50 married men. As becoming a SP would have only meant she got paid for stuff she was more or less doing anyway, I though it was a good fit. It did not go over well at all, and there was a ton of drama when she turned it into a big morality play.
 
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People everywhere including some on the forum think they are so morally better. That's why it's so hard to suggest it. Cause they'll go on some freakish morality play. I had to deal with some assholes in life who think i went to thailand to bang underage girls(which i didnt but why explain it to them).

It did not go over well at all, and there was a ton of drama when she turned it into a big morality play.
 
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My suggestion was orginally telling them they can make decent money giving out handjobs and covered bjs. But most people would freak and start telling the world im a scumbag who see hookers lol.
 

steverino

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I used to suggest that they think about becoming a licensed massage therapist, but recently I stopped doing that.
 

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I've never done it cause i already have a reputation as a pervert. Been tempted to suggest it cause I have some female friends who are are struggling with with bills and going to college.
I think you should do it. Just let us know where and when so we can come along with popcorn and watch :)
 

FunSugarDaddy

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I've never done it cause i already have a reputation as a pervert. Been tempted to suggest it cause I have some female friends who are are struggling with with bills and going to college.
I personally would never do it and since I'm damn near 50 I guess I would be talking to the children of friends..(my guess is telling someone's daughter she should be an SP wouldn't go over so well) but if I had a friend i thought might be interested I'm probably ask them for a message and offer to pay them for it afterwards..that would potentially be a start down the path anyway.

You have a reputation as a pervert you say..that's hard to believe.
 

FunSugarDaddy

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Absolutely not. I have a very close friend who was an SP (dont bother asking who) and although she generally had fun as she was quite selective in her choice of client there are some real cunts out there who, probably because a women wouldn't spend 5 minutes in their company if they werent paying for it have zero respect and can be thieves or violent, intimidating and basically not far from rapists.

You could say there are dangers in many lines if work and there are, but very few that put women in the position sex work does. It can change people for the better in some ways but can be really harmful in a lot of other ways.

Your friend would have a large hole in her employment record that is going to be pretty difficult to explain, she will get used to the large sums of money for little time outlay making any future work difficult to reconcile with her sense of pride and value, her perception of good/honest men may become skewed towards the negative making future relationships and trust difficult and then add in the danger aspect I already mentioned...need I go on?


I guess I could be called a hypocrite for saying this while also providing a market for this line of work given I participate (though barely, im pretty much retired now) but still, if you really love and care for your friend...I cant see why you would recommend it.


ps. I think youd be very surprised at the sheer number of people in this game who are battling addictions and NEED to do this work and would probably run away from it as fast as they could if they could. I've heard more than I would care to know about a lot of ladies you wouldn't dream that this would apply to.
That's a insightful answer. I've been seeing this one woman on and off for the last 5 years and I do recall when we were "off" she informed me about how shitty she felt having to do this kind of thing. Funny thing is three months later she contacted me and asked me to resume our relationship, so I don't know if it was just her being in a down mood, or if was more than that, as that was 9 months ago.

But that aside, I do know of a couple of SP's who have had some terrible experiences, that even include death threats, so it's all not just fun and games and easy money.
 

Alix Turner

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It's never been part of my every day life, as in.. i don't tell family, don't seem like a woman that is "kept" or would be (i think), and am fairly busy with personal obligations
but, the girl that got me into this business did so by telling me that a boyfriend (upon having to leave for an indeterminate period of time) suggested she try it because she loved sex so much.. and that every day she had spent in the industry since then was better than any day not working. She seemed so excited about her clients.. new and known. It was amazing to see her get ready to see someone.
Since then, I feel a little sick inside any time I feel comfortable enough to mention that it used to be what I did for a living and I hear "You're better than that"
I guess I understand the attitude but I hate it. If it takes a low woman to be a pro, fine, that's me. The women that do well meeting men this way meet amazing men.. beyond imagination.
Recommend it to the women you think it would make happy. No one is better than being a companion.. Some people just don't like the idea and therefore aren't suited
 

suPERB

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I'm sure you realize I was just kidding around... but in all seriousness, I don't think I'd ever personally do it. Maybe because I don't know anyone in such a desperate situation. And if I did, I'd probably be careful about it and suggest it rhetorically or tell them to look into being a masseuse as someone suggested.

But yeah, if you decide to go ahead with it definitely keep me in mind lol!

I'll keep that in mind and let u know if i do suggest being a sp to them.
 
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It was a male friend of mine, a really close one who brought up the subject of escorts years ago when i was only 19. I was really niave and unaware of the entire industry. didnt know what to think at first, and the subject was dropped. I always remembered the conversation however and got curious. A couple years later, I entered the industry and here I am today. He did not know that I actually thought about what he said and considered it, or that I even entered the buisiness at all as I hid it. To be honest until he brought up the conversation I didnt even know that this world existed.
 
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