Just out of curiousity for the Gentlemen out there, the active "Pooners" anyways...

[Puddlegurl]

Just out of curiousity for the Gentlemen out there, the active "Pooners" anyways...

Hello all,

I have SOooooo often in my 3.5 years in this Review board and all the others read time and time again about men booking 1 hr appointments, or even 30 min sessions and getting rushed out the door anywhere between 20-30 mins early.

Now being independent I have the luxury of booking my appointments with lots of time before and after for us to have no time restrictions, no knocks on the door etc.

Now what I wonder is , How often do you guys call these ladies on it to their face? Like saying, Um, I paid for an hour, where are you going? lol..Asking the escort why when you pay for a Hh/Hr and don't get it why not?


I honestly think if you guys become more outspoken before and during the session you'd get a much better outcome? No? Or is it too scary or intimidating to ask why you're getting ripped off in person?

 

[Miss*Bijou]

When you are seeing an SP, you are treading a minefield. There are no circumstances where you want to be too aggressive and make her feel that she needs to call her "security" or the police. So, if you feel shortchanged and mention it, it's in as a non-threatening manner as possible. I've found that the SPs that short change aren't bothered at all by a quiet statement that she's failed to deliver as advertised.

You have to weigh the money you paid against the damage to your reputation if you are named as a party in a police incident.

For me, that equation always mitigates towards just leaving and not seeing her again. The exceptions have been where physical violence has already taken place. I will not let people beat on me. I don't have to. As a former Boxer, I'm a much better close quarters fighter than the vast majority of people that I'm likely to meet and since my ability is unsuspected until I've begun responding, they are the one(s) at a disadvantage.

There is an implication in your post that it's not "manly" to post that an SP shortchanged you if you didn't choose to "get into it" with her at the time. I'm fairly certain that LE would much rather that shortchanged clients posted it on a review board than "got into it" with the SP. It's also the smarter choice for most pooners.

I agree. And I would also assume that by the time someone's feeling rushed out the door, the mood's pretty much non-existent and the likelihood of ending up with an unwilling participant who's left little doubt about her desire to have him out the door...well, probably doesn't seem all that sexy or especially worth the trouble. That's what I would assume anyway. :nod:

 

[Alix Turner]

I just want to know if a man has ever had to say... "uhm, i only booked an hour, i have plans.. can we wrap this up?"

 

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I just want to know if a man has ever had to say... "uhm, i only booked an hour, i have plans.. can we wrap this up?"

You bet Sometimes I've even had to ask where the clock was because of other engagements that followed the appointment!

 

[vancity_cowboy]

the one time i asked, i respectfully said i thought an hour had 60 minutes in it - she said looking me straight in the eye, its a performance hour, not a time hour. nuf said - put on clothes and walked out the door. cheeky bitch had the nerve to say call me again hun as i was leaving. how do you argue with that?

i've never booked again with any woman that uses the term hun lol

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

I had a sp try to boot me out of her apartment after 30 mins. Told her she can atleast give me a back massage or we can talk for the remainder. She had a guy in the lobby i think cause the phone rang nonstop. I told her "fuck you" and laid on the bed for 30 mins. She was a total bitch about it but i refuse to give into being ripped off.

 

[threepeat]

I agree with alinburnaby and Mlle Bijoux. I personally would not insist on more time if an SP cut the session short since it would kill the mood and smells faintly of rape.

That being said, I would never repeat and would (and have) given a bad review stating my own experience.

 

[dieselman]

I would agree with what's been said. Your playing with a thermonuclear reaction here if you push the point.....especially a first visit. Write a review about it, and NEVER see the lady again. I myself avoid any lady who is known to do this or is a clock watcher. As a pooner, it's my responsibility to leave on time. I don't abuse my time with the lady and I expect the same courtesy.


DM

 

[CLIT COMMANDER]

I would agree with what's been said. Your playing with a thermonuclear reaction here if you push the point.....especially a first visit. Write a review about it, and NEVER see the lady again. I myself avoid any lady who is known to do this or is a clock watcher. As a pooner, it's my responsibility to leave on time. I don't abuse my time with the lady and I expect the same courtesy.


DM

Exactly!!! The best thing that rings loudest for ladies that do this to people is the sound of their phone NOT ringing anymore!! Too many choices out there to let this get you down. Review them and inform the boards that they do not respect the time you paid for and find the ones where SERVICE actually means something. I would never bother telling her that she has violated the first rule of a service business. She will learn quickly enough if she keeps that attitude going what will happen to her bookings. Actions are much louder than words!

 

[Puddlegurl]

Thanks for the interesting responses, another question, would you or are you more comfortable to "speak up" at an agency as opposed to a Indy being that you're more vulnerable ?

 

[LJG]

I just want to know if a man has ever had to say... "uhm, i only booked an hour, i have plans.. can we wrap this up?"

Not quite in those words but, yes, a couple times I've made a two hour appointment and made an excuse to leave after a short while because I didn't feel any chemistry. Call me crazy but I simply can't get physically aroused if I don't get my partner's wit and intelligence -- they're the sexiest bits!

 

[badbadboy]

Like Alin said it is like treading through a minefield if we are too vocal about service or lack there of. We are at the SP's peril if things don't go well.

I just want to know if a man has ever had to say... "uhm, i only booked an hour, i have plans.. can we wrap this up?"

Nice one

Guilty as charged on going overtime a couple of times. I have always offered up a generous tip so I didn't appear to be taking advantage of the situation. Sometimes, you just get caught in the moment.

Here are a couple of my not so good memories:

Once after my first shot on goal at the 35 minute mark she got up, got dressed and logged onto her computer. I was like " I booked an hour and we have 25 minutes left". Her response was not encouraging but more like its not happening baby. Thankfully she has left the biz. There were enough negative reviews about her anyways without beating that horse anymore.

:deadhorse:

Another time I booked 90 minutes (my usual amount of time) and just started getting into it with the SP.

Two incoming Text Messages - she got up and answered both. Not good, in fact very bad form in my book.

Then a Phone call - she apologized but still got up and answered it. BBB is NOT a happy camper by this time.

Restart the date and I hear the buzz of the text message again. I am thinking, you answer that I will take all my money back and leave. She just smiled and we continued.

First shot on goal and more texts. BBB is pissed off by this time.

We sort of laid there talking for a bit. Got up showered and was about to leave. I then got the "hey you have been here nearly two hours, you really ought to be paying a bit more, don't you think?"

BBB - "you are fucking kidding me, right?"

To this day, I still don't think she got it.

 

[sevenofnine]

like a view of the comments your risking an explosion.

i vote with my wallet, and never return.

i have ran into a a couple of sps i rather enjoyed,
but time problems blew it
one i got lost and arrived late, five mins, not her fault mine,
it would have been nice if she extended my time by five,
like i said it would be a nice gesture, but she ran me out the door fifteen minutes early, so i was short 20 in an hour session, i never went back, though i kind of liked her

another it was my third session with her, i work late so my sessions are latter in the evening and this lady gave me all these rules on how late i can book a session and how long i can stay etc,
which was fine and on the third session she was kicking me out the door, ten miniutes early, another client was coming. so ten mins early plus all the time during my session she left to text with him.
she was nice, but there are other ladies out there.

from experiance there is no use bitching to a lady,
or getting grumpy,
if your into each other or have chemistry its really a nice experiance,
but when thinks go down hill, well you might just as well walk,

unless you just want to fuck her to spite her,

 

[hipdude]

I just want to know if a man has ever had to say... "uhm, i only booked an hour, i have plans.. can we wrap this up?"

yeah I have.... and it goes like this: session is happening and whatever she's doing, she's not doing it right. So I start thinking, my time is precious. I say, "hey you know, it's been great but that's fine, thanks. Gotta go". With 20 to 40 minutes left to go. Done that a few times. It's called cutting your losses short. I'm not hard up for a naked female or shitty sex. The reaction from the SP? Typically they are unhappy that I left unhappy, but to me - who cares. If you're gonna do a shitty job (or look bad, or smell bad, or act like its a chore, or be too tired), don't have the audacity to hope that I'm going to be happy with you.

I do the same when I go to movies. If the movie sucks, staying the whole 2 hours is a waste of my time on top of the money already wasted that won't be refunded, so I leave.

 

[badbadboy]

I am appalled that this thread even needs to exist! Why on earth an SP would rush someone out the door before their appointment is over is beyond me! You paid for that time and should enjoy the full appointment! If you have already finished and you can't msog or are just done, then chit chat, a massage, cuddles, whatever.. there;s plenty of ways to spend the remainder of your time! On the occasions that I am done early I never even hint at the session ending early, we chat or massage or whatever.

I have had a few clients leave early because they are done and have places to do or other things they need to get to. Their prerogative but I always allow plenty of time so am not in a rush, I never have another client on their way! I need time to shower, change the sheets, freshen up my makeup, eat something, recharge, etc. But then again I am not one to see many clients in a day so I guess some gals operate differently. The odd time I have dinner plans or something to get to so I can't doddle when the time is up, but never end early. sheesh!

I agree that there is not much point in saying anything, if she is the type to kick you out early she really isn't going to respond well or give a damn about what you have to say. Just post a review about her so others know and don't go see her again.



wtf does that mean? a performance hour? what a bitch!


BBB your experience is unacceptable. I think you should have taken your money and left after the first or second text. I would never answer my phone during an appointment! Once the time is up and we are going over time I will send a text or two to my security person but that's it.

I still can't believe a chick logged on to her laptop half way through! wtf is wrong with some people!?

Vanesssa the difference is you are professional in how you run your life and I am willing to bet many of your clients are repeats or regulars.

Of the two disasters I mentioned; one is out of the biz completely (thankfully!) and the other apparently is happy to see a client once and not have a satisfied return client (client votes with their wallet).

Back to the OP's original statement.

Let's say IF I had protested very assertively and both ladies took exception to me or my behaviour? What could have happened was I could have been put on a "black list" - correct? Through no fault of my own, I could have been placed on the list because of the SP's poor service. It's quite unfair really because I would venture to guess that any of the ladies I have seen would say "he's a nice guy".

This is why I say that pooners really can not say or do very much when faced with poor service. Other than gripe about it here in the Lounge after the fact

It's far easier for me to chalk the poor service SP's up to an experience. Now, I see a select 'few' who are excellent each time I see them.