Had a hot little 20 year old sp tonight and we went over the time booked by 1 hour but she says it's alright she had a good time also. So i grabbed a 20.00 and gave it to her and left. Then i noticed her roll her eyes when i gave it to her. Should i have tipped her at all or was it all good?
Tipping a sp?
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You were wrong to stay so long. It is easy to go a little over time, but staying a full hour over is taking advantage. She was rolling her eyes at you, not your tip.
The main thing to think about is most MP's pay for the room by the 1/2 hr or hr rate so even though she may not have watched the clock you can bet the mgr/owner made her buck up for the extra hr. in this case if the rm rate was $50/hr your tip was not enought to cover that.
I would go back and give her more and say you did not have it when you were there at the time. That gesture may go a long way next time you see her.
G.A.
I would go back and give her more and say you did not have it when you were there at the time. That gesture may go a long way next time you see her.
G.A.
How can you have 3200 posts here and not know it is wrong to stay an hour more than what you paid for? It blows my mind!
Tough call. So many variables.
If at an MP, pay the room fee,
If indie, well thats a tough one. If she was that into it, then consider it a gift.
Either way, she knew full well that you were into overtime(these gals have a seventh sense for time) and apparently didn't try to stop the session. So too bad. Actually you should give her a bill for taking an hour of YOUR time.
If you see her again, take her a nice gift and joke about the $20, saying it was to order dinner or something. And if it happens again, you got yourself a keeper :clap2:
If at an MP, pay the room fee,
If indie, well thats a tough one. If she was that into it, then consider it a gift.
Either way, she knew full well that you were into overtime(these gals have a seventh sense for time) and apparently didn't try to stop the session. So too bad. Actually you should give her a bill for taking an hour of YOUR time.
If you see her again, take her a nice gift and joke about the $20, saying it was to order dinner or something. And if it happens again, you got yourself a keeper :clap2:
An hour over? Just my opinion, but that deserves AT LEAST a 50% tip at the minimum. Pay for the full extra hour at the maximum. She might have said it was okay, but she was probably just uncomfortable with telling you to get out. Good customer service from her. Bad response from you.
Again, just my $.02.
Again, just my $.02.
I think if some one stays an hour over time, that is a mutual thing. If the SP is getting something out of it and enjoys the extra bonus time, that is her issue. Afterall she obviously liked the guy, the time spent and the action. It turned out to be for her as much as for him.
But should extra appreciation be shown. Yes definitely if it is affordable. Not all of us go to a date loaded with extra money and this whole issue sets the stage for dates being extended unexpectedly. Think of the consequences! you show up for an hour date, take an hour fee, and find out things get prolonged, the date drags out but and you find out the gal is having slow week and decided to take advantage of your time there. No NO.
Fun is fun, business is business, mix the two but don't expect extras unless both parties are into it. Then it is fair.
But should extra appreciation be shown. Yes definitely if it is affordable. Not all of us go to a date loaded with extra money and this whole issue sets the stage for dates being extended unexpectedly. Think of the consequences! you show up for an hour date, take an hour fee, and find out things get prolonged, the date drags out but and you find out the gal is having slow week and decided to take advantage of your time there. No NO.
Fun is fun, business is business, mix the two but don't expect extras unless both parties are into it. Then it is fair.
Call her and appologize, especially if she is a person you want to see again. If you get a chance to rebook then make it up to her, does she have a website? she may have info on there as to what she likes or alternately during your time togethr she may have expressed what some of her interests are.
She was considerate to you by not rushing your ass out the door when time was up, and just like oral sex it's always good to reciprocate the gesture
edit P.S. damn you Vanesssa now I have to go take a cold shower.................. nice pic in your sig.
She was considerate to you by not rushing your ass out the door when time was up, and just like oral sex it's always good to reciprocate the gesture
edit P.S. damn you Vanesssa now I have to go take a cold shower.................. nice pic in your sig.
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I think because she is young and perhaps not able to politely ask LAG to move on, she let it slide.
A single green for an extra hour for MSOG is definitely an insult. If it is mutual socializing time no prob IMHO.
Number of months ago I saw a highly reviewed SP (for the first and only time) for 90 minutes and ended up staying for 120 minutes. I didn't tip because this particular SP talked a lot (I was polite but not encouraging it), answered her phone twice and also texted someone a few times. Actual play time was about 45 minutes. Needless to say I never repeated.
She tried to hit me up for more $ on the way out the door.
My response, "pfffft, you are kidding, right? haha"
A single green for an extra hour for MSOG is definitely an insult. If it is mutual socializing time no prob IMHO.
Number of months ago I saw a highly reviewed SP (for the first and only time) for 90 minutes and ended up staying for 120 minutes. I didn't tip because this particular SP talked a lot (I was polite but not encouraging it), answered her phone twice and also texted someone a few times. Actual play time was about 45 minutes. Needless to say I never repeated.
She tried to hit me up for more $ on the way out the door.
My response, "pfffft, you are kidding, right? haha"
I mostly agree with JD. I have gone over on a number of occasions. It's her responsibility, not mine, to remind me and to let me know that it would cost more. I was in a professional business and often charged by the hour. If we agreed on one hour and it went over, then it was my responsibility, not the client's. I never asked to be reimbursed in that case. It was my responsibility. In the same way, the time is the SPs responsibility. Neither would I have tipped. The cost of a session is just enough; no tipping necessary. In return, I am a good customer and am often repeat business and may even post recommendations. A waiter or waitress requires tips because it's understood that tips make up the bulk of his/her income. Not so SPs.
Well, even if she says it's not alright id have to owe her some money. Cause I only had 30.00 on me and i dont bring credit cards or bank cards to sessions. I went down on her for a good 20-30 mins then we showered together where she gave me a blow and then i felt horny so we had sex together in bed for 20 mins. I didnt think it was a big deal cause i took her out free one time for dinner at nandos
I'm personally not sure of what the prodocal is. I do remember seeing one SP a couple of years ago and our sessions use to last far longer than I expected, but I gave her $300 and told her it lasts as long as you want it to.
I ended up seeing her several times, so I assume we were both happy with the arrangement.
In this case I'd probably book her again and see what happens, if it goes over again, she's obviously having fun, if it doesn't or worse yet she doesn't wish to see you again, you'll likely know why.
I ended up seeing her several times, so I assume we were both happy with the arrangement.
In this case I'd probably book her again and see what happens, if it goes over again, she's obviously having fun, if it doesn't or worse yet she doesn't wish to see you again, you'll likely know why.
I was thinking about this subject again and realized it probably has more to do with the tip than the time. When you go to a restaurant, you tip the waitress based on the service. 15-20% is pretty standard. So, if this provider was a $300/hr type of girl, then a $20 tip is the same as saying you were not pleased with the service. The fact that she gave you an extra hour without asking you to pay for that hour, she probably hoped for a tip worthy of such great customer service.
I disagree with Ingrid on this one, it is clearly any business owners responsibility to manage the time. Agencies do it with a knock on the door and indies need to have a system in place to ensure they manage their time appropriately. I know some who have security that they must call at the end of the time or it indicates a problem may be in progress.
Having said that, if I stayed that long over (which I wouldn't because I do respect the time) I would give a generous tip. If the lady requested that I continue after we had gone over a few minutes I would not be so inclined.
Having said that, if I stayed that long over (which I wouldn't because I do respect the time) I would give a generous tip. If the lady requested that I continue after we had gone over a few minutes I would not be so inclined.
My internal clock? I've been with enough SP's to know they know pretty much exactly when an hours passed, and if they don't see a problem continuing with the session, I'm sure as hell not going to tell them "times up" , that's for them to tell me.
But if she does say "gee I'm having a great time but your times up" and I want to stay longer and she agrees to continue, then I think compensation of some kind should be discussed.
Like I said in one of my other posts, I use to see an SP and we frequently went a couple of hours over what I expected. It couldn't have bothered her to much cause she saw me repeatedly and we texted probably 20 times a day. I'd give her anywhere from $300-600 and tell her to spend as much time with me as she wanted. One of our get togethers lasted 6 hours.
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Agreed, asking for a tip is bullshit. Your already making $$$ for your time. You want a tip because you gave good service? So since it goes both ways...if a gal gives shitty head, do I get a refund? Or if I make you come multiple times, yet you can't make me come once, do I now get to charge you for the service? Two way street, like you said.
I think we already established that time keeping is your responsibility. Im sure many gals would stay in the tanning beds alot longer than the time they paid for, if the lamps would stay on all the time, instead of turning off from the timer.
Also tips are reserved for people who make minimum wage and bust their ass to make sure I get good customer service when they deal with dozens/hundreds of people a day.
I mean really. Who tips a lawyer for getting them off a DUI?!?! They get a handshake and a cheque for $10,000. But hey, you sure did you job well.....here's another $2000. I dont think so
i had no internal clock and thought it was all within the hour. I usually have a sp tell me when the session is over. Long as i got one shot off during the hour or the session time im happy. When i got two shots off,daty,bj in the shower etc....i didnt even realize we went over.
It sounds to me that LAG got an extended session and he should have stuck a crowbar in his wallet and compensated the gal.....I myself have run past the clock by 5-15 mins many times......and it has never been my intention/fault...and I never got any sign/look of resentment nor dealt with any expectation....it sure as fuck helps when you arrive with a gift to begin with I will say......social time is a completely different thing and in so many ways...chatting and the like breaks tension but what if it is something else?....one of the regular players at my poker game asked a local SP to enjoy a round of golf with him.....he was prepared to pay for the green fees at a very decent golf course as well as the cart rental for 2 as well as lunch/dinner and drinks during the round....she said she would love to play...so long as he paid her for 4 hours of her time as well as the aforementioned costs....and at the same time he would not get fucked(well he would get fucked but not in a good way)...this response made him say NO.....and I could agree with that completely.....paying a gal to do something she enjoys in a comfortable setting whilst picking up the costs as well....total FAIL.
LAG......start bringing more cash if you run over the clock like that.
SR
LAG......start bringing more cash if you run over the clock like that.
SR
