I was just facebooking an sp and said..

[Markl]

It isn't the sex that most guys remember from a mp. It is the interaction with the staff. When I used to go to velvet, probably once a week to see Cherry, all the gals sorta knew me. It was like they were sisters of mine really.

I got to know them a little, especially if Cherry and I stayed in the "OTHER" room there when the 2 rooms were full... lol. You can hear everything!

I care about all of the gals there, I heard their stories, their problems. Only one ever pissed me off and I had previously helped her a lot. Hi Selena... anyway.

Lots of fun times... Dallas walking in on Cherry and me topless and covering up quick. Catching Bree going potty, priceless... and her suggesting I owed her $25 for that. To me giving Jeanie a white rose after she had gone through a hard time.

The owner is a classy lady, and I wish her the best.

Hennesay was also a figure there, big personality. Joey tried to entice me in a few times, but I had to save for miss Cherry.

 

[Markl]

I should note that, sex with Cherry was always mediocre generally. I never wanted to push myself on her, because I cared about her a ton. There were a few times however, wow!
For me, the best moment I ever spent with her was outside the mp, when we were friends and she told me, she only thought of me and "Fred" as human.

So whoever you are "Fred" you are aces in my book.
I spent time later on with her and her daughters, met ex-hubby.. etc..

She will never be back to SP life, so it's all good.
It was a great 3 1/2 years... I regret nothing.

 

[jdtipper]

..... she told me, she only thought of me and "Fred" as human.

Wow, this Cherry gal sure sounds like a real piece of shit.
Many thanks Markl, for letting us know that SPs don't consider their clients as humans, we must just be ATMs

 

[Mr.Boggo]

Wow, this Cherry gal sure sounds like a real piece of shit.
Many thanks Markl, for letting us know that SPs don't consider their clients as humans, we must just be ATMs

Most dont think shit of us, they just rarely admit it. get to know any of them a little, and you see what they really think of us.

 

[ThisEndUp]

Wow, this Cherry gal sure sounds like a real piece of shit.
Many thanks Markl, for letting us know that SPs don't consider their clients as humans, we must just be ATMs

Most dont think shit of us, they just rarely admit it. get to know any of them a little, and you see what they really think of us.

Agreed, It's all about the browns, reds, greens any anything else of value you may have err had...

 

[Mr.Boggo]

Agreed, It's all about the browns, reds, greens any anything else of value you may have err had...

Don't forget the purples and blues, they'll take anything they can get from us.

Quite a few wouldn't even think of touching us if it wasn't the financial thing. I've been with some SPs who answer a phone, and immediately after getting off the phone, will tell me shit about the guy who just called, how it's just about money when she sees him, how he should go fuck himself...pretty sad actually. If they really hate us so much, it's sad that they feel they need to put up with us just for the $$$.

Than again, they aren't so different from us. If it wasn't for the money, I wouldn't put up with the shit I do at work.

 

[rossedm34]

This is all a bit harsh. I deal with lots of people in my job who are decent enough but at the end of the day I don't really care about them and only deal with them for the money. There are also people that I deal with who are great and I've established a friendship outside of work. And because I'm a worker not an owner, their are people I have to deal with that are repugnant pieces of shit, but I have to deal with them or be out of work. Does that make me or anyone else a piece of shit, or is that just the way the working world works?

Truth be told, unless it's a slave trade thing, many SPs actually get to pick which clients they see, and many advertise on here stating that references are required. If you're an ass to an SP(and based on what I've heard, there's a strong chance many on here are...), you may never see them again regardless of the money. That luxury probably doesn't extend to some MP situations, but it does to a point. So have a bit of respect before painting all SPs with the same hate brush.

 

[jdtipper]

Naw the reason I said what I did is just "her" wording is so disrepectful to everyone.
Only 2 clients she seen, she considers human.

Wow
I dont care how much I hate or want to stab someone in the eye, I would never say anything so low. I was always taught to give everyone respect, until they do something to take that away. But even if I don't respect people, they are still people.

But hey, I guess when you sell your body, your allowed to look down on those who pay for it, an hour at a time.

 

[jdtipper]

And because I'm a worker not an owner, their are people I have to deal with that are repugnant pieces of shit, but I have to deal with them or be out of work. Does that make me or anyone else a piece of shit, or is that just the way the working world works?

First off, it's THERE.
And if you go around telling people that you only consider 2 co-workers/clients as decent human beings, and yet everyone else, be they good people or not are some lower form of life. Then yes, that makes you a piece of shit.
Ever stop to consider that everyone else might see you as that repugnant P.O.S you dislike so much?

 

[rossedm34]

But hey, I guess when you sell your body, your allowed to look down on those who pay for it, an hour at a time.

I don't sell my body, but if some of the people I deal with at my work have left me thinking that they are nothing more then savage animals, I hate to imagine what someone who sells sex has gone through with some of the clients thinking they rented a sex-device to do as they wish.

SPs are people just like everyone else. I'm respectful to the pigs I deal with at my work, but it doesn't mean I don't despise them once they are out the door. I'm sure there's people you despise too jd, so maybe show that same respect to SPs who maybe aren't as eloquent as you are when quoted in a anonymous forum posting by someone who has good intentions but also a bit of a weird history.

 

[rossedm34]

First off, it's THERE.
And if you go around telling people that you only consider 2 co-workers/clients as decent human beings, and yet everyone else, be they good people or not are some lower form of life. Then yes, that makes you a piece of shit.
Ever stop to consider that everyone else might see you as that repugnant P.O.S you dislike so much?

If SPs are such horrible, maniacal people, why do you go? You clearly don't like them or trust them, but you will pay them to have sex with them? There's threads like this again and again about how evil women are and that SPs are only in it for the money. Well, no on the first one, and of course on the second one. Just because SPs are in it for the money doesn't make them horrible people, just like how paying them for their time doesn't make you a horrible person. There is so much passive agressive misogony on this board just waiting to spring up at the littlest thing, it's gross frankly.

Remember too, this vitirol is being based on a MarkL post about Cherry. It should of been taken with a grain of salt instead of as gospel to the fact to the inner working of an SPs mind. No one will ever no what Cherry thinks, but because a love sick sap posted a supposed of quote, she's the poster model of the evil of SPs? Fucking madness!

And yeah, I can be a total piece of shit to people, and I'm alright with those customers (and others) thinking it. I'm alright with anyone who thinks it's ok to make racist slurs, have no self respect in regards to personal cleanliness and treat me disrespectful in the first place just because I work a counter instead of own a business to think of me as a piece of shit. Outside of work that applies, and I will tell them instead of politely helping them. By all means, separate me as far as I can be separated from those assholes.

 

[jdtipper]

I don't mean to get in an arguement here...but be it an anonymous forum or right to their face, Ill say the say thing.
And yes, I am guilty of being as two-faced as everyone else in the world, that I don't deny. I always believe that if you don't like your job for whatever reason, change the job. Its easier to find a new career than to try and not let worklife affect personal life.
For example, ME. I know that I despise dealing with people. So what do I do? I sit in a glass box with a radio for 13 hrs a day. No one bugs me, Im "happy".

I believe the girls that CHOOSE this line of work are something special..... IF they are choosing it for the right reason.
If all they are in it for is the money, then I have no sympathy for how they are treated (as a sex device). Im a bank machine, they are a pretty face with an orifice or 3.
If a gal does this because they enjoy bringing pleasure to others, then Wow, you have as much respect as I can give to anyone. These are the gals we all seek out. The ones who can fulfill our fantasies or fill that empty void in our lives, temporarily. Without making us feel like crap.

I know Markl meant well, but what I find sad, is that he started out as un-human, just like the rest of us schmucks. But he spent time and money and worked himself into a real human being, in her eyes (in his words).

 

[rossedm34]

If all they are in it for is the money, then I have no sympathy for how they are treated (as a sex device). Im a bank machine, they are a pretty face with an orifice or 3.

There's no point going on with this. I can't imagine treating anyone like this. Thinking of them as a horrible person, and engaging them as such, they're at least still being treated as responsible people. Not some hole to be used and discarded.

Also, to be pedantic, it's "I'm", not "Im". See how petty and ridiculous correcting grammar on an internet forum is when we both know exactly what each other means? I wont get any more personal then that, other then to say don't presume to know what other people are going through in their lives when they have decided to work the jobs that they do.

 

[rossedm34]

When did facebook become a verb?

The same time "Tweeting" did.

 

[jdtipper]

Wow I took a long time to write that

It's not I don't like/trust going to see SPs, hey it's the only way I'm going to get companionship or sex.

I just don't like going to waste my money on SPs who are strictly in it for the money. Those are the gals who don't give a shit about how I feel during the time. Or go on ranting about other clients.
All that does is ruin my enjoyment because I now know that she will be talking the same shit about me to the next guy.

I look for the ladies who are in it for more than money. Who enjoy the fact that they can bring me enjoyment for 1 hour out of a day filled with 23 hours of depression and disappointment. Gals who might actually take a bit of time to look past my brash exterior and see a little of whats inside. To see that I am not a total asshole, only mostly.

So my apologies if it seems that I don't respect these gals, or lump them all into the same pile.
It sucks that you have to endure people who dont give you the respect that they should. And what sucks more is that you have to stay in that position and can't find a way out the door.

Many thanks to the wonderful SPs who have endured the time they spent with me. My condolences to those gals whose halls have yet to be darkened by my shadow.

And Spermie, it became a verb when America realized it was easier to communicate through the internet, than by using one's mouth.

And hey, good catch on the '. I totally missed it

 

[Markl]

Some of the gals are there for more than the money JD. For some it is win-win. For some it is, put up with the old guy they are not attracted to and let their mind wander elsewhere so they can make ends meet. Cherry told me one time after we were just friends, there are only one type of gals in the industry... liars. I think she just didn't meet all the gals, just was going off the gals she met.

Most honest gals I have met.

Kendra
Nikki (formerly PC)
Megan (ditto)
Cherry (To me personally is the top, not to other clients though)
Taylor (Revive)
Carly (Mmc)
Lexi (Penthouse, coming out of retirement soon I think?!?)