What is the main reason men buy escorts?

vancity_cowboy

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How old is the average majority age of men who request these services. I am fairly young and the reason I'm thinking of doing this is because the girls I have attracted (naturally not paying) in the past have never been as attractive as I'd have liked them to be. I have seen a couple beautiful girls on the carman fox site, and feel like it would be a spectacular experience to bed one of those models, as I have never slept with a girl as hot as that. Being completely new to this scene or even concept rather (had no idea prostitution was this regulated and prevalent in Vancouver) I would have to say that I'm a bit disgusted at the amount of fat, ugly... disturbing looking women in general there are out there that actually have the nerve to charge people money!? for sexual favours???

Like I said I'm completely new to this so just bear with me, but it just strikes me as rather bizarre. Are most of the men that pay for sex and scour these boards for reviews, just genuinely unattractive unappealing men who have no chance at ever getting laid? I swear to god, I've already come across a handful of these "SP's" who if anything should be paying ME for a "service" or at least be labelled "free". If your a middle aged hag or chunky warthog, looking to actually get inside OTHER ppl's pockets, I think its time to find a new career or dust off the old resume and start looking to carve out a new life for yourself.
Pretty sad to think theres guys out there, who actually pay for that shit, how pathetic and embarrassing...not to mention the fact that your running the risk of catching a serious incurable disease.
I'm not at all saying there all like that and there are def some higher priced higher quality ladies out there, but ya, way too much low grade bullshit.

So why are the newspapers full of ads, and the internet packed with vancouver listings of escorts? I know I'm gonna hit a nerve when I say this but it's a little bit embarrassing for us guys to be paying for sex don't you think? I mean are we really just a bunch of boring losers with no social skills or enough charisma to attract women with charm and skill?
I can see 1 time splurging on a 500 dollar bombshell escort because you have the money and you feel like having a night, but doing this on a regular basis? I mean don't tell me you guys don't feel weird or guilty about that.
And btw i'm looking for edgy thought provoking responses not mindless hate. I don't care that you guys are doing it, I'm just wondering WHY? I'm sure theres a wide variety of reasons. I'd love to know what those reasons are...
to help you see what some of the other posters are saying, i've changed the font colours to indicate which parts of the op are ligitimate questions, and which parts are inflamatory belittling statements. i think your delivery could use a bit of work
 

fosho14

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Okay umbras and badbadboy, I apologize for inquiring about the demographic who utilize sp's and for passing my initial judgement about the industry. That was wrong of me, it was essentially a knee jerk response, that just kind of came out. I was undoubtedly mistaken as it is clear that there are many "normal" and educated decent men out there that simply prefer to pay for instant gratification. I guess that makes sense to me so I concede to your point. I'm sure that there are many good looking guys out there as well who pay for it too, although an SP herself replied to this thread stating that the vast majority of her clients were homely so who knows.
Also, Umbras, please look harder before you make a fool out of yourself. How can someone hijack their own thread? I was the one who created and started the other thread your talking about in the first place. My questions had been thoroughly discussed and I was satisfied with the answers, so I switched gears a little bit.

Now to comment on your statements. We live in the 21st century where women work and provide for themselves with careers just as much as men. You don't have to pay for everything and most women are not opposed to splitting the bill for dinner or whatever the event might be.... I have done my research and looked at numerous websites and hundreds of listings. QUALITY escorts are extremely expensive. MUCH MUCH more expensive than meeting a girl naturally. $300 an hour minimum is what your looking at but if you want premium girls then your looking at much more. So not only does it cost an arm and a leg but you are actually paying to put your health in danger. As this is the means of these womens livlihood and occupation, they are constantly sucking and fucking hundreds of different guys to pay their bills thus the probability of infection is quite high.

I'm not saying I'm a player, or a womanizer or what ever you want to call it, cause I'm definitely not. However I have alot of friends who are, and there situations seem a lot safer, more desirable and none of them revolve around dating, wasting time or as some people above have mentioned having children. O ya and best of all it won't cost you a penny. Are you aware that there is a such thing as no strings attached relationships, or a "fuck buddy"? It's an arrangement where both parties mutually agree to have emotionless sex at the touch of a dial, and nothing more; "friends with benefits". Studies show that women enjoy sex if not just as much as men! Yes it is more challenging to find this and yes it takes more skill but it is very real and exists everywhere, you just have to find it. How on earth can you possibly deny that this is not a better and safer method of sexual activity?
 

Umbras

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Well you got me on that, not realizing you had started the thread, but still does not change the fact that you hijacked the origional intent with a bunch of malicious drivel. I admit that mistake and am not afraid to do so when it happens.

Yes it is the 21st century, a time where spouses can set up a fake name on the internet and have randome sex with strangers, there is just as much risk to people health when they do that. A good companion who has a good reputation, looks after herself and ensures the safety of herself and those she chooses to interact with reguardless of her compensation amount.

The Fuck-buddy situation is never a sure thing, many people I know that had arrangments like that ended up with just as much drama as if they were in an actual relationship. Fuck-Buddys are not exclusive, they dont know what each others activities are like when they are not together, in my books that shows there is just as much risk if not more to a persons health and safety.

We can both agree to disagree and although I dont like the way you present your opinion, I respect the fact that everyone is entitled to thier own. This will be the last I will partake of this discussion and wish you well Fosho14.
 

Miss*Bijou

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So not only does it cost an arm and a leg but you are actually paying to put your health in danger. As this is the means of these womens livlihood and occupation, they are constantly sucking and fucking hundreds of different guys to pay their bills thus the probability of infection is quite high.

I'm not saying I'm a player, or a womanizer or what ever you want to call it, cause I'm definitely not. However I have alot of friends who are, and there situations seem a lot safer, more desirable and none of them revolve around dating, wasting time or as some people above have mentioned having children. O ya and best of all it won't cost you a penny. Are you aware that there is a such thing as no strings attached relationships, or a "fuck buddy"? It's an arrangement where both parties mutually agree to have emotionless sex at the touch of a dial, and nothing more; "friends with benefits". Studies show that women enjoy sex if not just as much as men! Yes it is more challenging to find this and yes it takes more skill but it is very real and exists everywhere, you just have to find it. How on earth can you possibly deny that this is not a better and safer method of sexual activity?

First of all: Total troll. (and an ignorant one at that) :rolleyes:


People, why are you even responding to this tool? Don't respond and she'll...uh i mean, he'll go away.
 

myselftheother

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First of all: Total troll. (and an ignorant one at that) :rolleyes:


People, why are you even responding to this tool? Don't respond and she'll...uh i mean, he'll go away.
I think you nailed it on the head, Miss Bijou....this is similar to other posts of disgruntled or abolitionist rightous females that have a bone to pick, or a moral issue to soapbox about.

If you're not a pooner, or an Sp....or involved in this industry in some capacity, this site isn't for you. Asking questions under the thinly veiled guise of being a guy. She writes like a woman, as you read the style as female written. Speculation....of course.
 

badbadboy

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I'm not saying I'm a player, or a womanizer or what ever you want to call it, cause I'm definitely not. However I have alot of friends who are, and there situations seem a lot safer, more desirable and none of them revolve around dating, wasting time or as some people above have mentioned having children. O ya and best of all it won't cost you a penny. Are you aware that there is a such thing as no strings attached relationships, or a "fuck buddy"? It's an arrangement where both parties mutually agree to have emotionless sex at the touch of a dial, and nothing more; "friends with benefits". Studies show that women enjoy sex if not just as much as men! Yes it is more challenging to find this and yes it takes more skill but it is very real and exists everywhere, you just have to find it. How on earth can you possibly deny that this is not a better and safer method of sexual activity?
Been there, done that and in the end it became too complicated. On top of that it also became very vanilla whereas I prefer more edgy, nasty play.

You also make the incorrect assumption that only SP's and clients are prone to STD's. Check your data on that one.

You do write in a female style. What is your agenda here Lady?

Are you a jilted female lover? Are you an anti SP crusader? or are you fishing for a Fuck Buddy by trolling a SP related website hoping that someone might PM you for fuck in the back of their mini Van?
 
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