NSFW...this is the level I'd like to take with my next SP

[Yman]

Life imitates....

omg...thanks adriana !! These last few posts made me think of this scene. You're the ' Marshall McLuhan ' of this thread :

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[Cliffy Ronaldo]

Man, the last place you'd expect a bunch or moralistic twats to be hanging out is in an SP review forum, but I guess it takes all types...

 

[Mr.Boggo]

Morality coming from an escort review board is what's quite fucked up.

 

[zzari]

it seems like whenever the discussion tries to go in a positive direction, Murrman and his crusaders just totally ruins it. I'd like to request them banned permanently for disagreeing with my sexual preferences.

 

[zzari]

Morality coming from an escort review board is what's quite fucked up.

Bam....this one statement should shut everyone up who is complaining about moral issues of performing sadistic sexual acts on a consenting adult.

 

[zzari]

EXACTLY! I love being submissive, rough sex and being slapped & choked, having my hair pulled, spanked, tied up and cum all over. It arouses me to be a man's sex slave. LOVE IT! Its makes me orgasm.

Dr. Vanessa Kelly and I did an orgy with 6 men who did what they wanted to us and then all six came on our faces at the end. It was so hot! One person's degredation is another's ultimate fantasy. Live and Let Live.

You people have no right to judge someone else's fantasy. Our sexuality is incredibly complex and to apply a simplistic view to something like this is asinine. Grow up, already

what is your thoughts on the video and the acts that the girl received?

can you elaborate on the bolded phrase?

 

[Yman]

But, hmmmm... perhaps I'm suspicious of the word 'consent'. Every man and woman has their price... let alone the likelihood they're desperate for cash and will take abuse to earn some.

Can't that be said for the bulk of transactions in the sex trade ? How many providers refused to take your money because they just wanted to DO YOU so badly ? lol .

 

[sevenofnine]

Its a life style thing I guess.

Power humiliation ego. Taken to the extreme.


Even just seeing an sp, isn't there power in that, a complete stranger an email or two and your knocking on her door drop money on her counter and you reach between her legs.
Or drop your pants and say honey I need you to take care of something for me.
Do we really care or give a dam about her or even want to.

Its kind of the same thing.
But taken to the next level.

In all honesty, I find that very erotic the power a john has over an sp. money on her table and ok just fuck me now

I find it erotic and very powerful but I can't really sustain it, because I repeat with one sp all the time, and I follow her lead what every she more or less likes. How she likes to have a session etc.

And to be honest just the way Im wired I could never hit any one.
But to be honest there is something very erotic about submission.

 

[Cock Throppled]

I don't find submission attractive at all.

The need to humiliate people - in a sexual context or not shows something lacking. I see it sometimes with the way people treat animals - with total forceful or violent control that says they can do anything they want to that animal or person want because they are stronger or bigger.
Really - that makes you feel big?

Can also be criminal. Remember that Vancouver chef that used to pay down and out SW's to let him beat them in crab park? He got charged and sentenced to jail. They may have agreed to it, but it was just cause they were desperate.

 

[Pirate Code]

I can be sadistic, but only if my partner enjoys it.. Pain can heighten pleasure.. the pain I want to induce is one that ultimately elicits a pleasure response. Consenting partners can do whatever they like with each other with good intentions... why not?

If there is no pleasure experienced by the submissive person, the dominant is a monster.

I really like spanking a nice round bum, but slapping a face just would not feel good in my heart. Even if my subbie wanted it, it's something I would likely not participate in.(please note I did not view the video, so am not making a comment about that, just a general statement about the subject matter)

 

[Yman]

Did you ever stop to think Murmann that having to give YOU a hand job or a blow job is somewhat demeaning and lowering of a woman's standards ? Like I said earlier, how many providers are refusing your money because they want to DO YOU so badly ?

 

[Mr.Boggo]

Yeah man. Treating SP's like shit is what this is all about, right?

Welcome to the pit of IMMORALITY.

how much more insulting could you be to the respected female members of this online community?

I never said that. I've been respectful to every SP I've ever seen, so don't be saying I treat anyone like shit.

Some SPs may engage in monetary exchange in order to fulfill a fantasy...y'know, sort of what the rest of us pooners do.

Let me be clear, what happens in that video, it's not something I'd do...than again, for a part of society paying for sex isn't something they'd do either, so I guess we are all in the pit of immorality than and insulting to every female depending on who we ask?

 

[zzari]

I don't find submission attractive at all.

The need to humiliate people - in a sexual context or not shows something lacking. I see it sometimes with the way people treat animals - with total forceful or violent control that says they can do anything they want to that animal or person want because they are stronger or bigger.
Really - that makes you feel big?

Can also be criminal. Remember that Vancouver chef that used to pay down and out SW's to let him beat them in crab park? He got charged and sentenced to jail. They may have agreed to it, but it was just cause they were desperate.

its nothing to do with your ego or feeling superior.

are you this retarded?

 

[Cock Throppled]

its nothing to do with your ego or feeling superior.

are you this retarded?

Enlighten us, please.

 

[sweetiepie1]

its nothing to do with your ego or feeling superior.

are you this retarded?

Oh, C'mon now, you are just digging yourself in deeper. You're just looking like a total asshole so I suggest you give up now, take your toys and go home. Adrianna, I appreciate your point, but there is a difference between role play fun with people you know are also role playing, and the all-too-realistic depiction of real abuse shown in that video. Of course there is a possibility she was getting off on it, but unless we were there and know her, we can't tell. And the lack of that reassurance is what makes it disturbing. Its the same as a difference between a grown woman doing the school-girl dress up thing, and the depiction of a young girl who really makes us wonder if she's of age. And its the same difference between and erotical dominant mistress, and someone who really does tie guys up to get off. There is a line there, and people who cross it really need to question their own emotional well being. I think its disgusting that someone could watch that particular video and get excited by it.

 

[Yman]

Some of the BDSM websites show a video introduction to the actors and an epilogue after a scene. The consent and comfort with the actors is evident. I expect it can even then be disturbing to an individual who doesn't understand or participate in this realm of sexuality but at least it offers some comfort that no one is being forced to do anything against their will. This video in discussion has no such commentary so I can appreciate people's concern.

 

[westcoast555]

I would never have acts of violence in the bedroom with my partner, or in any aspect of my relationship. I demand a certain level of respect from my partner and I don't think that being hit in the face constitutes respect. You can examine it down to the nitty gritty, but the kind of man that gets pleasure from hitting you is not the kind of man I would ever want to have in my life.

Right you are... that kind of shit is fucked up. Dominance, even CONSENSUAL 'forced-sex' role play is all fine but slapping somebody in the face and getting off on it..? I just think it's nasty - and not in a good way.

 

[Yman]

Right you are... that kind of shit is fucked up. Dominance, even CONSENSUAL 'forced-sex' role play is all fine but slapping somebody in the face and getting off on it..? I just think it's nasty - and not in a good way.

I can't believe the amount of judgemental people on this website...especially given the nature of this site. Many people believe prostitution is outright wrong and harmful to a society as a whole. I'm sure the same people giving their opinions on what is ' fucked up ' would get defensive if someone came on this site calling them scumbags for partaking in prostitution. What hypocritical bullshit !

 

[Mr.Boggo]

I'm sure the same people giving their opinions on what is ' fucked up ' would get defensive if someone came on this site calling them scumbags for partaking in prostitution. What hypocritical bullshit !

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[sweetiepie1]

I can't believe the amount of judgemental people on this website...especially given the nature of this site. Many people believe prostitution is outright wrong and harmful to a society as a whole. I'm sure the same people giving their opinions on what is ' fucked up ' would get defensive if someone came on this site calling them scumbags for partaking in prostitution. What hypocritical bullshit !

So, are you saying that as soon as prostitution is involved, then all semblance of morality falls by the wayside? Okay, so some people get off on hitting and some people get off on being hit. It might be fucked up but let them do it in the privacy of their bedroom. But in THIS case, this particular video, the disturbing thing is that there is no evidence that this woman is giving free consent, as opposed to being strung out on drugs or desparate, or having been threatened. Do you really think she's getting anything at all for this? You can see the despair in her face, and that's what makes it disturbing.