Intriguing topic, fascinating posts (and pictures)
A while back I knew a girl who was quite large and overweight....
After some heavy drinking, usually at parties or at the club, we'd make out a few times, but thats as far as it would go. Then one night I was at the club with some friends, super drunk and she calls me to come over after the club... Well I did... We get on the bed and start making out again and the whole time im saying to myself, "can i do this?" Well, eventually something clicked.. and the answer was, "no" i cant do this. I wasnt attracted to her and just couldnt do it.
Hey dudeharsh,
Male arousal is a funny thing. Who knows, perhaps you couldn't "do it" with this lady because you worried about her after-sex expectations, or because you viewed her through the distorting lens of cultural disparagement.
Like most men, I was socially brainwashed to regard buxom ladies as less attractive than thinner ones. I've since overcome this prejudice, largely thanks to gangbang parties with BBWs.
Prior to my initially hesitant attendance—prompted by a GF with gangbang fantasies— I'd never have expected such parties be fun. But the thing is, when there are no expectations beyond sex, when there's more than one guy playing with the same lady, and you can take your turn when you feel like it, the pressure is off, surprising arousal kicks in, and a guy can have a marvelous time.
At such parties I've been with ladies amazingly ample of figure, but I've yet to meet one I'd consider too big for a no-strings-attached romp. True, you're more restricted position-wise with larger BBWs (CG may not work), but so what—there're lots of pleasurable options.
Any BBW who lacks for male attention in her social circle might want to explore swinger clubs (only a few snobbier clubs are restrictive regarding body type).
Some pooners restrict themselves to SPs with "ideal" looks and often sound harshly judgmental of others. Well, I'm glad I've overcome my anti-BBW phobia and enjoy women of almost any body type as long as they're friendly and erotically playful.