a conversation with my sp

[sevenofnine]

i saw my sp last night and we talked about many things the highlights

she is under pressure to give some sort of frequent flyer or loyalty rewards wanted my opinion
im the wrong person to ask, every sp i repeat with i end up paying more then there rate,

i look at it this way
the lady is going to have sex with me do i want her to be cheap or give it her best shot,
so why should i be cheap with her,

im married have two kids, i want a lady full of class and some one i can trust,
that to me does not equate with going on the cheap
i have heard stories about leave your wallet in the car or your credit cards cell phone get an untraceable one,

my pants and wallet cards and phone are left on the floor in my sp's bathroom with out a thought in the world, at least once a session she goes to the bathroom she could have my cards get my phone whatever,

i have seen her for years at least once we had a falling out called each other a few names, and now were back, its great,
but the point was she had every oppurtunity and perhaps reason to get my cards or my home or my kids phone numbers and never did,
i trust her with everything, completely

i once had a high profile in this hobby made alot of posts i have been with and talked to many ladies,
one lady told me flat out she ruined a couple of guys lives
several others mused to me how easy it would be to ruin a guy or steal from him,
i never saw either of them
my sp has never once talked like that or hinted anything
i trust her completely
we also talked alot about sex
my sp made the comment
guys just want the same thing over and over again,
when i got home i emailed her and said im that guy,
we usually do the same thing over and over again,

i have always encouraged my sp to give me directions ok
but they never have,
but we started talking about what she likes, ok
and it kind of surprised me
what she likes
pretty risky for her,
and uncomfortable.
i thought it put her in a very exposed risky pose where i had her spread wide and access to everything and i also thought very uncomfortable for her
but she said she likes it
i remember ladies talking about it and they said they would only do it with there lover not something or with some one just in passing,
but what the hell do i know
it was great,
amazing actually

i don't know what im trying to say
but i have spent alot of time and alot of money
with two of the icons in the industry

my advice is don't go cheap guys
respect the hell out of them,

one regularly askes me to spend the night, both i have seen socially
both have shown me a hell of a good time,
both are good friends,

and guys these girls know a hell of alot more about sex then you ever will.

its not about facials and bbbj or cim
treat a girl right and wow
and even the most conservative sp out there, if she wants can make the earth move

 

[Puddlegurl]

i saw my sp last night and we talked about many things the highlights

she is under pressure to give some sort of frequent flyer or loyalty rewards wanted my opinion
im the wrong person to ask, every sp i repeat with i end up paying more then there rate,

i look at it this way
the lady is going to have sex with me do i want her to be cheap or give it her best shot,
so why should i be cheap with her,

im married have two kids, i want a lady full of class and some one i can trust,
that to me does not equate with going on the cheap
i have heard stories about leave your wallet in the car or your credit cards cell phone get an untraceable one,

my pants and wallet cards and phone are left on the floor in my sp's bathroom with out a thought in the world, at least once a session she goes to the bathroom she could have my cards get my phone whatever,

i have seen her for years at least once we had a falling out called each other a few names, and now were back, its great,
but the point was she had every oppurtunity and perhaps reason to get my cards or my home or my kids phone numbers and never did,
i trust her with everything, completely

i once had a high profile in this hobby made alot of posts i have been with and talked to many ladies,
one lady told me flat out she ruined a couple of guys lives
several others mused to me how easy it would be to ruin a guy or steal from him,
i never saw either of them
my sp has never once talked like that or hinted anything
i trust her completely
we also talked alot about sex
my sp made the comment
guys just want the same thing over and over again,
when i got home i emailed her and said im that guy,
we usually do the same thing over and over again,

i have always encouraged my sp to give me directions ok
but they never have,
but we started talking about what she likes, ok
and it kind of surprised me
what she likes
pretty risky for her,
and uncomfortable.
i thought it put her in a very exposed risky pose where i had her spread wide and access to everything and i also thought very uncomfortable for her
but she said she likes it
i remember ladies talking about it and they said they would only do it with there lover not something or with some one just in passing,
but what the hell do i know
it was great,
amazing actually

i don't know what im trying to say
but i have spent alot of time and alot of money
with two of the icons in the industry

my advice is don't go cheap guys
respect the hell out of them,

one regularly askes me to spend the night, both i have seen socially
both have shown me a hell of a good time,
both are good friends,

and guys these girls know a hell of alot more about sex then you ever will.

its not about facials and bbbj or cim
treat a girl right and wow
and even the most conservative sp out there, if she wants can make the earth move

Nice, that post made me smile, I'm one of those honest girls who often is quite suprised at how much trust it put in me with secrets and personal items. It makes me feel really good when a client can walk in a drop everything and just get comfy and enjoy our time together without any thoughts of his safety . You get what you give.. Xoxoxo

 

[Surrey's Jewel]

You don't have to spend a lot to get that type of treatment. It's all about the quality of the person you see not the amount of money you pay. Glad to hear you found what works for you !

 

[shyboy123]

Now that is one happy customer! great to hear. I am not in an income bracket to be a sugar daddy or anything, but I have never, ever asked for a special rate, or haggled etc. I believe that the girl asks for what she needs or can justify for her to do what she does and I feel it is degrading to try and negotiate on that principle. That being said, I have been lucky to never have been ripped off, badly upsold, treated badly etc. All my experiences have been pretty much like a fun casual hook-up except there is an envelope dropped on the dresser at some point. That's just me - I realize others have had some pretty bad experiences or frequent enough visits they are looking to spread their funds a little further so a special, or coupon or negotiation is helpful. To each his own I guess, but I totally get your point seven. I'm glad to hear you have enjoyed yourself!

 

[mistressfreyja]

This post also makes me smile. Mostly because seven clearly respects the woman he spends his time with. He understands how to get the most mileage from caring SPs: Treat her NICE!

Nice, that post made me smile, I'm one of those honest girls who often is quite suprised at how much trust it put in me with secrets and personal items. It makes me feel really good when a client can walk in a drop everything and just get comfy and enjoy our time together without any thoughts of his safety . You get what you give.. Xoxoxo

Clearly, this is certainly not the case for you, but you've also established yourself as a kind individual that offers great service for pricepoint.

You don't have to spend a lot to get that type of treatment. It's all about the quality of the person you see not the amount of money you pay. Glad to hear you found what works for you !

You also have learned the 'mileage' trick! I love men such as you and seven. You make my day!

Now that is one happy customer! great to hear. I am not in an income bracket to be a sugar daddy or anything, but I have never, ever asked for a special rate, or haggled etc. I believe that the girl asks for what she needs or can justify for her to do what she does and I feel it is degrading to try and negotiate on that principle. That being said, I have been lucky to never have been ripped off, badly upsold, treated badly etc. All my experiences have been pretty much like a fun casual hook-up except there is an envelope dropped on the dresser at some point. That's just me - I realize others have had some pretty bad experiences or frequent enough visits they are looking to spread their funds a little further so a special, or coupon or negotiation is helpful. To each his own I guess, but I totally get your point seven. I'm glad to hear you have enjoyed yourself!

 

[hugedman]

I found it very funny reading the OP's thread, he was saying that he's been with several SPs and they (of one of them) told me that she could have easily ruined their clients' lives, and later, the OP mentioned that he never saw either of them???? WTF is he talking about...

And the main point of this OPs thread was not to go CHEAP on the SPs...instead, he went on and on...

 

[mistressfreyja]

I automatically added the "again" to "I never saw any of them."

Perhaps seven can elucidate.

I think it's really sweet that he found someone he clicks with. Not everyone wants a regular. That's Ok too. There's someone out there for everyone's tastes.

I found it very funny reading the OP's thread, he was saying that he's been with several SPs and they (of one of them) told me that she could have easily ruined their clients' lives, and later, the OP mentioned that he never saw either of them???? WTF is he talking about...

And the main point of this OPs thread was not to go CHEAP on the SPs...instead, he went on and on...

 

[Tugela]

I found it very funny reading the OP's thread, he was saying that he's been with several SPs and they (of one of them) told me that she could have easily ruined their clients' lives, and later, the OP mentioned that he never saw either of them???? WTF is he talking about...

And if you continue reading the very next line is

my sp has never once talked like that or hinted anything

Obviously he meant he never saw those girls who bragged about their ability to wreck peoples lives "again", the word was just left out.

 

[Tugela]

Hey seven, tell me more about your wife & kids.

I think it's great that she allows you to go see these gals & blow loads of dough as you blow yer load.

The kid's don't mind that your spending their college fund on fornication do they?



That's great Seven!

Let me know when you have reached $130,000 in expenditure it's a wonderful feeling that you get when you have spent that much & get to see how much they appreciate your patronage.

Wow...you are a bitter one aren't you.

I find that anything spent on entertainment is "wasted" in the sense that it hasn't been used to build something but instead was used for an experience that lasts a moment. This applies to visiting ladies, but it also applies to skiing at Whistler, eating out at decent restaurants, going to movies or a show, going to the big hockey game etc etc. None of those things leave you with anything other than an empty wallet (or maybe medical bills if you ski into a tree) once they are done. I'm fairly sure that you don't reflect on those things and add up how much you have "wasted", so why do that with your visits to SPs? It is not the way to look at things, if all it does is fill you with regret. It is more constructive once you spent your money (on whatever your entertainment is) to not think about it any more and look forward rather than backwards. If you do that you will find that your life will be a lot happier.

 

[whoisjohngalt]

Wow...you are a bitter one aren't you.

I find that anything spent on entertainment is "wasted" in the sense that it hasn't been used to build something but instead was used for an experience that lasts a moment. This applies to visiting ladies, but it also applies to skiing at Whistler, eating out at decent restaurants, going to movies or a show, going to the big hockey game etc etc. None of those things leave you with anything other than an empty wallet (or maybe medical bills if you ski into a tree) once they are done. I'm fairly sure that you don't reflect on those things and add up how much you have "wasted", so why do that with your visits to SPs? It is not the way to look at things, if all it does is fill you with regret. It is more constructive once you spent your money (on whatever your entertainment is) to not think about it any more and look forward rather than backwards. If you do that you will find that your life will be a lot happier.

There are important differences between activities like skiing and fine dining, and (1) cheating on your spouse and (2) depleting your family's wealth (Unless you are one of those interesting couples that keep their money separate but thats a whole other topic). Don't get me wrong, I am not judging anyone and am the first to admit that I am in no position to judge, but on the other hand lets be adults and be honest about what we are doing here. It ain't all pretty.

 

[wilde]

i don't know what im trying to say
but i have spent alot of time and alot of money
with two of the icons in the industry

curiosity piqued...

 

[Tugela]

There are important differences between activities like skiing and fine dining, and (1) cheating on your spouse and (2) depleting your family's wealth (Unless you are one of those interesting couples that keep their money separate but thats a whole other topic). Don't get me wrong, I am not judging anyone and am the first to admit that I am in no position to judge, but on the other hand lets be adults and be honest about what we are doing here. It ain't all pretty.

He is going on about the cost and regretting that though. Cheating is completely different. People deplete their family's wealth on a great many frivolous things and its not just husbands who do that, wives do as well. From the point of view of finances there isn't a real difference. The financial side becomes important only if it causes real deprivation to the family, however, visiting SPs is not the only thing that can result in that so there is no need to make a special case of it. The OP may be blowing a lot of cash on SPs but if he can afford doing that regularly chances are that his wife is also blowing large amounts of cash on things that entertain her.

 

[lenny]

its not about facials and bbbj or cim

The 3 hr BBBJ's are great, though. If you've never had this, you haven't lived. jk ;

treat a girl right and wow
and even the most conservative sp out there, if she wants can make the earth move

Yes, being kind, thoughtful and generous goes a long way and reaps its rewards.
The girl thinks this guy is a keeper, so treat him special.

 

[SFMIKE]

I found it very funny reading the OP's thread, he was saying that he's been with several SPs and they (of one of them) told me that she could have easily ruined their clients' lives, and later, the OP mentioned that he never saw either of them???? WTF is he talking about...
And the main point of this OPs thread was not to go CHEAP on the SPs...instead, he went on and on...

The OP sounds about as confused as a goat on Astroturf.

 

[jnewton]

The OP sounds about as confused as a goat on Astroturf.

I think you mean sheep on Astroturf. A goat would just dive right in and start munchin'.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

A goat would just dive right in and start munchin'.

kinda like a lot of folks around here...

 

[SFMIKE]

Funny - but SFM was referring to traction.

I was????????

 

[jnewton]

Oh, I think we had a pretty good idea what SFM was talkin' 'bout.

 

[JustAGuy]

Hey seven, tell me more about your wife & kids.
I think it's great that she allows you to go see these gals & blow loads of dough as you blow yer load.

The kid's don't mind that your spending their college fund on fornication do they?

Let me know when you have reached $130,000 in expenditure it's a wonderful feeling that you get when you have spent that much & get to see how much they appreciate your patronage.

I don't come to this site very often any more but it's really great to see that some things never change. You were, are and will always be a jackass, Krustee. Thanks so much for that little bit of "sameness" in my life.