Cost of Extras
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Doesn't each sp who does this have their own rate structure? Just wondering what you expect the answers to be. Common sense would say anything from 20-100, depending on what that '"extra" actually is, and maybe a bit based on what the starting rate is. (180 might be extra 20 for bbbj, 300 might be 50-100 for bbbj)
Extras can mean many different things each with an associated cost. Speaking of extras, and I anticipate that people would generally decline this extra but have you ever been offered BBFS as an "extra"...
I should also answer my own question - it was "many" years ago and I declined, got dressed and departed!
there was one girl who advertise on CL who advertise as a non-pro and one thing i ask is are they open to BBFS, and she said yes so i passed and never contacted her again.
Anyone either asking for or offering BBFS- that should be an immediate red flag that sends you running for the hills.
Very true sidewinder which is exactly why my response was this:
Now, I wonder what the stats are on SPs and STIs
i inquire so i know who to avoid. if there willing to say yes to me, then there willing to say yes to anybody. and i would rather know up front before i make anymore effort. besides the only time i am willing to have bbfs is when i am with my girlfriend/wife ready to make a kid
Every single person that has asked me this, I have politely said, I really don't think I'm the girl for you, and hung up. I have always thought that someone asking is someone that I really don't want to see. I used to do the same with people that asked for bbbj, but now bbbj is such a common thing, that I guess, I have grown used to the question, lol. The answer is still no, hahaha. I know many girls that think the same as Jamie and I. You may want to find a sneakier way to get your question out, lol
i dont ask sp who are in the industry as i know the answer. i ask the ones who used to post once or twice, on craiglist, asking for money for rent or tution etc where there is no intel on them
Ahh, ok, that makes sense. You never know with someone that doesnt know what they are doing. That is one reason why I am glad cl is gone. It makes it harder for girls that have no clue to get into the industry. I think most people should start off in an agency where they can learn a few tricks about keeping safe.
So what? What business is it of yours to care what others do and don't do?
Not every woman wants to be an SP for a decade, or in your case decades.
No point of even having a discussion. What people say, and what people do are two very different things. It's because of sites like PERB realities are blown way out of proportion, and things that are considered normal every where else in the world (and in your own bloody doorstep here in Van) is considered "taboo" by a bunch of boring nay-sayers.
MYOFB and we all get along
Not every woman wants to be an SP for a decade, or in your case decades.
No point of even having a discussion. What people say, and what people do are two very different things. It's because of sites like PERB realities are blown way out of proportion, and things that are considered normal every where else in the world (and in your own bloody doorstep here in Van) is considered "taboo" by a bunch of boring nay-sayers.
MYOFB and we all get along
Does anyone believe this guy? You'd have more respect if you just outright admitted you asked for bbfs, saw her, and did it bareback.
Who asks such a question if they aren't looking for it? If you planned on covering up, because condoms are so protective and all, why would you care if she did bbfs with anyone else or not? if you're wearing a condom, you're "safe" right? LOL.
You can't piss in my ear and tell me it's raining.
Get over it folks. BBFS happens a lot. A lot more than anyone would care to know. I am not gonna name names, but let's just say the list is long and distinguished. And most are popular girls on here, that have this "reputation" to save, but in private do exactly the opposite. Hypocrites in its very essense.
I actually do mind my own business. I'm just stating an opinion. I'm not telling anybody what to do at all. I don't even gossip in my personal life. Why are you talking to me like that? Have I ever been rude to you? In an agency, you learn how to screen men, and learn to trust your gut. Its safer for women to start, that's my only concern. if you notice the Bill Russels of the world prey on new to the business. Maybe a woman offers bbfs because she is uneducated about HIV or has low self esteem.So what? What business is it of yours to care what others do and don't do?
Not every woman wants to be an SP for a decade, or in your case decades.
No point of even having a discussion. What people say, and what people do are two very different things. It's because of sites like PERB realities are blown way out of proportion, and things that are considered normal every where else in the world (and in your own bloody doorstep here in Van) is considered "taboo" by a bunch of boring nay-sayers.
MYOFB and we all get along
I play safe, but boring in bed, I'm not. I haven't been vanilla since I was 15. How would you know, what fucking me is like?
There's the facts, and then there's fear-mongering.
Why would I want to know what fucking you is like? I prefer my women younger than me, not older. My personal preference is seeing someone that hasnt been "done" by a few thousand dudes by the time it's my turn. Sorry if that's harsh, just my opinion.
But I am well aware of your antics on these boards. Telling people to be "safe" which is preaching, not letting others come to their own conclusions.
I just think this whole notion that the women offering stuff like bbbj/bbfs are "uneducated" is a totally bogus one. Maybe a self-fullfilling ego boost and nothing more. Who are you to presume that? Yes I take acception to that. The women that have offered these things were far far away from being uneducated.
While youre at it : go check this site out : http://www.adultwork.com
Now that's a real website. Women offer whatever they damn well please without prejedice and gawkers from afar telling them what they can or shouldnt do. Good on 'em.
And putting a douche-bag like Bill Russell in the same sentence as bbfs is comparing apples to oranges. I don't want to see any women hurt either. But she has free reign to do as she pleases with her body, educated or not without being pressured from the mother hens of boards like this.
Could you imagine if reviews on this board were all 100% truthful and real? You'd be in for a hell of a shocker.
Ok, Mr. Specialist, you are completely taking what I said out of whack. I think its a good idea to start off doing this in a safe environment. Why are you contesting that?I really do not like arguing on the internet with anybody, so have fun playing by yourself. I'm done. Like I said, why be rude to me, when I have never been rude to you?
No need to be rude as well as condescending, there "Specialist." Things are tough enough out there for SP's as it is....
I just wanna know how we went from an inquiry about extra's in session and the cost of said services to yet ANOTHER full blown discussion about the taboo of BBFS?
Specialist.....you raise some interesting points with regards to women and the right to offer their services as they see fit. But I don't think you are going to find a very open audience when it comes to an activity that is unsafe for us all. Confronting Harmony so aggressively is unnecessary....
And I know of a number of reviewers that do review honestly. An honest review doesn't have to be harsh or rude to convey the truth. Because you choose to be harsh with your words doesn't mean the rest of us want to be, and that hardly equates to reviews being less than honest....
Specialist.....you raise some interesting points with regards to women and the right to offer their services as they see fit. But I don't think you are going to find a very open audience when it comes to an activity that is unsafe for us all. Confronting Harmony so aggressively is unnecessary....
And I know of a number of reviewers that do review honestly. An honest review doesn't have to be harsh or rude to convey the truth. Because you choose to be harsh with your words doesn't mean the rest of us want to be, and that hardly equates to reviews being less than honest....
