Five myths about prostitution

[HB40]

This is Mark aka Dood.

yeah, thats what I thought.

 

[Miss*Bijou]

Also, there are tons of sps who do not provide sex/fs, and so yes a lot of guys out there call up sps and don't expect/get sex, nor is that why they are there. Since you are from Ontario, you would know about the massage places there where there is only massage and hj legally available. So no sp who works there does fs, nor does any client who shows up expect or is looking for fs/sex. (well, they might assume it, and even a bj might be offered, but in these places no one can "expect" it to be available at all.

I often thought it is very uncreative of any sp to not offer more than just fs/sex, since so many guys are looking for more or something else.

IMO to be fair here, "sex" in this context doesn't just refer to full service or the act of penetration. It refers to any sexual activity, even just a hj. To say that a man who receives a massage with happy ending is not seeking sex, is not accurate.


Didn't we all learn this from Bill Clinton a few years ago, when his definition of sex excluded oral sex? lol In the context of this discussion, "sex" is definitely not limited to fs.

 

[sonoman]

she's brutally honest. There's very little room for misinterpretation.

Agreed. Her perception is her reality, she's using the words that fit her viewpoint; toning down the language to make it more palatable would diminish the impact of the writing.

Would Kerouac, Burroughs, Salinger etc. have the same impact if they had they been told to 'lighten up' on the language?

 

[Pillowtalk]

1. Not talking about her blog, where I hope she feels free to say whatever she likes, but only the reaction she gets from here, and if she understands that it is not the action of being an sp that others were objecting to but the use of the word 'whore'. If she wanted to change that reaction, then I said "perhaps" she might, on this board, use the more sociable sp. If not, so be it, but if she does want everyone to hear her, why not.

2. Larissa made it quite clear that her perception of sex is fs sex, and that in her experience no one comes by or is interested in anything other than fs. We may all understand sex can or could be more or different from that, but i only replied to Larissa's pov.

Other than that, all great points, and a great discussion is going on. I think that Larissa is finally seeing that this site is about more than people posting bad reviews, and it is too bad she could only react to it before when she was working. Maybe only using it for ads? Because instead of continuing to feel isolated, alone and unsafe, she would have "met" a lot of different people here who could have been friends and supporters, and helped her to feel less isolated and powerless. There was an opportunity to network and possibly meet in person other professional escorts, and work together for safety and more and it is unfortunate that she did not see it that way at the time.

 

[Pillowtalk]

Absolutely. There are the cat woman SP's {some of whom post here}, plumber SP's, cleaning lady SP's, PC SP's, and hundreds more. While your plumber may offer free sex to a housewife, it cannot be expected. The same goes for well over 99% of SP's out there, whether in Vancouver, Thailand, Siberia or Timbucktwo. Sexual intercourse being offered, let alone given, is not the norm.

"A service provider is an entity that provides services to other entities. Usually this refers to a business that provides subscription or web service to other businesses or individuals. Examples of these services include Internet access, Mobile phone operator, and web application hosting. The term is more often applied to communication services than to other kinds of service industry."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Service_provider

"Service providers face obstacles selling services that goods-sellers rarely face. Services are not tangible, making it difficult for potential customers to understand what they will receive and what value it will hold for them. Indeed some, such as consultants and providers of investment services, offer no guarantees of the value for price paid.

"Since the quality of most services depends largely on the quality of the individuals providing the services, it is true that "people costs" are a high component of service costs. Whereas a manufacturer may use technology, simplification, and other techniques to lower the cost of goods sold, the service provider often faces an unrelenting pattern of increasing costs.

"Differentiation is often difficult. For example, how does one choose one investment adviser over another, since they often seem to provide identical services? Charging a premium for services is usually an option only for the most established firms, who charge extra based upon brand recognition."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Service_industry#Issues_for_service_providers

Interesting. Quite the sarcastic reply from the guy who has bj only and kissing only sessions (no fs)?

 

[lenny]

Interesting. Quite the sarcastic reply from the guy who has bj only and kissing only sessions (no fs)?

Sarcastic or simply factual?

In hundreds of sessions i`ve had:

BJ only, maybe 10 times.
Cuddling only, about the same.
Kissing only, dozens of dates.
FS + other activities, perhaps 100 sessions.
Many times i HJ myself & the lady does any combo of BLS, kissing, or hand massage simultaneously,
and often followed by sex/FS.

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...-GFE-Session&p=1063257&viewfull=1#post1063257

 

[Larissa.t]

My blog is done. I close it soon. Leave it just to read. Some don't believe it. I am Larissa. No reason to make it up. I write this. First for me. Second I write. For the next girl who is young. Things it's a good choice. This choice ain't good. Some think. I call down a sp. No, I don't. For a girl at 17. It's not good to do this. For a woman 25. Maybe. Some things in the Review board Mark writes it. I live with Mark. He helps me write here. Not the blog. I can't ever write good. No school can teach me. It's my mom. She does it. I'm a drunk baby. Me and Mark aren't the same. I miss my life. Soon I am 30. My life is gone. 11 years. Sucking cocks. Soon I go back. Start where I was. I'm glad. I don't cry to leave Calgary. I am glad. Now all is the past. I see it now. I know why he tells me go. He should too. 1 year now. It's all a dream for me. I'm not a whore now. I won't be no more. I know it. For 1 year my life is lucky. I don't forget it.

 

[Moderator-1]

The Story Ends

... and on his happy note - we're going to shut this down - before all the Perb-violations and LTB long-term banning gets out of hand.