I'm confused on this topic. Call me a dumb Bunny if you will, perhaps that's the case. I did not offer DATY, nor did I offer BBBJ during my first two years in the industry (which began at age 41). The reasons I did not offer DATY or BBBJ were not singularly health related ...tsk tsk tsk, admitting such a thing. Admittedly my menu has extended over the two years to include some things I did not offer when I began.
The reason I did not offer DATY was because I did not enjoy DATY, as in I had NEVER in my life enjoyed DATY. It was an activity that did nothing for me. There was no erotic turn on, emotionally or physically. So, rather than just lay there like a beached star fish or attempt to 'act' as if I was enjoying something I was likely not to, I chose to simply leave that service off my menu. Worked great for me! I have been as busy as one could hope to be the entire time I've been working without offering these intimate services.
The reason I did not offer BBBJ was because the girls I worked with originally (I imagine it would have been the same at any studio) talked rather poorly of girls who did offer it, like it was 'dirty' or 'beneath' them. I have always LOVED giving a BJ. It's my source of relaxation (no, I'm not kidding). Many girls LOVE to receive DATY but many may not enjoy giving a BJ as much or at all. It seemed that during my 'growing stages' into the industry a large percentage of girls did offer DATY. I get it, really I do. I mean, if it's a turn on ...why not? Right ...? Knowing the possible risks (limited but of course still existent) it seems to me that NOT ALL, but a great many ladies offer DATY (with no barrier).
This is now where the Bunny gets confused and perhaps you can help me understand things better.
My view:
BBBJ (kind of goes without saying) IS a BARE BACK SERVICE. No arguments I hope.
DATY (here's the controversial statement I've been afraid to make) IS ALSO a BARE BACK SERVICE.
There, I've said it.
So, please, explain to me how a girl and a man who partake in DATY are performing an activity any less bare back than a girl and man who partake in a BBBJ ...?
Ladies who offer DATY (and I guess men who give) without a barrier but do not offer (or receive) a BBBJ citing health risks are, in my opinion, either kidding themselves, uneducated or simply filling a blank with a generically accepted answer. It appears to me that they feel it's ok for a man's mouth to be all over their hot, wet, juice expelling zone but are perhaps simply 'grossed out' at the thought of them putting their own mouth on the man's hot, wet, juice expelling zone.
So, speaking ONLY in regards to those who offer/receive DATY but argue that BBBJ is a health risk ...really, what's the deal?
BunnyHugs
JessicaPRabbit
The reason I did not offer DATY was because I did not enjoy DATY, as in I had NEVER in my life enjoyed DATY. It was an activity that did nothing for me. There was no erotic turn on, emotionally or physically. So, rather than just lay there like a beached star fish or attempt to 'act' as if I was enjoying something I was likely not to, I chose to simply leave that service off my menu. Worked great for me! I have been as busy as one could hope to be the entire time I've been working without offering these intimate services.
The reason I did not offer BBBJ was because the girls I worked with originally (I imagine it would have been the same at any studio) talked rather poorly of girls who did offer it, like it was 'dirty' or 'beneath' them. I have always LOVED giving a BJ. It's my source of relaxation (no, I'm not kidding). Many girls LOVE to receive DATY but many may not enjoy giving a BJ as much or at all. It seemed that during my 'growing stages' into the industry a large percentage of girls did offer DATY. I get it, really I do. I mean, if it's a turn on ...why not? Right ...? Knowing the possible risks (limited but of course still existent) it seems to me that NOT ALL, but a great many ladies offer DATY (with no barrier).
This is now where the Bunny gets confused and perhaps you can help me understand things better.
My view:
BBBJ (kind of goes without saying) IS a BARE BACK SERVICE. No arguments I hope.
DATY (here's the controversial statement I've been afraid to make) IS ALSO a BARE BACK SERVICE.
There, I've said it.
So, please, explain to me how a girl and a man who partake in DATY are performing an activity any less bare back than a girl and man who partake in a BBBJ ...?
Ladies who offer DATY (and I guess men who give) without a barrier but do not offer (or receive) a BBBJ citing health risks are, in my opinion, either kidding themselves, uneducated or simply filling a blank with a generically accepted answer. It appears to me that they feel it's ok for a man's mouth to be all over their hot, wet, juice expelling zone but are perhaps simply 'grossed out' at the thought of them putting their own mouth on the man's hot, wet, juice expelling zone.
So, speaking ONLY in regards to those who offer/receive DATY but argue that BBBJ is a health risk ...really, what's the deal?
BunnyHugs
JessicaPRabbit
