A Valentines Day Encounter to Forget...

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Miss Zoey

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Greetings Ladies and Gents...

As an Indy SP in Victoria, I practically never post here on Perb (self-admitted lurker;) ) but today I feel compelled to write a few words. I'm hoping that someone out there might be able to offer some good advice on something... or I should say, someone... that is causing some frustration for me.

After a one-time appointment with a certain long-winded Victoria poster, Shiva, I was scared off by some obsessive-like behavior and told him to absolutely not contact me again. He's attempted to have me essentially "name my price" but I've stuck to my word and never again responded to any of his correspondence or communications.

Today, a few weeks later, unbeleivably, he approached me in broad daylight, as I was getting off work, waiting for a parkade elevator! OMG! Defintly made a point of approaching and trying to talk to me... no doubt about it. Guys? Ladies? Is this not wrong on so many levels?! This seems to break the golden rules of sp etiquette, no? Put a MAJOR damper on my Valentines Day, to say the least :(.

Can anyone suggest how I might make this stop, without making it worse? I'm not interested in instigating anything except having this guy understand to stay the hell away from me... forever. Absolutely.

Let's all hope the offender isn't socially-retarded enough to respond to this thread... I would have rather left this alone, but after chatting with some good friends who are in the bizz and receiving encouragement to do so... I feel it was the right thing to do.

So, I open the floor (to all except the above mentioned offender, please and thanks)... please help me out, if you can, fellow perbites. I need some solid advice on this...

Much thanks to all my wonderful clients who have never given me anything remotely like this to deal with. True gentleman.... :p
 
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That's just wrong on every level. Men need to realize that SP's have another side to their life, one they want kept private and discreet, the same as the men do. No one should approach let alone show up at your work???:confused: :( That's stalker shit, if he doesn't take the hint by now you might think of a restraining order. Good luck to you, this was NOT ok.
 
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Miss Zoey

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Let me be more specific... he actually approached me at a parkade down the street... not at my work, or else I would have already called the Cops... absolutely. Thanks guys... I appreciate all your words :)
 
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Doesn't matter to me where he approached, he was obvious waiting for you and that's not ok down the street or not. I hope he gets the message and doesn't give you any more grief :)
 
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Miss Zoey

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Thanks Darlin'... I'm readin' ya, loud and clear.

This was completely unaccpetable... no matter the logistics... I'm not going to tolerate it, in any way. Thanks for the support and fully "solid" advice ;) You're a class act...
 
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IQof10

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I'd hire a bodyguard for a week or so, or a big friend. He might take the hint if he sees you with another male.
Nuts like this you don't need in your profession.
 
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poontanghunter

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if you have any fear for your safety at all, contact the police

these meetings are what YOU know of, are there others you do not know about, sounds like stalking to me
 
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braveheart604

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lol I could have seen this coming

Shiva should be banned on here too
oh wait nvm hell just make another account fuck
 
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Ghostwheel1969

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Abysmal

There are, unfortunately, men who get off on stalking women in this business. I've heard several times over the years about men who won't complete a transaction, but get off on the "possibility" that they might have a night with a particular woman. This, obviously, is a case a bit more transactional than that, but nevertheless...

I've heard of this Shiva before, in another venue, and he seems a bit queer, in the sense of odd. From his reviews, I'd venture he's in it more for his ego than the reputation/reflection on his partner.

When a lady makes her wishes known, ie: don't contact me, I won't see you again, etc., most men of gentler and more adept minds understand that there's either something wrong, or the chemistry is just not working on a very basic level.

If you can, please make sure you're covering yourself in the most vulnerable situations. The fact that it was a parkade bothers me. Make sure you have a cell phone and bear spray/mace at all times.

I'm sorry to hear of it. It doesn't make those of us on here who are gentlemen look bad, but it does reflect on all of us. One bad apple can spoil it for everyone, and produce a feeling of caution and fear that permeates the industry for a long while.

Please be safe, and get the mace. Hopefully it's never used!

Cheers, and keep well,
Ghostwheel
 
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Miss Zoey,

Please post this thread in the Victoria Section as well, as there are many documented threads about this guy there.

I've been trying really hard to warn the ladies about this nutcase, because although he seems harmless at first, his behavior just keeps getting worse & worse & worse. To the point where he is absolutely delusional about where the fantasy ends & reality begins.

For those of you who are unaware of this multiple handle Victoria "psycho" Roshi-DOK-Prometheus-Shiva, he's harassed me in public, is stalking ladies, is pressuring/harassing ladies to post favorably about him on perb, professes to "seriously" have relationships with ladies outside the biz, the list goes on & on :mad:.

Check your pm's miss zoey.
 
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Very Veronica

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it doesn't just break the rules of etiquette, it breaks the law

Shiva is guilty of criminal harassment. You've made it very clear that he's not to contact you & you've done the right thing in not engaging in any correspondence. People like this feed on your reaction. That he's ignored you & is now stalking you is extremely disturbed behavior.

Go to the police immediately & file a report. They may contact him & warn him he could be charged with criminal harassment or they may wait til the next incident. And who knows, maybe he has a record of this behavior? Meanwhile, watch your back, get pepper spray & avoid seeing clients you don't know unless they can provide a reference.

Good luck.

Miss Zoey said:
After a one-time appointment with a certain long-winded Victoria poster, Shiva, I was scared off by some obsessive-like behavior and told him to absolutely not contact me again. He's attempted to have me essentially "name my price" but I've stuck to my word and never again responded to any of his correspondence or communications.

Today, a few weeks later, unbeleivably, he approached me in broad daylight, as I was getting off work, waiting for a parkade elevator! OMG! Defintly made a point of approaching and trying to talk to me... no doubt about it. Guys? Ladies? Is this not wrong on so many levels?! This seems to break the golden rules of sp etiquette, no? Put a MAJOR damper on my Valentines Day, to say the least :(.
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Commando

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His behaviour is disturbing and obviously causing you distress. Take the necessary precautions to protect yourself now, call the police and don't wait until things escalate and get to a more dangerous level. As others have metioned, mace, pepper spray, get something to protect yourself.

To all the ladies, especially to one in particular, please take care and be safe.
 
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It doesnt take a rocket scientist to figure out what to do in a case like this and i suspect that there is more to this than just asking for advice.

If you really want this asshole to leave you alone why would you antagonize him on an escort review board instead of calling the cops?

Somethings fishy here.
 
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braveheart604

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D.W.B said:
It doesnt take a rocket scientist to figure out what to do in a case like this and i suspect that there is more to this than just asking for advice.

If you really want this asshole to leave you alone why would you antagonize him on an escort review board instead of calling the cops?

Somethings fishy here.
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It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that she's warning the other ladies and posting it in the lounge is easier for all to view rather than private messaging every lady.
 
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D.W.B

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dood said:
What's so fishy about her doing this? In other industries, vendors talk about bad customers all the time. Oh, "careful' with that guy from ABC corp, he pays in 120 days.

U think this dood could do this kinda shit with the clerk down at the bank? or the girl at the coffee shop ? Would that be socially acceptable. Just because these chicks pimp sex versus bran muffins means nothing.
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Does the clerk or coffee girl flame the guy on an escort review board instead of calling the cops when she get stalked?

I never said it was acceptable to stalk sps i just think if she wants him to stop she's going about iut the wrong way.
 
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D.W.B

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belair said:
Miss Zoey is being proactive. Hopefully whatshisname will understand his attentions would be more welcome elsewhere.
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I see your point belair but considering the dangers and recent events where sp's are being murdered and abused ,i cant see why anyone would hesitate to call the cops if faced with a situation like this.
 
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D.W.B

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dood said:
Dude, the coffee girls works in a legal job protected by "worker rights". The SP does not. U think she's gonna call her union steward ?
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It doesnt matter wtf she does for a living,if she's being stalked she has every right to go to the cops!

You think posting a review on the internet about jeffrey dahmer would have deterred him?
 
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