No "black gents"

SPs assumed that Black men have larger junior to handle.

poopquiz said:

Maybe this has been asked before, but what's with all the leolist ads stating "no black gents" or "no black men"??? Why do black pioneers get shunned by so many SPs?

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Numerous SPs have black boyfriends etc.- they don't want to be ID'd by friends.
Others aren't into the inter-racial thing.
Some have had bad experiences.
Painting all with the same brush? Maybe not fair- but then what is?
Whatevs- it's the SP's choice and she shouldn't have to justify it.

I found this rather humorous

https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...r_fun_10_10_face_body_best_experience-1636435

I once read a post on CAF that attempted to answer this question but attributed it less to size or being outed and more to potential black clients being more likely to be pimps looking to recruit than non black men. In cases like this, if the SP has a pimp who is also black, barring black clients is his way of keeping potential rivals away.

I also got the sense that this is more of a big deal further east where the likelihood of an SP encountering a black client is higher.

Of course this is just another person's post summarized. It could also be totally off base. I'll see if I can find it again and reproduce it.

nesan1981 said:

SPs assumed that Black men have larger junior to handle.

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No. As incendiary as it is to say, it's because of safety and disrespect due to a cultural misogyny. It's a broad brush stroke, but the provider's prerogative. There are also some women who won't see brown guys. Sometimes women won't even see guys from their own ethnic groups because their race or cultural background becomes permission for a particular type of treatment.

Whatever the prohibition, count on being due to bad experiences and a concern for safety more than just generally disliking a particular race or group.

mikehawksbig said:

No. As incendiary as it is to say, it's because of safety and disrespect due to a cultural misogyny. It's a broad brush stroke, but the provider's prerogative. There are also some women who won't see brown guys. Sometimes women won't even see guys from their own ethnic groups because their race or cultural background becomes permission for a particular type of treatment.

Whatever the prohibition, count on being due to bad experiences and a concern for safety more than just generally disliking a particular race or group.

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Cultural misogyny? Are you an expert on that culture? I'll go with no.

Equally incendiary but more accurate is that there is a disproportionate percentage of black pimps relative to their actual numbers here in Canada.

Most of the ads with that restriction are from women who are touring from back east where there are many more black guys. Some of these women are pimped by black guys or have black boyfriends. In some of those cases it's the guy who insists on that restriction. Others who are truly independent simply don't want the harassment from pimps.

There are a few other reasons, some I heard from SPs themselves, why some of them don't want to see "black guys"
1. Safety reasons. It is very easy to find statistics of crimes committed buy each race.
2. Heard directly from SP. They negotiate a lot more.
3. I am guessing that they are not push-overs like whites and oriental Asians. One girl told me she loves seeing Asians because they are the easiest going and most respectful. Maybe blacks are more assertive and don't take any crap like bad service.

TOMMYG said:

There are a few other reasons, some I heard from SPs themselves, why some of them don't want to see "black guys"
1. Safety reasons. It is very easy to find statistics of crimes committed buy each race.
2. Heard directly from SP. They negotiate a lot more.
3. I am guessing that they are not push-overs like whites and oriental Asians. One girl told me she loves seeing Asians because they are the easiest going and most respectful. Maybe blacks are more assertive and don't take any crap like bad service.

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I've heard from several escorts why they enjoy Asian clients and it was a different explanation.

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Small penises?

Edward Lei said:

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Small penises?

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I guess Tommy is also right because other ethnic groups who some escorts describe as being on the smaller side are also sometimes on their non preferred list because of haggling or pushing boundaries.

A smaller size obviously doesn't always add up to an ideal client.

From what i hear. Size but they can work with them. There is a stereotype that pimps tend to be black so girls are worried one of them might try to see them as a recruiting effort. Thats why a lot of the times it will say no black men/pimps. Again, just a stereotype. I have only met one pimp in my life he was Asian.

Those crime stats are beyond BS. When corrected for poverty, education, single parent households and general crime levels in their neighbourhoods black men are no more likely to commit crimes than their white counterparts. But its hard to shake off racism...someday lets hope.

Sorry, but unless you speak the lady in question, this is useless speculation and is headed to some pretty ugly/racist territory. Ladies can see who they like. Period. Thread closed.