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Losing my virginity...i posted again cuz i posted on the wrong board

kroby

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Hey, after i saw the post by i need some advices from all experts and SP. i am a 20 years old virgin and lately i have been thinking to lose my virginity to a sp:eek: . i have few concerns here, so hopefully i can get some help from here.:confused: first of all, if i do that i feel a little guilty for my girl friend in future, if she happened to be a virgin. will she mind? even if she is not a virgin. Should i do it with a SP just because to have some experience and maybe have a good memory of my first time. and i don't know if i should take the risk of getting infected when i do this. i know we all take risk, but....i need some help. i will be glad to hear different voices because i am still the one to make the decision.

Thank for everyone
 

Ima

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Just do it

Just make sure you don't show future girlfriends the free t shirt you get after and she will never know...

If you feel guilty about having sex for money, then go see a priest, do a few hail maries, our fathers and a rosary... It will pass, like hemroids...

If you think a future gf is going to be any safer than most girls here, copyright the rose coloured glasses and sell them... Odds of you finding another virgin, is pretty slim pickin...

Best advice, make sure the girl offers msog, the pussy feels much better than old rightie...
 

d_Duck55

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If you are worried about STD or general guilt, don't get a BBBJ. You will still think a CBJ is pretty sweet, and you will last longer :) . Seriously.

And don't go for the cheapest service, go for at least an hour with one of the well reviewed ladies. Then you will have time to catch your breath and kiss her titties before she sends you on your way.
 
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Normally I don't jump into threads and blatantly self-promote but helping men (and women) in your situation has become my specialty.

If you are looking to "get it over with" I would highly recommend that you go with whomever you find most attractive for the ultimate fantasy. Do make sure to tell what the situation is before the appointment as to ensure they are comfortable with the situation.

If, on the other hand, you are looking to learn about women and what they like I'd high recommend that you go with a provider who is comfortable with and able to show you teach you what you need to know. In these circumstances I generally prefer to work backwards. I've found that if I put off the actual sex until the end that the person is usually too nervous to focus on what I'm trying to teach him, so instead I prefer to make the first part of the session about giving him pleasure so that afterwards, when the pressure is off, he can relax and absorb what I'm showing him.

It's my understanding that Very Veronica is also a great teacher.


Cheers,
Isabelle
 

DaMix

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personally from my experience I held out my virginity for a girl that came from out of town who was just settling into her new city (Vancouver) I was thinking of seeing an SP to break me in before I met this girl, but I decided to hold out to get the full virgin experience. We had a good relationship to start so we were comfortable with each other and attracted to each other to wanna have sex. Good choice since , When the day finally came the girl knew what she was getting herself into with me , nonetheless it was the best sex I've ever had. Just thinking about it was so hot. If I were you I'd wait out and not get an SP to break you in. Wait for a right girl that your comfortable with in either a non boyfriend/girlfriend relationship you have or with a girl your gonna start calling your girlfriend. Just dont do it with an SP you'll have such a more enjoyable time with a non sp to break you in and you wont forget it. Especially if you tell the person that you are one since she'll know what to expect.

My wisdom for ya...
 

Rammstein69

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Whatever you choose to do Kroby, make sure you either care for the girl, or are at least attracted to her, if not both.

The first sexual contact I had with a girl (BJ) was disappointing, to say the least.

My fs experience was almost just as bad.

In the first case, she liked and was attracted to me, but I thought of her more as a friend. I'm ashamed to admit it now, but at the time I just wanted some experience. I was only the second guy she'd had relations with, and it showed.

The fs experience was similiar. I had zero experience, and she had little more. To add insult to injury, there was just no mutual passion at all. Little emotion+bad technique=unsatisfying sex.

If I could have gone back in time. I probably would have chosen a SP for my first time. The way I see it, you're learning and experiencing satisfying sex techniques from an experienced 'pro'. I think this may be the best option for those of us who have little (or no) dating or sexual experience. Just my two cents...
 

the_shogun

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Normally I don't jump into threads and blatantly self-promote but helping men (and women) in your situation has become my specialty.

If you are looking to "get it over with" I would highly recommend that you go with whomever you find most attractive for the ultimate fantasy. Do make sure to tell what the situation is before the appointment as to ensure they are comfortable with the situation.

If, on the other hand, you are looking to learn about women and what they like I'd high recommend that you go with a provider who is comfortable with and able to show you teach you what you need to know. In these circumstances I generally prefer to work backwards. I've found that if I put off the actual sex until the end that the person is usually too nervous to focus on what I'm trying to teach him, so instead I prefer to make the first part of the session about giving him pleasure so that afterwards, when the pressure is off, he can relax and absorb what I'm showing him.

It's my understanding that Very Veronica is also a great teacher.


Cheers,
Isabelle
you are doing the world a great service!!!
 
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My two cents ....

I think you should not worry about a future girlfriend and think about yourself. Treat yourself and get over the milestone and feel confident, ultimately that would be the best thing you could do for whoever you hook up with down the road. Ladies like a self confident, experienced guy. Who ever you decide to be with keep in mind that everyone on this planet had to have a first time and being awkward (? I can't spell anymore since doing this full-time and can't think of a word to substitute) and uncomfortable goes along with any new experience. Good luck !
 

Aerts

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Go with a good SP. Save those pennies, and splurge to get someone well reviewed. I would say get a girl who is at least early 30's, because she will be very experienced. Trust me it will be much less awkward than if you get a really young girl or porn star type who will probably act like she is doing you a favor just by being there. Getting the type of girl who has maternal instincts and likes to teach will guarantee you a good time and put you off to a good start.
 

kroby

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although i still cannot make my decision yet, appreciate everyone's feedbacks. i am just going to wait a little longer to see if there is any suggestion. ( i do find everyone has his/her point):)

is pooning really addictive? don't want to get anyone angry, but is there anyone still pooning if you have a real girlfriend?
 

Poeticus

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Only you can decide if your desire to experience the wonders of sexuality now outweigh your feeling that you may be saving your virginity for someone else.
 

sgtpubs

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is there anyone still pooning if you have a real girlfriend?

I poon because I have a wife. That will do it for any guy.
 
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