Why spend the money?
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Maybe your poll needs a further line: OTHER REASONS
My three initial reasons for taking up pooning haven't changed:
1. amazing pleasure (and the more sex I have, the more I seem to like it);
2. health benefits, both physical and psychological; and
3. personal liberation from anti-sex conditioning.
But I can now add 3 further benefits:
4. This hobby has infused my overseas travels with a greater sense of adventure and excitement.
5. It has given my erotic fantasies, and thereby my joy of life, an enormous boost.
6. Last but not least, play for pay allows me to experience erotic variety and intensity while avoiding the kind of emotional entanglement that would undermine the possibility of sustaining a nourishing love relationship.
Not planning to give up this hobby anytime soon.
My three initial reasons for taking up pooning haven't changed:
1. amazing pleasure (and the more sex I have, the more I seem to like it);
2. health benefits, both physical and psychological; and
3. personal liberation from anti-sex conditioning.
But I can now add 3 further benefits:
4. This hobby has infused my overseas travels with a greater sense of adventure and excitement.
5. It has given my erotic fantasies, and thereby my joy of life, an enormous boost.
6. Last but not least, play for pay allows me to experience erotic variety and intensity while avoiding the kind of emotional entanglement that would undermine the possibility of sustaining a nourishing love relationship.
Not planning to give up this hobby anytime soon.
None of the above.
Im winding down.
The thrill isn't there anymore.
I think I will never really quit this hobby.
But I don't believe I will ever spend the money I once did.
No problems Im just in a comfort zone is all.
I don't really need to do anything see anyone.
The lady I see were just really comfortable with each other, will see her as long as that continues, but I think to a lesser extent, we seem to socialize and equally have sessions.
Not sure what will happen to us, not really worried about it either.
Got a chance to see a pse lady and I took it, hope to enjoy, but again its not something, Im worried about sex is enjoyable that is it, enjoy it but don't shed a tear when you don't get any.
Easy to say when I have seen the lady I see quite regular so who knows when I go with out,
Im winding down.
The thrill isn't there anymore.
I think I will never really quit this hobby.
But I don't believe I will ever spend the money I once did.
No problems Im just in a comfort zone is all.
I don't really need to do anything see anyone.
The lady I see were just really comfortable with each other, will see her as long as that continues, but I think to a lesser extent, we seem to socialize and equally have sessions.
Not sure what will happen to us, not really worried about it either.
Got a chance to see a pse lady and I took it, hope to enjoy, but again its not something, Im worried about sex is enjoyable that is it, enjoy it but don't shed a tear when you don't get any.
Easy to say when I have seen the lady I see quite regular so who knows when I go with out,
Yeah, you're both right - but you both have used the comments to add so we're all good. Making a poll like this is kind of difficult - I know what my motivations are - and then I have to think of a few choices that aren't mine. But I agree - I should have added a none of the above choice.
Probably good enough for us to shoot the breeze though...
So many reasons. Yes to all those on the poll, except the PSE choice. That hasn't been high on my priority list.
1,2,5 from Tant's list as well.
But, why did I even start, I think can be boiled down a bit. I was far too insecure in my early days, and so got a very late start, and then relatively few partners after that. As I aged, I felt that I had missed out. I didn't want to near the end, looking back and feeling sad that I hadn't been able to enjoy more - more sex, more girls, higher quality. so - Here I am.
Now though, I smile a lot more. Although I still see amazing hot women here and there and know they are beyond my reach, I also know that I can still connect with girls just as hot or more whenever I have time and $$. Instead of seeing a girl and resenting that she's so far out of reach, I look at a girl and smile, remembering past adventures and anticipating future.
I hate having to keep this all bottled up except here: I'd like to relate my adventures to my friends over a beer. As it stands, I've got two friends that have recently acquired girls friends that ( according to my friends) have very high-revving sex engines. so, I have to sit and listen to their adventures. I smile to myself and think of Meggi, or Junny, or Serina, or Melina, or.......
1,2,5 from Tant's list as well.
But, why did I even start, I think can be boiled down a bit. I was far too insecure in my early days, and so got a very late start, and then relatively few partners after that. As I aged, I felt that I had missed out. I didn't want to near the end, looking back and feeling sad that I hadn't been able to enjoy more - more sex, more girls, higher quality. so - Here I am.
Now though, I smile a lot more. Although I still see amazing hot women here and there and know they are beyond my reach, I also know that I can still connect with girls just as hot or more whenever I have time and $$. Instead of seeing a girl and resenting that she's so far out of reach, I look at a girl and smile, remembering past adventures and anticipating future.
I hate having to keep this all bottled up except here: I'd like to relate my adventures to my friends over a beer. As it stands, I've got two friends that have recently acquired girls friends that ( according to my friends) have very high-revving sex engines. so, I have to sit and listen to their adventures. I smile to myself and think of Meggi, or Junny, or Serina, or Melina, or.......
Ditto. Haven't gone to an escort, massage parlor, or even a strip club in over a year now. Just isn't exciting anymore.
The main thing was, you think of how much you spent the night before, and ask yourself, was it worth it, and the answer, increasingly, is no. The passion is lacking.
I voted in the Poll plus voted for Tant's 1, 3 and 5.
I enjoy meeting exotic young women like Talish Cruze and having a fun afternoon in bed with her. Chances of seeing someone like her outside of this hobby are next to zero so I am pretty happy where I am now. :thumb:
I enjoy meeting exotic young women like Talish Cruze and having a fun afternoon in bed with her. Chances of seeing someone like her outside of this hobby are next to zero so I am pretty happy where I am now. :thumb:
