B&D emporium for some sexual items. Then you have Kink Night at Detours which only occurs once a month, but you get a fashion show and see many people dressed up in SM, fetish clothing
I have heard that there are alot of swing clubs here. Most are cpls only so that would leave lots
of you guys out. If you want more info about them or me, send me an email to ElkEstates@aol.com
Fantasia bikini bar on 6th Ave around 1st St E downtown is ok sometimes. It's a bit of a dump, but they always seem to have good looking girls working there. Their website indicates private dances, but I've never tried it: http://www.geocities.com/fantasiacafe/home.htm