When a good session ends badly...any "unhappy ending" stories?

[tantalizeme]

Yesterday's experience at an AMP makes me wonder about some SPs: how much thought do they give to those final minutes? I'm sometimes surprised when an SP makes a very responsive playmate but ends the session coldly. I never like it when the disengagement feels too abrupt.

I had just blasted off a minute earlier; and, after a quick cleanup, I was looking forward to a few minutes of post-coital cuddling—when I heard a harsh female voice speaking to my SP through the door. I didn’t understand the Chinese but assumed this was simply a rude reminder time was up.

I had a feeling we had some time left, but wasn’t sure. In any case, my SP mumbled something to the effect, “Sorry, I have to go” and got up to leave. Wow, I thought—why does she have to leave today when, both times before, she accompanied me into the shower? Have they suddenly become super-strict about time in this place?

I showered by myself. My SP came back in, helped dry me off and, to my surprise, hastily folded and packed up my blanket as if she wished to expedite my departure. Then, while I finished dressing, she left again—a little strange because the other times she had stayed, chatted, shown me the kind of emphatic last-moment affection that helped motivate me to come back.

As I strolled through the hallway toward the front door, she intercepted me, obviously to collect her tip. I gave her .3 and a hug. “Oh,” she said, “it’s not a fifty.” Last time, due to exceptionally good service, I had given her a .5 tip. What’s this, I was wondering—vulgar greed showing through? Could her pretense of affection crumble this easily?

I dug into my back pocket and gave her another .2 so as not to appear stingy just before Christmas; after all, her service had been excellent up until the rude interruption. And then I noticed the reason for her end-of-session inattentiveness: another client was sitting in the TV area, obviously waiting for her—she's probably the star SP at this particular AMP. And she wanted me out because she didn’t wish to risk losing his business by keeping him waiting too long.

Amazingly, the new client greeted me with a jovial smile and even wished me a Merry Christmas! I’ve really no hard feelings toward him—but the SP certainly lost a potential regular by her behavior. Surely this wasn’t the first time that a new client arrived before a current one left. About the worst way to handle this situation would seem for the mamasan to shout through the massage room door words to the effect, “Hurry up in there, you got a new customer.” I would have liked the SP to treat me warmly during the last five or ten minutes, without visible impatience—rather than rushing in and out to communicate with the other guy that she’d be right with him.

Well, I guess this hobby isn’t for the overly sensitive. In any case, I think I’ll give it a one-week rest before trying my luck elsewhere.

 

[ChineseDude]

I think Asian SP would be saying "I hope you pooners understand this is a mutual sexual exchange rather than a mutual emotional sex exchange."

Independents (white) SP "Come over here, our prices are more expensive, but we are more professional about it. We will love you for the time you paid."

What you see is what you get, their prices are lower. They are exposed to more men than the independents.

Pooning takes a lot of heart. You would have to build a wall around yourself. Determined to go in for the lust. I never really get turned on by BBBJ, but nowadays I ask for it. Just a reminder to self that these chicks are SP and they are working. Not some chick you are gonna hit on.

Try needling them a bit, make them hate you, but continue going to them, You gotta convince yourself, make them understand, this is a pure business relationship.

 

[mistressfreyja]

Still tipped the 20?

You completely deserved as good an ending as a beginning.

Frankly, that's poor biz sense of the mamasan on behalf of her SPs.

And what's even worse is the chic expected the tip, so she's not much better than mamasan.

There are as many and hopefully more SPs that care about you leaving happy and satiated.

Many that advertise on this site seemingly go above and beyond what is required in keeping you boys happy.

 

[SFMIKE]

Jogging my memory here, but are you not the guy who brings a goodie-bag with all your essential supplies?

Next trip, add a timer and determine how long the session is supposed to be, then you set the timer and that way both of you (and the mama) know when it is over. If they try to cut you time short, stand your ground and do not, under any circumstance, give that extra money.

Might send a message.

So many on here fail to see themselves in charge of the situatioin. You are the paying customer, and they will try to take you for what they think they can get from you.

Doing it this way might even gain you a little extra respect on your next visit, if you even decide tharere will be a next visit.

 

[HB40]

Well, I guess this hobby isn’t for the overly sensitive. In any case, I think I’ll give it a one-week rest before trying my luck elsewhere.

I'm sorry your feelings got hurt, she probably just needs it explained to her, shouldn't you go back and sit her down for a heart to heart talk?

 

[hobbywho]

You could still have kept your honor & integrity by not giving a tip . Most of these girls are professionals keep that in mind . It might send a message and in fact be beneficial for all of us . trust me.

For example she may mention to her boss that she missed out on a 50 dollar tip because she had to rush you out the door. Her boss might do a better job juggling the schedule or have more girls . It's tough & maybe they don't care but a lot of times management wants to keep customers coming.


I had a similiar incident happen with a regular where the session ended abruptly because somebody else showed up. It wasn't her fault though ..

Next time do 2 things, number one tell whoever is in charge your not happy they will ask why tell them. next number two if you still aren't happy tell them they lost your business then leave.

 

[FortunateOne]

If you really had a problem with it, the manager was the one to tell right at that time. Complaining to the sp, or here, or just not going back doesn't resolve anything. Keep in mind that the sp is not making a ton of $$ from each visit, so she needs that next-in-line guy not an extra 2 minutes with you. If you want someone who is in charge of her own schedule, can't book appts back to back and won't have someone waiting in the front room for you to leave, then you know you have to go indy. You are already paying (I think) indy rates (with the tip included), so why not go all the way? You will add to your encounters the ability to fully communicate with the sp, instead of giving them attributes and emotions that do not, for them, exist.

ChineseDude is bang on: it is a different culture, and you cannot put a western sentimental spin on what is, in the end, a financial exchange. I seriously doubt that either the sp or the mamasan has any clue that they did anything wrong, and IMO they probably didn't. It sucks, but time is up when it is up, and since the next one may not be able to wait, obviously they are going to accomodate asap. The sp cannot be blamed for someone else knocking on the door, but this would not happen to an independent right? It seems that the things that you dislike the most are the things that cannot be avoided as long as you go to an mp.