What's with MP's who don't want you to see the other girls on shift?

[gospak]

I find there are two types of studios:

a) the ones where you go in and the first girl who meets you introduces herself and before you can even ask to stay with her she tells you to wait and meet the rest of the ladies and then decide, and

b) the ones where the first girl says, "Hi. Would you like to stay for a session?" and they give no option to meet the other girls. You have to ask, "Can I see else is working?"

I like to see who is all working before making a decision who to stay with, but at the same time I don't like to tell an SP after she greets me, "can I see who else is here?" because that can be taken as though I don't find her attractive...and if I do ask her to see the other girls and later decide to stay with the first one, I would think she would feel as though I'm not that into seeing her otherwise I would not have asked to see the others.

To avoid that I think the SP's should just voluntarily give you that option. I find I've had that option given at Legends and Penthouse, but not at 50th street or Manhattan.

Today I went to 50th street in the evening, and one girl greeted me (I forget her name) - she was attractive but not my cup of tea...she just asked if I wanted to stay, so I then asked, "Can I see who else is working?" A second girl came, Alexis - I actually found this girl very HOT. She came and introduced herself and then goes, "So, would you like to stay for a session?" Even though I liked her looks, I got turned off by now because I was pretty sure there are more than the two girls there and it seemed like she was cock-blocking me from seeing them...she didnt even ask, "who would you like to stay with?" - so from that I gathered her attitude was probably not there and the session might suck so I took off.

Out of curiosity I called just two minutes later and asked who is on shift. The receptionist named 5 ladies, then I asked, "which ones are available right now?" And she goes, "All 5 ladies are available right now." ...which basically means there are other SP's there which I could have met and may have stayed with but didn't get that option becasue everyone there is just stuck up on trying to get you to stay with them and not giving the option to meet the others.

Sorry for the long rant, just wanted to get that off my chest

 

[jim]

Add Temptations and Sapphire to studios that offer you the opportunity to meet each lady in the privacy of a room.

 

[Mick Shagher]

But all in all, don't be afraid to ask to see who else is working, after all, it is your hard earned money you are spending, and you have that right.

So very true Kendra. One should never be pressured into staying with a gal just because you don't want to hurt her feelings by asking to see who else is working. The worst thing you can do is being pressured into staying with someone and then regretting it later.
I'm guessing that most SPs understand the nature of the buisness and should not be taking it personally. Mind you, I've run across some who get upset and won't send the others in or tell you that they are all busy, yet you can hear them all in the lounge.

Lately I've found that some studios are hiring receptionists which is a great idea as far as I'm concerned. Besides answering the phone she comes out to greet the clients. All you have to say is you'd like to meet who is working and she will send the available girls in to meet with you. Then nobody's feelings get hurt.

 

[gospak]

Lately I've found that some studios are hiring receptionists which is a great idea as far as I'm concerned. Besides answering the phone she comes out to greet the clients.

I wonder how it goes if the guy asks to stay with the receptionist thinking she's an SP. That would be awkward

 

[gospak]

I tend to go more/only to studios where I have the comfort of knowing that I'll be offered to see all the girls on shift and not have to awkwardly ask to see who else is working or even worse (like my last experience at 50th), where there are other girls working and the SP implies to you that they are not.

While I understand the wish to keep the # visits of relatively equal among the ladies, going to the extreme that I saw at 50th street last night actually hurts business - because 99% chance I would have stayed there with Alexis or one of the other ladies if the attitude was different.

BTW Kendra I did see Courtney at your new studio and she was great

 

[colossus]

gotta have a gameplan

the mp`s want the impression they are super busy-its why you wont get to meet all 5 girls on shift-study the sched prior & ask for names that you want to meet

 

[*ALexis*]

Sorry!

Wow! I had no idea that was an indicator of a bad attitude! I am extremely sorry if I came across rude! I am new at 50th and I am so happy to be working with such awesome girls...I would never try to keep them from getting a chance to meet the clients that come in. I guess it was just a habbit to say that because I have worked at another studio and got used to girls being so aggressive. Once again I am sorry and I will change my introduction hunny!

 

[praxis]

That's what happens when you work at

I guess it was just a habit to say that because I have worked at another studio and got used to girls being so aggressive.

that downtown studio for some time. . . - competition becomes cutthroat when there is so much bad publicity surrounding the place...

 

[likedone]

The best way I think IS for the girl to introduce herself and also name off who else is working, THEN ask the guy if he would like to stay or if he would like to meet the ladies... I think it is only fair. The reason why you guys get put in the room is to minimize front entrance traffic and passing bys of fellow pooners.

This is the best way of introduction, if the receptionist is not there. only few MPes have full-time receptionists, and they should let her look after this, I know 50 street mp has a lazy receptionist and she is not friendly as well, where Legends is best in this way.

Some MPes perfers to give turns to the SPes, so they can get to see same amount of clients, and they get pissed off if you ask for other SP.

 

[namssa]

I tend to agree with Bigfisk. I called a MP that I had planned on visiting, found out who was working and asked if I could come and meet the ladies. I had planned on staying with a certain girl that was indeed working but wanted to meet all the girls that were working and I did not tell receptionist of my plans. I was told I was most welcome to do so and I told the sexy voice on the phone that I would be there in about 15 minutes.

I arrived, was met by a very pretty young lady and shown to a room. She closed the door and we chatted for a bit and she offered to have another girl meet me. As I wanted the girl I had planned to stay with to see me last I asked for the other of the 3 ladies to see me next. After a moment the door opened and in came a second very pretty girl who I chatted with for a brief few moments. She then asked if I wanted to stay or to meet the third girl that was working. I said that although she was very attractive, I wanted to see girl #3. She smiled and said that would be just fine.

In came girl #3, the one I had come to stay with, I had met her before and I was anticipating a very good time. After a moment, in she came to say hi, and she recognized me from our recent previous meeting. I could tell that there was something not quite right about her after a moment. Looking at her eyes (bloodshot) it looked like she could be high. I could not smell anything that might give me a clue as to what substance may have been used. She may have been fairly stressed out or working too much/not enought sleep or who knows what it could be. I am not sure what was the cause for her eyes being bloodshot or the change in her personality. She seemed fairly different in her attitude from our first meeting and she did not ask me if I wanted to stay, but offered to get one of the other girls for me.

This change in personality caused me to not want to be with her and I asked if I could see the first girl again. She said she would get girl #1 for me. A minute later girl #2 comes in to tell me that girl #1 has an appointment in a couple minutes and offered me the option to wait an hour and then I could spend some time with #3. First thought in my mind was "sloppy seconds" and I declined the offer. She offered to put my name down for a later appoinment which I declined. I advised that I would get back to them later if I wanted a session and I left the establishment.

If I am paying I have the choice to spend my time with the girl of my choice or none at all. Going in I really wanted girl #3, but just a few things changed my mind. Girl #2 was just fine as well, just not quite my type today. I would have happily gone with girl #1, but she was already engaged and time did not permit me to wait.

Now that I had the chance to meet the other two girls I will definetly make an appointment to see the girl that I got to meet today. If I did not meet her today, I would not make an appointment as I would not know if the body type and personality would be what I liked. If I did not get to meet the girls working today they would have potentially lost a customer. Because I did meet them, I will be back at least one more time and likely multiple times as I liked the girls I met and want to spend time with them.

 

[gospak]

I tend to agree with Bigfisk. I called a MP that I had planned on visiting, found out who was working and asked if I could come and meet the ladies. I had planned on staying with a certain girl that was indeed working but wanted to meet all the girls that were working and I did not tell receptionist of my plans. I was told I was most welcome to do so and I told the sexy voice on the phone that I would be there in about 15 minutes.

I arrived, was met by a very pretty young lady and shown to a room. She closed the door and we chatted for a bit and she offered to have another girl meet me. As I wanted the girl I had planned to stay with to see me last I asked for the other of the 3 ladies to see me next. After a moment the door opened and in came a second very pretty girl who I chatted with for a brief few moments. She then asked if I wanted to stay or to meet the third girl that was working. I said that although she was very attractive, I wanted to see girl #3. She smiled and said that would be just fine.

In came girl #3, the one I had come to stay with, I had met her before and I was anticipating a very good time. After a moment, in she came to say hi, and she recognized me from our recent previous meeting. I could tell that there was something not quite right about her after a moment. Looking at her eyes (bloodshot) it looked like she could be high. I could not smell anything that might give me a clue as to what substance may have been used. She may have been fairly stressed out or working too much/not enought sleep or who knows what it could be. I am not sure what was the cause for her eyes being bloodshot or the change in her personality. She seemed fairly different in her attitude from our first meeting and she did not ask me if I wanted to stay, but offered to get one of the other girls for me.

This change in personality caused me to not want to be with her and I asked if I could see the first girl again. She said she would get girl #1 for me. A minute later girl #2 comes in to tell me that girl #1 has an appointment in a couple minutes and offered me the option to wait an hour and then I could spend some time with #3. First thought in my mind was "sloppy seconds" and I declined the offer. She offered to put my name down for a later appoinment which I declined. I advised that I would get back to them later if I wanted a session and I left the establishment.

If I am paying I have the choice to spend my time with the girl of my choice or none at all. Going in I really wanted girl #3, but just a few things changed my mind. Girl #2 was just fine as well, just not quite my type today. I would have happily gone with girl #1, but she was already engaged and time did not permit me to wait.

Now that I had the chance to meet the other two girls I will definetly make an appointment to see the girl that I got to meet today. If I did not meet her today, I would not make an appointment as I would not know if the body type and personality would be what I liked. If I did not get to meet the girls working today they would have potentially lost a customer. Because I did meet them, I will be back at least one more time and likely multiple times as I liked the girls I met and want to spend time with them.

And I thought I make lengthy posts

One point you raised which I agree with but forgot to mention is the fact that even though one has already decided who to stay with, meeting all the girls can increase future business since you may see someone you decide on staying with at a later date, whereas if you aren't given the option to meet all the ladies you may not even come to know that there was someone there who you would want to be with on another occasion.

I'm sure SP's are reading this, and I hope some are learning as well.

 

[namssa]

And I thought I make lengthy posts

One point you raised which I agree with but forgot to mention is the fact that even though one has already decided who to stay with, meeting all the girls can increase future business since you may see someone you decide on staying with at a later date, whereas if you aren't given the option to meet all the ladies you may not even come to know that there was someone there who you would want to be with on another occasion.

I'm sure SP's are reading this, and I hope some are learning as well.

Yeah, now that I have seen both of the girls who I was interested in on the website, I found that their pictures do no do them justice. They are much more beautiful than the pics. Girl #1 I am going to see for sure, 100% and girl #2 there is like a 90% chance I will see her as well. Without meeting them in person I would have been very leery making an appointment. So nice to meet them, see the goods and see if the person's personality is compatable with mine.

 

[Extreme April]

I tend to agree with Bigfisk. I called a MP that I had planned on visiting, found out who was working and asked if I could come and meet the ladies. I had planned on staying with a certain girl that was indeed working but wanted to meet all the girls that were working and I did not tell receptionist of my plans. I was told I was most welcome to do so and I told the sexy voice on the phone that I would be there in about 15 minutes.

I arrived, was met by a very pretty young lady and shown to a room. She closed the door and we chatted for a bit and she offered to have another girl meet me. As I wanted the girl I had planned to stay with to see me last I asked for the other of the 3 ladies to see me next. After a moment the door opened and in came a second very pretty girl who I chatted with for a brief few moments. She then asked if I wanted to stay or to meet the third girl that was working. I said that although she was very attractive, I wanted to see girl #3. She smiled and said that would be just fine.

In came girl #3, the one I had come to stay with, I had met her before and I was anticipating a very good time. After a moment, in she came to say hi, and she recognized me from our recent previous meeting. I could tell that there was something not quite right about her after a moment. Looking at her eyes (bloodshot) it looked like she could be high. I could not smell anything that might give me a clue as to what substance may have been used. She may have been fairly stressed out or working too much/not enought sleep or who knows what it could be. I am not sure what was the cause for her eyes being bloodshot or the change in her personality. She seemed fairly different in her attitude from our first meeting and she did not ask me if I wanted to stay, but offered to get one of the other girls for me.

This change in personality caused me to not want to be with her and I asked if I could see the first girl again. She said she would get girl #1 for me. A minute later girl #2 comes in to tell me that girl #1 has an appointment in a couple minutes and offered me the option to wait an hour and then I could spend some time with #3. First thought in my mind was "sloppy seconds" and I declined the offer. She offered to put my name down for a later appoinment which I declined. I advised that I would get back to them later if I wanted a session and I left the establishment.

If I am paying I have the choice to spend my time with the girl of my choice or none at all. Going in I really wanted girl #3, but just a few things changed my mind. Girl #2 was just fine as well, just not quite my type today. I would have happily gone with girl #1, but she was already engaged and time did not permit me to wait.

Now that I had the chance to meet the other two girls I will definetly make an appointment to see the girl that I got to meet today. If I did not meet her today, I would not make an appointment as I would not know if the body type and personality would be what I liked. If I did not get to meet the girls working today they would have potentially lost a customer. Because I did meet them, I will be back at least one more time and likely multiple times as I liked the girls I met and want to spend time with them.

I just wanted to make a comment on the SP with "bloodshot eyes"......there are many reasons why a SP can have bloodshot eyes and it isnt always drug related which I get the impression you were trying to say it was drug related or was not sure if it was drug related.
I have had bloodshot eyes on a few occasions.......

1. SP recieved a facial and some got in her eye/s by accident....I cant tell you how many times this has happened to me.

2. Dry contact lens

3. Eye irritation from makeup.

4. crying.....many reasons for this...allergies, sad movie, etc.

and I could go on and on.

Also I have many times had clients walk in and the girl that is up meets the guy and comes back and tells the rest that he wants to meet. Only I would have to refuse to meet for a few reasons......dont have my makeup on because i just finished a session or I have an appointment coming up and could not stay with the client that walked in anyways. There are many reasons why there might be girls in the studio but not are available to meet at that time. And I dont know any girl here at this studio that gets upset when a client wants to meet other girls.
I will ask this though......why do some of you say right away that you want to meet the other girls before she even has a chance to introduce herself. This can be hurtful and be taken the wrong way as well. What if she does something special or has specials or whatever and she doesnt have a chance to tell you about it (her shpeel...i cant spell this word so dont go attacking me) I guess this is something that I think both parties could learn a little more etiquette from.
I dont want to get into any argument or anything like that....as this is something that I dont like to do. But I guess what I am saying is dont judge the book by its cover and everyone be polite and cordial to one another.
There is good and bad in all of us and we all have our bad days. So tolerance is a big thing too.

OH and the 'Sloppy Seconds" comment.......hahaha there are days where I work that I dont even have one FS session.....not cause they didnt want it but because they didnt make it that far. I am sure I am not alone out there either where this happens on a regular basis. So I guess my comment is to .....ask first, I will tell you if I had that day or not

Everyone have a great day and lets all leave the studios with smiles on our faces and a little spring in our steps

love and laughs
April

 

[jim]

Well said April

Also I have many times had clients walk in and the girl that is up meets the guy and comes back and tells the rest that he wants to meet. Only I would have to refuse to meet for a few reasons......dont have my makeup on because i just finished a session or I have an appointment coming up and could not stay with the client that walked in anyways. There are many reasons why there might be girls in the studio but not are available to meet at that time. And I dont know any girl here at this studio that gets upset when a client wants to meet other girls.
I will ask this though......why do some of you say right away that you want to meet the other girls before she even has a chance to introduce herself. This can be hurtful and be taken the wrong way as well. What if she does something special or has specials or whatever and she doesnt have a chance to tell you about it (her shpeel...i cant spell this word so dont go attacking me) I guess this is something that I think both parties could learn a little more etiquette from.
I dont want to get into any argument or anything like that....as this is something that I dont like to do. But I guess what I am saying is dont judge the book by its cover and everyone be polite and cordial to one another.
There is good and bad in all of us and we all have our bad days. So tolerance is a big thing too.

OH and the 'Sloppy Seconds" comment.......hahaha there are days where I work that I dont even have one FS session.....not cause they didnt want it but because they didnt make it that far. I am sure I am not alone out there either where this happens on a regular basis. So I guess my comment is to .....ask first, I will tell you if I had that day or not

Everyone have a great day and lets all leave the studios with smiles on our faces and a little spring in our steps

love and laughs
April

You indeed are a classy lady April.

 

[Guardian Angel]

Same as a commisioned sales person

Studios have an "up" system. If say, it is my up first that day, I would go to the door first everytime until going in to session. Then, the next girl who's up it is would go, etc. and it continues as a rotation. The system is designed to make it so that the girls have a chance to have an equal # of sessions each.... although it generally doesn't happen due to requests, etc.

I agree that the system is a bit silly, but it is intended to minimize the catiness amongst the SPs. Generally, people are creatures who will minimize conflict, so that's why they ask you if you wou would like to stay as most men are very gentlemen-ish and will not offend the lady by asking to see the other girls.

The best way I think IS for the girl to introduce herself and also name off who else is working, THEN ask the guy if he would like to stay or if he would like to meet the ladies... I think it is only fair. The reason why you guys get put in the room is to minimize front entrance traffic and passing bys of fellow pooners.

But all in all, don't be afraid to ask to see who else is working, after all, it is your hard earned money you are spending, and you have that right. But a word of advice - word it tactfully and ask immediately - not after she has already started a shower for you, etc.

Totally agree, everyone needs to get a good chance for walk-ins. In the furniture business, unless you ask specifically for a sales person, then you work with who greeted you.

If you are a walk-in at a MP then I feel you already have chosen to take what comes as part of your reason for just dropping in.

If you know a particular lady, you can always ask, but if you want to avoid any hard feelings, do your homework on perb or YMMV and book an appointment.

Just my thoughts.

Have a good one!

G.A.

 

[Fuzzy Thumper]

...her shpeel...

It's "spiel" (although it's German, so phonetically, you were closer to how it sounds)...

...and, as it turns out, it also means "play". Go figure....

...i cant spell this word so dont go attacking me...

Not attacking... helping (and, as any number of ladies here can readily confirm, even if I tried "attacking", the only real danger you'd be in is of having uncontrollable "giggle fits" at my expense...).

 

[chrisdregina]

Getting this train back on the tracks, I've received both kinds of service at Legends...

First time I went there without an appointment, I was introduced to all the girls who were on staff. One by one, the girls all came in, said "hi" and then left. Afterwards, the receptionist came back to ask if I wanted to stay with anyone.

Second time, I stopped in without an appointment and was asked if I'd like to meet the girls who were working. Said "yes" and first girl came in and introduced herself and that was it...no other introductions. I decided to stick it out with that girl because I'd read good things about her.

 

[namssa]

Hi April, thanks for your comments and you do make sense of the possibilities that exist for why she may have have bloodhshot eyes. I would like to clear up some of your concerns you have stated.

I just wanted to make a comment on the SP with "bloodshot eyes"......there are many reasons why a SP can have bloodshot eyes and it isnt always drug related which I get the impression you were trying to say it was drug related or was not sure if it was drug related.
I have had bloodshot eyes on a few occasions.......

1. SP recieved a facial and some got in her eye/s by accident....I cant tell you how many times this has happened to me.

2. Dry contact lens

3. Eye irritation from makeup.

4. crying.....many reasons for this...allergies, sad movie, etc.

and I could go on and on.

I did not say it was drug related, but could be high, and I did offer other possibilities as well, so your impression that is "it isnt always drug related which I get the impression you were trying to say it was drug related or was not sure if it was drug related."

I thought that is what I just got finished saying.

I will ask this though......why do some of you say right away that you want to meet the other girls before she even has a chance to introduce herself. This can be hurtful and be taken the wrong way as well. What if she does something special or has specials or whatever and she doesnt have a chance to tell you about it (her shpeel...i cant spell this word so dont go attacking me) I guess this is something that I think both parties could learn a little more etiquette from.

I told the girl on the phone that I wanted to "meet all the girls" so that there was no missunderstanding of my intentions when I arrived and that everyone knew that this as a "meet and greet" so that a session was not necessarily going to happen. If everyone knows this is a meet and greet, no one should be hurt and have it taken the wrong way. It is not my fault if the girls don't communicate the information to each other. Can't believe that this would not be a commom occurance for someone from out of the city to want to meet the girls first. I was totally above board with my intentions. If the girl does something "special", then the meet is a perfect time to convey that. I think the word you are looking for is "spiel"

OH and the 'Sloppy Seconds" comment.......hahaha there are days where I work that I dont even have one FS session.....not cause they didnt want it but because they didnt make it that far. I am sure I am not alone out there either where this happens on a regular basis. So I guess my comment is to .....ask first, I will tell you if I had that day or not .

What I as trying to say was that I did not want to be with a girl who has been with another guy less than 20 minutes ago. Especially if I know she was just with a guy. Personal preference, nothing more, nothing less.

Thanks for you input April, it is appreciated. I hope I have explained myself a bit better and cleared up some of your concerns.

 

[gospak]

In the furniture business, unless you ask specifically for a sales person, then you work with who greeted you.

Weak example. In the furniture business, you are purchasing furniture; you are not purchasing the salesperson or staff member. In this business, you are "purchasing" the staff member.

In the furniture business the salesperson will eagerly show you all types of furniture available for sale without you having to awkwardly ask for more. That is analogous to a receptionist at a MP showing you which ladies are working.

If I go to a MP, I would not care which receptionist is showing me the ladies, just like I wouldn't care which salesperson at a furniture store is showing me the furniture - as long as I get to see all the inventory I'm happy

 

[MrR]

Interesting

I guess this topic would not normally apply to me, but sometimes it does. Usually when I go I already have checked out who's on staff, and then I pick who I want to see. I do not make appointments, but I make sure that there is usually 2 girls that I may want to see working in case I cannot see the one I want to. I have no reservations on leaving if they are both busy.

But... There are times when I am just horny and I want to see someone now, not later after I've checked out a few MPs. In that case I'd have to say that I've had a bad experience at Penthouse, where basically it was have a session with who I met at the door, or I could say good-bye.

Supreme seem very curteous, I start off as soon as I come in the door with asking if the girl I want to see is available today, then if not, I will gladly listen to her. I just don't want here to feel like I'm going to listen to her and then ask for someone else as if she's just not good enough for me. That's not the case, I want to be straight forward, letting her know who I intended on seeing even though I didn't have time to do my homework.

Fantasy Massage used to always offer to show me the girls who were working, no matter who came out first.

And Heaven's Gate (I can't remember the name of the MP that used to be above the Harley showroom) were pretty bad about that. It seemed to be that I could see that there were 4 girls there, but they'd really push themselves, and reluctantly offer that there were others almost like they were not there.

Bottom line is, if you want someone specific, do your homework, phone ahead, make an appointment. But if you just want to try somewhere new, be straight forward, but do not be rude. Try to use your discretion when asking to see other girls if they do not offer. If you've never met the other girls, tell them so they know why you want to meet the other girls. SPs are human too.