What to do when a pooner married with kids?

[deadslug]

I'm a l.l. I probably visit sp's once a month and been busted 5 years ago. Cri
inal record is gone now. Thought wife would find out because I'm a coach and my file was expunged this year. Just thinking now, what's the worst that can happen. She is a total c..nt. We have lots of money house pAid for and a few hundred gees in the bank bla bla bla. Anyway just askin you r opnion? Should I atY or go? After reading tant and chika chasers adventure's. Sounds awesome but I know it can be a lonely life.

 

[jesuschrist]

I'm a l.l. I probably visit sp's once a month and been busted 5 years ago. Cri
inal record is gone now. Thought wife would find out because I'm a coach and my file was expunged this year. Just thinking now, what's the worst that can happen. She is a total c..nt. We have lots of money house pAid for and a few hundred gees in the bank bla bla bla. Anyway just askin you r opnion? Should I atY or go? After reading tant and chika chasers adventure's. Sounds awesome but I know it can be a lonely life.

I sure wish you could learn how to spell.
Anyways I got your drift. I guess the whole criminal record thing + being a coach = molesting kids? Clear it up, it would affect my answer to your question.

So your wife is a CUNT? Then goddamn leave her. You should never be with someone who is a CUNT. House is paid for, good - then split it in half. At least you don't have to carry a mortgage. A few hundred g's in the bank, great, take your 50%. Are you so spineless and ugly you can't find yourself another woman? You gotta be kidding right? I've seen lots of ugly guys with girls, and they don't seem to be lonely.

In the meantime, you could have a pooning adventure being single with all that money. Since your record is cleared, you could even travel to places like Cambodia and pick up some 16 year old and marry her legally in this country, and I'll bet her parents will consent.

 

[luvsdaty]

I sure wish you could learn how to spell.
Anyways I got your drift. I guess the whole criminal record thing + being a coach = molesting kids? Clear it up, it would affect my answer to your question.

So your wife is a CUNT? Then goddamn leave her. You should never be with someone who is a CUNT. House is paid for, good - then split it in half. At least you don't have to carry a mortgage. A few hundred g's in the bank, great, take your 50%. Are you so spineless and ugly you can't find yourself another woman? You gotta be kidding right? I've seen lots of ugly guys with girls, and they don't seem to be lonely.

In the meantime, you could have a pooning adventure being single with all that money. Since your record is cleared, you could even travel to places like Cambodia and pick up some 16 year old and marry her legally in this country, and I'll bet her parents will consent.

What he said , but with lots of happy faces Being single is awesome:thumb:

 

[Dickson]

You need to do what makes you happy. No matter what you decide it is the right decision and you have to live with it. You can be happy both ways you just need to learn to be happy. I am sure your cunt wife has some redeemming qualities or you would not have married her in the first place. Money does not appear to be an issue that is good.

I have been single all my life and I often think what it would be like to have a wife and kids, but well, I choose my life. It is lonely out there especially as you get older. Especially at this time of year. So it will always be green on the other side that is why we have to learn to be happy with what we got.

Important point is make a decision and know it is the right one for you. Once you find your happiness you can address others happiness. If you try and set your happiness based on other people you will never be happy. Remember happiness is a state of mind. You are not responsible for other people's happiness. You only have your feelings to deal with. I have lived with a family in Egypt with 11 people and a donkey in a mud hut and they were the happiest people you will ever meet. So don't fight with the decision just decide and learn to live with it. The world will be a better place once you decide.

 

[chilli]

You say your wife is a total cun^ - sounds like you were made for each other.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

what's an I.I.

 

[uncleg]

what's an I.I.

Don't know, still trying to figure out what an l.l. is ????

 

[Jethro Bodine]

First thing you gotta do is hide those "few hunderd gees" so she doesn't get 1/2.
I'll send you my address. You go to the bank, get the money, put it in a nice sturdy chest and send it to me. I'll hold on to it for you until the dust settles.

(Now, by a "few hundre gees" you actually meant geese but forgot to add the last "e" you can disregard my post. I live near the water and in the spring and fall I have just about as many geese as I can handle)

 

[Man Mountain]

Don't know, still trying to figure out what an l.l. is ????

He's been a member since January 2007 and this is his first post. I'm just throwing out a guess that it stands for "lurking" and some other word that starts with an L.

 

[wilde]

He's been a member since January 2007 and this is his first post. I'm just throwing out a guess that it stands for "lurking" and some other word that starts with an L.

Longtime Lurker perhaps...

 

[Man Mountain]

Longtime Lurker perhaps...

That makes sense. "Longtime listener, first time caller..."

 

[brown25]

Talk to a lawyer first!

It will be worth the thousand bucks or so for a consultation.

Has no one here been divorced?

One of my best friends just left a similar situation. It does NOT get split 50/50! Not if he's been supporting her, not if there's kids. His wife got the house, the kids, the money, and he has to support her and the kids until he retires (and he had to fight hard to get that).

 

[tantalizeme]

Is an adventurous pooner likely to have a lonely life?

After reading tant and chika chasers adventure's. Sounds awesome but I know it can be a lonely life.

Hey deadslug,

Great that after 5 yrs on PERB you felt inspired to post! Great choice of handle.

You raise an interesting question. Going on sex vacations isn't easy to reconcile with a stable family life. There are certainly tradeoffs here.

But there're many ways to set up one's life. Clearly, if you're a highly-sexed man who wants both sexual freedom and nourishing intimacy—and you don't wish to play a game of deception—you need to hook up with an open-minded woman in the first place.

Believe it or not, they exist, and probably in larger numbers than in the past. Some women, especially more mature ones with their nest-building behind them, are often surprisingly appreciative of a sexually adventurous man. Quite a few women are willing, for example, to come along to swinger clubs—and, surprisingly often, they end up enjoying the experience at least as much as their men.

So it's not necessarily true that an active pooner will end up lonely, without affection and intimacy. But you need to find an erotically fired-up lady who understands the difference between love and sex. You need to be able to communicate with her about your fantasies, and what it takes to satisfy them.

You don't talk about your wife very respectfully. I wouldn't be quick to advise you to put your kids through the trauma of marital separation—but if I were you, I'd certainly not want to spend the best years of my life as the doormat of a nagging, jealous wife.

You sound like a good candidate for serious marriage counselling. PM me if you need a referral.

 

[jesuschrist]

Hey deadslug,

Great that after 5 yrs on PERB you felt inspired to post! Great choice of handle.

LMAO. You oughta bee a comedy writer Tants! Had me rolling on the floor busting my guts!!!

 

[luvsdaty]

Talk to a lawyer first!

It will be worth the thousand bucks or so for a consultation.

Has no one here been divorced?

One of my best friends just left a similar situation. It does NOT get split 50/50! Not if he's been supporting her, not if there's kids. His wife got the house, the kids, the money, and he has to support her and the kids until he retires (and he had to fight hard to get that).

The key word is supporting her, 50/50 includes all the debt that the couple accumulated. A lot of couples both have jobs now so it's usually just a matter of deviding the debts & assets.Even if she's/he's been supported, they usually make the supporting spouse pay support for training so they can re-enter the work force.

 

[Ebenezer Good]

....with Kids"

My two cents you and your wife are adults who can do what you want with the $$ etc but don't forget your kids in the equation. Keeping them happy should be your no.1 priority.

Party On..

Ezer Good

 

[sevenofnine]

if you call your wife a c___ on a message board,

i think she should through you out.

 

[Dgodus]

Doesn't really sound like he's scared at all. Sounds more like a sort of mid life crisis to me, somebody who read a couple threads on sex vacations and is wondering how it would work out with a wife/kids involved (kinda hard to cover up a solo vacation to Asia).

Probably just got busted picking up a sw as was said. You can pay for it all you want, just can't solicit for it in public (and I got tired of reading the laws on brothels)