What`s Your Take On BBW (Big Beautiful Women) ????

[EastIndianLayla]

Hey Gentlemen,


Well BBW! I am asking what everyone`s take is on BBW because I am thinking of bringing my girlfriend out with me to join me in a few calls.

She is also thinking of working on her own when she travels out with me. I have a photoshoot lined up for her when I get back home, and I will put them up when I get the final shots.

I personally love BBW...Some of the prettiest faces I have ever seen in my life, were on bigger females.....

Let`s post some pictures.....I bet you none of you can post a picture of a BBW that`s hotter than my girlfriend.....The ladies on this board don`t count because they are absolutely stunning....

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

Well I'm probably not the ideal first responder to this thread, because I'm not hugely attracted to BBW, and have even less of a desire to pay to see one.

That said, as you mentioned, if someone has a nice face, and a good personality, and an open mind, it can sure make for a fun time, regardless if they are a BBW or not. But when it comes to paying to have a good time, I do prefer thin, young, attractive, women with nice faces, good personality and open minds.

 

[Unpossible]

I like BBWs. But like any other type of woman there are are going to be some I'm not attracted to.

Hot:

Not so much:

 

[Bobo The Rabbit]

Unless a guy sees a BBW as a fetish/turn on he will need a reason that would compel him to see one.
Is she offering amazing services/extras/attitude or like many BBWs are her rates lower?
When I look at girls to see there has to be something that compels me to pick a girl over another girl.
I have seen plenty of bigger girls and some who qualify as BBW, however there had to be a reason. Years ago it would of been services and attitude with bigger girls could of been better than the model types. However right now there are so many stunning GFE/PSE girls available that I have not seen a BBW in years and only one or two chubby girls.

If your friend tours with you she will need to realize she will not be busy, however if shes happy with just one or two clients a day (if even) then she should come out. If she offers full PSE at a GFE or FS prices then guys who may not have seen her due to her BBW status may decide to see her.

 

[EastIndianLayla]

If your friend tours with you she will need to realize she will not be busy, however if shes happy with just one or two clients a day (if even) then she should come out. If she offers full PSE at a GFE or FS prices then guys who may not have seen her due to her BBW status may decide to see her.

Hey,

She`s not actually planning to come out and make money as an escort. I believe she is into BBW porn...However, I was just thinking that if I came out, she could take along and maybe get the odd gentlemen who was interested in a BBW fetish...maybe even a duo with me and her.

I agree, that now a days there are sooo many sexy, spinner, model type females who offer amazing service.

 

[Unpossible]

Not as much a niche market as some posters would suggest.

You have statistics? Awesome, post them please!

 

[seeker]

I LOVE BBW's. As long as she takes care of her looks and provides good and has great attitude, I am sure she will be successful.

By the way, what is your definition of a BBW? Is it 50, 100, 200, or 500 lb overweight?

Seeker

 

[Unpossible]

By the way, what is your definition of a BBW? Is it 50, 100, 200, or 500 lb overweight?

Seeker

This is something I've wondered too.

 

[chilli]

Big Beached Whales?

Why would anyone pay to have sex with someone who is fat?

Tell her to eat properly get some exercise and lose some weight.

You'd be doing her a HUGE favor.

 

[Bobo The Rabbit]

There are working BBWs and I have paid to see some years ago when their superior attitude and the fact that they may of offered services that were hard to find at that time allowed me to look past that they were BBW.
The reality is that a guy has two girls to pick from, both offer GFE for the industry standard 300 an hour, one is fit and stunningly beautiful while the other is BBW...
Yea who is the guy going to pick....

As for the whole idea that some guys prefer and love BBWs... well some guys pay to be kicked in the nuts.

 

[Surrey's Jewel]

This is a great thread. I find it interesting that some people just can't believe that others would actually prefer a bigger girl. Well I suppose if I hadn't started in this busienss I wouldn't have believed it either. My clients tell me that a lot of them like to be seen with a model type and they wouldn't tell their friends that they like plump girls but they actually crave it. I've been heavier all my life, was 10 lbs at birth and from day 1 was always chubby. My older sister was a stripper for 15 years and had the perfect 'model' type body. I hated my looks until I met this super hot, younger guy at my last 'real' job. I couldn't believe this guy was crazy about me. He changed everything. I had very little self confidence until running into him. He convinced me that some men actually believe a woman's body should be soft and curvy. I hated my big boobs until he came along. Now after getting into this business I see that there are actually a lot of men that feel this way. I totally agree that no matter what your size, you have to exercise and stay toned and eat healthy. This makes you feel good and comes accross in your appearance. Sexiness really does come in all shapes and sizes. I used to think I only liked tall guys. I have learned soooo much since becoming an SP !!

 

[Unpossible]

Statistics?

Nope.

Just general knowledge. And age lol.

So you're just making shit up. Gotcha!

 

[bcneil]

Statistics?

I can however relate a story. I met a lady online and she told me that her husband had left her. She was badly overweight and had made the decision to lose it, and she did. Almost 140 lbs. Her husband told her when he left that he liked BBW's and she wasn't one anymore. So he left.
3 kids 20+ years of marriage and he left her because her physical type wasn't what he liked. Not sure how the story relates exactly (lol) but I found it incredibly telling ... about some men.

There was probably more to it than that. I am friends with a couple, both were heavy.
They both got fit, he lost 80 she lost 40, and were both looking great.
Both got more attention from members of the opposite sex, and they decided to divorce.

As for BBW, I think the term is way over used. It can mean anything from basically 140lbs to 500lbs
But certainly there are guys into hot heavier ladies.

 

[Unpossible]

So you like them big...just not too big.

Pretty much.

 

[josephl]

Hey,

She`s not actually planning to come out and make money as an escort. I believe she is into BBW porn...However, I was just thinking that if I came out, she could take along and maybe get the odd gentlemen who was interested in a BBW fetish...maybe even a duo with me and her.

I agree, that now a days there are sooo many sexy, spinner, model type females who offer amazing service.

I think whether a BBW is sexy or not is really dependent on how they carry and present themselves, much as it is for the rest of us. I have been with a few BBW and have found them extremely sexy, IMO probably because they have the self confidence and self awareness that some of the many skinny spinner types on here do not.

If you do decide to bring her out with you in some form or another, please let me know

 

[Surrey's Jewel]

So similar to my story, Jewel.

I knew nothing about the escort business and was beyond delighted when I found out I actually could do it-- that there was indeed a market for us bigger gals. And was there ever!!

I had the same rates as other ladies.. But I had a service level that exceeded my contemporaries.
I always felt I needed to give more to make up for my lack of perfection. This was such a huge blessing!!
It gave me a reason to be creative and always inspired to be better and better. I learned so much and became pretty damned good at a lot of interesting things. I do believe many of my clients, even regulars, saw me despite the fact I was a bigger girl and because of my service level-- but many actually prefered a more voluptuous woman. Some saw me because I was over 40.

I loved it that the men I saw had a wider scope of attraction. It made for a wonderful career.
Thank you, gentlemen!!!

xoxo
Nina

Yes, good point about your rates. Mine are super low but it's not because I'm BBW. I actually (don't roll your eyes) get clients telling me I should raise my rates all the time because it's getting so hard to get in to see me. My rates are based on the economy and it's my personal 'thing'. I wanna be the 'Winners' of the SP market. Good quality at good price. This is the first time I've wished I had higher rates just so I could argue the point someone else brought up. "There has to be a reason a guy would see a BBW" ... I respectfully disagree. When I was new to the business I didin't know I was called a BBW so I didn't advertise as such. I met quite a few guys who were suprised by my size. I still have a lot of them as clients. They were suprised at how much they enjoyed a bigger girl. I had a fellow yesterday ... very nice looking, very in shape himself ... his friend told him about me ... he kept saying as we were rolling around in the sack "ahhhh, let me die here" ... Obviously it's not for everyone but honestly ... some guys really dig it ! For that - I thank God !!!

 

[J.O. Henson]

i'm joining the fray late, but there's nothing wrong with BBW's as it's in the eye of the beholder. i've seen those listed or described as BBW but i have no idea what qualifies them as such. it seems if they aren't size 2 or less they are classified as BBW. maybe i just like them to look like real women but what is often deemed BBW is very fetching. Now I'd rather not have her outweigh me, at 300lbs i don't think that's too much to ask. there's big girls and fat. yes guys there's a difference.

 

[J_Bunny]

Ive read over this post several times, debating if I should respond, fearing the potential back lash but eff it, here goes!
A few things that I am not:
#1) Quiet
#2) Un-opinionated
#3) Skinny

For Chili: I wasn’t too sure how to respond to you nor did I want to without getting a real sense of who you are. So, I sat there and read through well over 200 of your posts. Guess what I found? Nothing great! You very rarely seem to contribute anything of value except when the chance arises for you to share your negativity. I would be interested to know how you have possibly given a motivational speech! And to whom! Also, 'Big Beached Whale' for BBW really isn’t that clever and you aren’t awarded any points for creativity when you continuously use it in every post possible. Get over it.

For Bobo: I know that I am pregnant and so you may think your comments do not directly pertain to me but I think otherwise. I assure you that of the people I see, the majority of them return and I don’t think that it’s because of my bump. I am also fully capable of seeing more than “1-2 clients a day (if that)” however, my pussy would hate me and I do have a life full of commitments outside of this life. In fact, over the past 5 weeks, I have been nearly booked solid, with minimal advertising as well. Imagine how many I could see if I really wanted tried? I do this all using very accurate photos that hide nothing. Might not be skinny, but I am busy!

For Layla: If you plan to take your friend with you and she is greeted by narrow minded men, I hope that for her sake, as well as that of your friendship, you deal with it better than you have here.

I know that some of you may think that this is just the way of the industry but I assure you that these views are carried forward by both those offering and those receiving services. It’s pasted on to friends and families.
I just read a review of an SP that broke my heart, talking about how thin she had gotten. This s**t doesn’t help. Your opinions are just that and I won’t argue those however, be tactful and tasteful ***ahem(Chili)ahem*** and don’t make assumptions or speak for everyone else.
I understand that men are visual creatures, but is beauty really only in the waist?

 

[dudeharsh123]

No thanks.... Would never see a BBW sp.. even if she was the nicest girl in the world with the best service with low rates. Just not my thing. I'm really curious as to the number of guys that would/have seen a bbw sp or are into that kind of thing. We should set up some sort of poll.

A while back I knew a girl who was quite large and overweight. She did not eat well nor did she exercise. This was in stark contrast to myself as I am in decent shape and watch what i eat. Anyways, she was a mutual friend of a good friend of mine and we really got along. She was very nice and i started to enjoy spending time with her. I got the sense that she was into me and that kind of mesed me up. I liked being around her, spending time with her etc, but did i "like" like her?

After some heavy drinking, usually at parties or at the club, we'd make out a few times, but thats as far as it would go. Then one night I was at the club with some friends, super drunk and she calls me to come over after the club... Well I did... We get on the bed and start making out again and the whole time im saying to myself, "can i do this?" Well, eventually something clicked.. and the answer was, "no" i cant do this. I wasnt attracted to her and just couldnt do it.

 

[Pillowtalk]

I don't think it matters if "most" guys wouldn't see anyone in the bbw range (and let's face it, the majority of bbw in the sp world are probably not going to be 300or more pounds, but more like larger curvy women) the fact is that there are very very few bbw/curvy sps compared to sps who are not. If you assume maybe at most 5 or 6 out of 100 sps are above or at gp's size 14, than really all it needs for her to be as busy as thinner sps is that 5-6 out of a 100 clients are looking for what she's got. That is not a lot of guys, really. Any bbw/curvy sp can be as busy or busier, without increased services or lower rates, just as any mature sp can be as busy or busier, even tho the "majority" of guys wouldn't choose to see them either.

More likely she';ll have to turn away more interested inquiries than the thin girl. The thin one is easily replaced, just call the next phone #.. The bbw or mature sp, you will have a hard time finding another one as easily.