What do you like in a session?

[Katlyn]

I guess this question isn't completely for everyone, because I'm not interested in knowing what acronymed activities you expect during a session, nor how many positions you expect to do. There is nothing wrong with purely sexual appointments, but those things are pretty straight forward (Like bjs? Get a bj.) and I'm not in need of clarification/discussion/interest on/in them.


What I am wondering is for those of you that like the total experience of the appointment more than specific sexual acts, what parts do you like best?

Being greeted with a hug? Talking before hand? Her touch on your body (her hands, body slide)? Intimate kisses? Eye contact? Sexual talking during the act? Getting her off? Watching her get herself off (not a toy show but honestly her pleasing herself)? The pillow talk and cuddling? Accompanied Shower?

Basically, what makes you feel like you've had a great time, your money was well-spent, etc? What little things can a lady do to make you feel like she's gone the distance? What gets you hotter than hell? And from beginning to end, what type of flow do sessions that you really enjoy have?

 

[Guardian Angel]

I like the little things, like hugs, cuddles, caresses, kisses and intimate touching of each other mixed in. The act of sex itself is so much more electric in my mind if you take the time to stimulate each others senses.

It can all start with the first hug, a hand given for direction, undressing each other (that is a major turn on for me), and ultimately meeting someone who allows and enjoys satisfying her own desires too.

G.A.

 

[Claptix]

My answer is simple. I have found my best times with professional companions have been with girls who simply truly wanted to insure that I have a wonderful time. Some of these have been with girls who provided the full alphabet of acronyms and others have been with girls who others might consider strict with their services but truly were sensual in other ways.

JC

 

[sevenofnine]

why does it seem like the best sp's are in vancouver or edmonton when im in calgary.

it starts when i see her, she should look like she dressed for me, not threw on some sweats and a sweater,
anything, from a nice dress, to some sexy undies, to maybe just plain naked, for a surprise.
if im a regular just naked would be nice once inawhile

and during a session pretty much everything variety,
from full service to just watching her play with her self or holding my hand while i play with her while she whispers in my ear, toys even for a change.

touching, lots of intimate touching both ways,
not having to ask for a service, like pearls or a facial, if its on the ladies menue, and it looks like its going to happen, just let it happen.
a lady gave me pearls once, i never asked for it, it was nice, real nice,
then don't wipe it off as fast as she can,

 

[Katlyn]

All of that sounds great!!!!

For me, and this may or may not be the same for a lot of guys, one thing I do really like in a session is when I leave actually believing that the woman I was with enjoyed the session as much as I did.

I'm not talking about the fake moaning/screaming etc. That is easy to detect and is actually a big turn off.

I like to learn about what pleases the woman I am with as much as I like being pleased in the session. If the lady actually takes the time to communicate to me what it is she genuinely likes, takes some time in the session so that we can please her too, and makes an effort to make sure that I'm doing it right for her - I can really tell (or at least I believe it!) if she came out of the session and enjoyed herself. Its a great feeling.

I find it a bit of a turn off if I ask the lady what kinds of things she enjoys and all she can do is reply "don't worry about that...its all about you! Its your session.". I understand that many ladies try to turn the focus away from them because they truly believe in their heart that this is the best way to serve their client.

But I enjoy giving as much as receiving too!

I get asked this a lot and I never know what to answer. I mean, the honest truth is everything and nothing turns me on / gets me off. It is all in my head. So if the entire mood of the appointment is good, then I'm good too. So I usually answer "I don't know". Maybe I should lie: "oh baby I like this and this" but I never think of that in the moment. I know my body well enough that if a guy is doing his thing I can adjust the position so that his fingers are hitting the right places, or his kisses are landing in the right spots, etc. Plus I love sitting on top of a guy and using my vibrator...that is hot and I usually cum, but I don't think that's what they mean when they ask as in that case they are doing nothing but providing the testosterone between my legs!



sevenofnine....Answering the door nude would be fun, but REALLY not practical for some of us unfortunately. I wouldn't even answer the door in lingerie. It's just not quite discreet enough for my tastes

 

[MrPeterNorth]

Neverminding the acronyms for a minute, but personally - the best times always have great kissing. I can't stress that enough really. I would never, and have never repeated with a girl who didn't kiss. Garypayt had it right - when the woman is turned on and she initiates the kissing a little more often than you, then I know we're both having a good time - without ever having to say a word, it just happens.

I tend to prefer to get right to the action so to speak - talking only kills the mood for me, since no offence, that's not what I'm there for. Talking between the next round of fun is the only time any signifigant conversations should occur, or at the end when you're both showering together. I guess it's just my animal "heat of the moment" instincts kicking in.

I'm not really into the hugging/cuddling. Those are things I draw the line at. That's stuff I do with women I like outside of 'pooning'.

 

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I get asked this a lot and I never know what to answer. I mean, the honest truth is everything and nothing turns me on / gets me off. It is all in my head. So if the entire mood of the appointment is good, then I'm good too. So I usually answer "I don't know". Maybe I should lie: "oh baby I like this and this" but I never think of that in the moment. I know my body well enough ...

When an SP asks me what I like, my answer is also "I don't know" because I honestly have no idea. I usually tell them to surprise me However, I don't know my body well enough. Heck, sometimes I feel like I am just operating a body suit that's loaned to me and saying to myself while looking at myself, "wtf? this is me?" lol.

Back to the topic, all of the above you mentioned sound very good to me. Please do try them on me next time

 

[Cosmo]

Hmmm... what do I like in a session.

Hmmm... let me think.

Seems to me the answer should be on the tip of my tongue....

Oh yeah... I know...

 

[Harmony-bc]

Awesome thread, Katlyn.!!! Good to know, that romance is not dead (for some)

 

[Harmony-bc]

Neverminding the acronyms for a minute, but personally - the best times always have great kissing. I can't stress that enough really. I would never, and have never repeated with a girl who didn't kiss. Garypayt had it right - when the woman is turned on and she initiates the kissing a little more often than you, then I know we're both having a good time - without ever having to say a word, it just happens.

I tend to prefer to get right to the action so to speak - talking only kills the mood for me, since no offence, that's not what I'm there for. Talking between the next round of fun is the only time any signifigant conversations should occur, or at the end when you're both showering together. I guess it's just my animal "heat of the moment" instincts kicking in.

I'm not really into the hugging/cuddling. Those are things I draw the line at. That's stuff I do with women I like outside of 'pooning'.

If you're gonna kiss me, etc, you better be ok with cuddling, hugging, etc Also conversation at the beginning of a date makes everyone more comfortable.

 

[Rotcod]

I have mentioned this before but I will quickly touch upon it again. What I am looking for when I see somebody all depends on what mood I am in at the moment (which usually affects who I choose to see in the first place, but I digress). Sometimes I am looking for a girl-friend type experience with lots of cuddling, kissing, holding hands and talking. Other times I am looking for a hair pulling, ass slapping, nails down my back, hard fuck fest.

Generally speaking though, I like to get warmed up a bit before moving onto the main event. Usually this involves light touching, followed by heavy petting and gradually more passionate kissing. And yes, like a few others have said, I love giving almost as much as I like receiving, sometimes even more.

 

[Katlyn]

Hmmm... what do I like in a session.

Hmmm... let me think.

Seems to me the answer should be on the tip of my tongue....

Oh yeah... I know...

bake cookies?

 

[MrPeterNorth]

If you're gonna kiss me, etc, you better be ok with cuddling, hugging, etc Also conversation at the beginning of a date makes everyone more comfortable.

I'm more than ok with hugging/cuddling,etc. I love it. But those are things I do with genuine intimacy versus paid-for intimacy. It's never the same. I guess you can relate it to women who don't kiss because that's what they "save" for their real boyfriend, then I guess hugging/cuddling is what I save for real girlfriends.

I'm usually very comfortable the minute I walk in and I'm usually ready to go well before the pants hit the floor. So anything longer than 5 minutes of idle chit-chat and then I begin wondering if it's an excuse to kill the clock and it kills the mood for me. I guess for me a lot has to do with the fact that I take a while to get off, and I hate feeling rushed at the end because the first 20 minutes was spent 'talking'. It would probably be a lot different if I was a one-minute wonder.

 

[Katlyn]

I'm more than ok with hugging/cuddling,etc. I love it. But those are things I do with genuine intimacy versus paid-for intimacy. It's never the same. I guess you can relate it to women who don't kiss because that's what they "save" for their real boyfriend, then I guess hugging/cuddling is what I save for real girlfriends.

I'm usually very comfortable the minute I walk in and I'm usually ready to go well before the pants hit the floor. So anything longer than 5 minutes of idle chit-chat and then I begin wondering if it's an excuse to kill the clock and it kills the mood for me. I guess for me a lot has to do with the fact that I take a while to get off, and I hate feeling rushed at the end because the first 20 minutes was spent 'talking'. It would probably be a lot different if I was a one-minute wonder.

good point...from my experience though most want the chit chat at the beginning to ease into it. You might want to just mention this prior to the booking to make sure she jumping and ready to go when you arrive Then you won't feel that time was wasted.

 

[Harmony-bc]

good point...from my experience though most want the chit chat at the beginning to ease into it. You might want to just mention this prior to the booking to make sure she jumping and ready to go when you arrive Then you won't feel that time was wasted.

Good advice.

 

[blazejowski]

I always like to see a confident girl who'll take charge, and lead me into the incall place. I suck at making the first move, so having her make it is a must for me. I do enjoy talking/cuddling/kissing for the first 10-15 minutes, and always have to move into a BJ, so I can get my first pop over & done with. As I am recovering, I always go for a little DATY, heading into a 69 once my little soldier is ready for attention again, then onto the horizontal/vertical/sideways mambo...

 

[Thatotherguy]

bake cookies?

OK seriously, that would make for an awesome session. I mean, who wouldn't want a sexy woman in the nude (or lingerie) baking cookies, followed by a quick bj or shag in the kitchen while the cookies are in the oven, take the cookies out and let them cool while you get back to the main event, and then afterward you've got fresh cookies! I can't believe nobody's ever thought of this before! That would be amazing!

 

[blazejowski]

OK seriously, that would make for an awesome session. I mean, who wouldn't want a sexy woman in the nude (or lingerie) baking cookies, followed by a quick bj or shag in the kitchen while the cookies are in the oven, take the cookies out and let them cool while you get back to the main event, and then afterward you've got fresh cookies! I can't believe nobody's ever thought of this before! That would be amazing!

Reminds me of that episode of Seinfeld where George wants to combine sex, TV and food at the same time....

"I find the pastrami to be the most sensual of all the salted, cured meats...."

 

[Thatotherguy]

Reminds me of that episode of Seinfeld where George wants to combine sex, TV and food at the same time....

"I find the pastrami to be the most sensual of all the salted, cured meats...."

Interestingly enough, during a recent session I had a conversation with an sp about exactly that... Of course the conversation came after the main event, so we didn't get a chance to actually put it into practice like George did, but maybe the next time I see her I'll prepare a nice pastrami sandwich.

 

[blazejowski]

Interestingly enough, during a recent session I had a conversation with an sp about exactly that... Of course the conversation came after the main event, so we didn't get a chance to actually put it into practice like George did, but maybe the next time I see her I'll prepare a nice pastrami sandwich.

Just be careful....

"I'll tell you what you did Caligula; you combined food and sex in to one disgusting uncontrollable urge!"