What do you do when you see her/him in the real world

[Taylor Maiden]

I was catching up on the posts and a thought came to me. When I first started I was, (as where most of the girls) so afraid that someone would "out" me in the real world. That's why I only see guys over 40 and moved to Miami.

For instance. I would be out with my mom and a client would come up to us and say.."Madam..you have a fine daughter there".

It has never happened.

Has anyone ever seen their friend out in the real world? Did she/he speak to you or ignore you? I was at a party, (this was before I even knew what a working girl was) and a man spoke very loud and said to a girl.. "I know you!! You work at xxxx parlor.. You are a whore". His friends laughed and everyone else was mortified.

Has anyone had any experiences like this? Good ones or bad ones.

 

[Taylor Maiden]

See, thats just lovely.

 

[wolverine]

I sometimes run into SPs I know at a bar or nightclub. In some cases, we say 'hi' and move on. In other cases, we greet each other like old friends and talk, have a drink or two, and dance together. Of course, I would need to know her real first name because I don't want to out her by calling her by her pseudonym.

 

[IceG]

depends how well i know her

i would say if i "know" her 4real, then i would go talk to her and see how she is doing. this presupposes the real names and real background info has already been exchanged including whether she has told her friends or whatever, so i know whether to say that we met at the gym or whatever bar i know she goes to.

if i do know her that well, i make eye contact and she if she wants to talk. if she does, then i will, if she gives me the stay cool, then i just let it be.

i have nothing to hide from and my real friends have met many girlfriends i have had and some have been exotic dancers, etc. so nothing would phase them if i ran into a dolled up sp in a mall or wherever and talked to her. i just try to figure out what is happening for her at that moment by what she says with her eyes.

 

[Massagegirl]

Because Victoria is a small town, I have seen at least 10+ people ouside of work. I usually just walk on by, without even eye contact, unless they are alone then I nod and smile.

With one exception... I was having dinner at the Macaroni Grill and my 2 friends are in the bathroom when I hear "Ginger, hey Ginger" (my old name) being called out from at least 15 feet away and I'm like "what are you doing?" in a hushed whisper and he's like "oh I saw your friends went to the washroom so I thought it was OK" and I'm like "true but you don't have to yell it out, it's not my real name" and he was all "oh, sorry I've been drinking". So I forgave him his indiscretion and we chatted for awhile, then he melted away when my friends re-appeared.

Luckily all my friends know what I do now, so I'm not too worried in any case. I can't stand lying to new people either, I just dump it in their lap if they ask what I do, and they can like it or not. I'm proud of my job, so society can kiss my ass if they don't approve!!!

Just nobody tell my MOM!!! LOL!!! No really....

 

[Oberon]

Never happened to me, but probably just a nodd or smile...

Oberon

 

[Owudoin]

It all depends on the situation...sometimes you just happen to meet up and there's the initial awkwardness...sometimes you just act like you're old friends. I've run into MP's at the bar, at Safeway, video store (and no they were not renting porn!...I was) Starbucks...it happens. The key is to not make a big deal of it, and if you do exchange peasantries, and you're with someone, you can always say it's someone from work, etc...

 

[ShyMike]

I've seen a few SP out in the real world, some say hi, some I've stop and chatted with, I usally let the SP make the first move if she wants to say Hi she will and I will reply. I'm never rude to them they have a life outside of the MP as well.

 

[regal1947]

I have always expected that anyone in this profession, hobbyist or SP, would be discrete enough not to breach anothers privacy. I have recently discovered that a relative has an MP friend that is at their home often. One day I will bump into this person and I hope she will be discrete if we have met!

 

[BS Detector]

I feel the same wa yas ShyMike and Owudoin. Maybe just a smile but let her make the first move to talk. I think the key is to respect their privacy like you'd want your privacy respected. It's never happened to me but like Owudoin says, don't make a big deal about it. So what...You bump into someone you know!

 

[gymguy]

I bumped into a local SP in a gym we were both working out at. I was in the same area and when me made eye contact I just nodded and said "hi" just like anyone else there.

I have asked this question of SP's before and one told me she was at a customer site during her normal other work day, and bumped into a client of her SP occupation. He did not blow her cover, but tried to get her into a back room for some action. Crass!

I meet so many people that even if I was with someone and they asked who talked with me I would just say it was someone I met a business function.