Walking from an SP
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not necessarily....if you go in, touch her, feel her up and then leave ...yeah you would be considered a "shop lifter" or waste of time (WOT)
but ....if you simply are nervous, or find the sp is not your type, you should be free to leave without any backlash.
love susie
but ....if you simply are nervous, or find the sp is not your type, you should be free to leave without any backlash.
love susie
you shouldn't if its done tactfully.;1457476 said:
if she misrepresented herself you have every right to say thanks but no thanks.
however if its nerves or you just don't feel the love , either make up a story about how you just got a call and have to run and offer her something for a cancellation maybe.
fair is fair if i have the right to ask you to leave you should also
I think cherise is right. I mean if she misrepresented herself, YES you should leave to prove a point.
But if you looked at her website, communicated with her, booked an appointment then come into her home (or incall location), then YES., you should give her a cancellation fee. That would be the considerate thing to do.
I also agree with cherise... if you have done any sort of research on the SP in question and she is in fact using legitimate photos then really the only thing that could possibly be to the imagination would be her face if she blurs it out. So I don't think it would be fair to walk out on her without offering some kind of donation for a cancellation fee (if her face isn't what you're ideally attracted to doggy style is always great). lol
Cancellation fee is polite unless as everyone has said she misrepresened herself. So why were you walking if she didnt misrepresent herself?
on the rare occasion i have asked a client to leave i have given him his full money back. i f i ever had to cancel last minute it would be compensated next time he booked with me .he would only be required to pay for a half hour session when booking the full hour .
LIJ, lol.
ound:And here's some gas money for you, you poor boy. I know the $4.76 it took to drive here is really gonna make or break your day.
Forget the fact that I got prepared for you, fresh sheets, makeup, hair, revealing outfit, few sprays of expensive perfume , the back and forth chatting we did to confirm and book the appointment. I am gonna throw all that aside so I can pay you some gas money.
Anything is possible but I suggest your scenario is highly unlikely.
My one time similar experience:
I recognized a caller's voice as someone I'd had a little problem with in the past, ie. wanting to 'play' naked, long beyond my comfort zone of when the condom should be on. I remembered trying to be professional and assertive, but the guy didn't want to be very cooperative. However, I didn't want to be wrong about the voice, and assume he was someone he wasn't, nor offend the wrong person. So I had to make a judgment call, and let him come by, to confirm if it was him or not.
As it turned out, it was the guy. I decided to talk with him in the hallway, rather than let him in. I explained why I did not think the visit would be enjoyable for him or me, based on the way he seemed to like his sessions to go. I suggested that, if he wanted to stay, we would have to do things my way. If that didn't work for him, he had the option of leaving. He left.
There was no compensation on either side, although both of us wasted some time and effort...
In all fairness & seriousness this just happened to me a moment ago.
When I first moved into my Oakridge location my landlord was making random visits to check up on things or inspect this, blah, blah, blah.
Well, one day the landlord showed up just as a client arrived. Even thought the landlord was only here for 10/15 minutes the clinet could not wait and i was forced to cancel the appointment. I promised to make it up to him
Fast forward to today. The client arrives and casually mentions that I had to cancel the last time becuase of landlord issues.
Since the client brought it up and I could recall the day exactly, I chose to give the client a $20 discount on his service. He seemed to be very happy and a little surprised.
So in the name of good customer service I would extend this courtesy for reasons similiar to this.
I've only ever walked once and it was the SP's decision not mine.
I had a rather prominent wart about half way up the front of my shaft that a condom would have covered easily but she was kind of freaked out so I paid her the half hour rate instead of 60 min and left. It was a hassle finding someone else that night on short notice but no hard feelings and i'd book with her again.
I had a rather prominent wart about half way up the front of my shaft that a condom would have covered easily but she was kind of freaked out so I paid her the half hour rate instead of 60 min and left. It was a hassle finding someone else that night on short notice but no hard feelings and i'd book with her again.
If the girl is everything she claims to be and you back out at the last sec, I think a fair compensation would be half the fee. If $150 is a big deal to you than maybe you shouldn't be pooning.
But if she is everything she claims and you went through the trouble of getting there, then I can't see why you'd bail at the last second. I've seen some girls that were just cool to shoot the breeze with so why not hang for a bit and get a hj if nothing else.
If its a case of false advertising turn around and leave, who cares what happens.
But if she is everything she claims and you went through the trouble of getting there, then I can't see why you'd bail at the last second. I've seen some girls that were just cool to shoot the breeze with so why not hang for a bit and get a hj if nothing else.
If its a case of false advertising turn around and leave, who cares what happens.
A nominal fee of $20 if one decides to cancel appointment after making the appointment and showing up at the door is reasonable. Someone expecting to be compensated for the entire booking fee of the session, for cancelling 30 mins prior to appointment time, after getting a bad vibe, is way too spoiled...��
I could be wrong but I got the impression that he was asking if he would be blacklisted collectively by the community of SPs and not just by the one from whom he walked away.
A nominal fee of $20 if one decides to cancel appointment after making the appointment and showing up at the door is reasonable. Someone expecting to be compensated for the entire booking fee of the session, for cancelling 30 mins prior to appointment time, after getting a bad vibe, is way too spoiled...?
Same here, if i had to walk out because she didn't meet my expectation, i won't be calling her back
There are occasions where i could understand such an action. Asking for compensation for the entire session is not normal practise. My guess is that she doesnt really want your business that badly and would prefer to provide service for others instead. The issue is why was the session canceled? Was it someone you hadnt seen before? If not then is there an issue between the two of you from the past that contributed to her reaction?
Blacklisting usually occurs after a pattern of behavior not after one instance.
having dabbled in this industry for over 50 years now, I have to say this has been an interesting discussion. This is one industry where you are caught into making an appointment with some one you do not know, never met, and are hoping to have an intimate relationship that is fun and fulfilling. The client arrives and has a brief moment to view the subject of his transaction, the surroundings, and use his intuition. In that very first few moments, he ascertains if this is going to work for him. It is not like walking into a store and buying a TV where you have a long time to stand there and look at it, ask questions, get on with it. So you have to be able to evaluate your position quickly. But I think most of us can do that, with minimum pain on both sides.
Not all SP's will agree with this as I have run into several who are pretty pissed if you leave after they open the door. There is definitely an attitude with some that a deal is a deal and if you arrive for the appointment you are obligated to stay. But that is often the lower end desperate ones. The gals in this business who know the gig, understand that the client is a shopper and has his rights too. So a little mutual understanding on both sides goes well. Lots of good cases presented above, have probably experienced them all.
Had to laugh at an incident a month ago in Fort Mac. Phoned a gal who was on tour there and had the usual discussion. I finally decided to tell her I was an ugly old guy and just wondered if she was really into that. Well, so humourous, she must have thought I was trying to put her off, threatened to blacklist me. Don't know if she did, but probably won't have any effect. I know so many in this trade that look after me fabuously when I call, which isn't often any more, but just the same, not getting turned down. Heck, it is Christmas.
Getting ready for New Years resolutions.
Not all SP's will agree with this as I have run into several who are pretty pissed if you leave after they open the door. There is definitely an attitude with some that a deal is a deal and if you arrive for the appointment you are obligated to stay. But that is often the lower end desperate ones. The gals in this business who know the gig, understand that the client is a shopper and has his rights too. So a little mutual understanding on both sides goes well. Lots of good cases presented above, have probably experienced them all.
Had to laugh at an incident a month ago in Fort Mac. Phoned a gal who was on tour there and had the usual discussion. I finally decided to tell her I was an ugly old guy and just wondered if she was really into that. Well, so humourous, she must have thought I was trying to put her off, threatened to blacklist me. Don't know if she did, but probably won't have any effect. I know so many in this trade that look after me fabuously when I call, which isn't often any more, but just the same, not getting turned down. Heck, it is Christmas.
Getting ready for New Years resolutions.
