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Bobo The Rabbit

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Well I finally got to see Vida and it was bad to be honest.
I tried seeing her on Saturday night but when I called and texted for her address (once I was downtown for our appointment) I got no response from her. I drove around downtown for half a hour and eventually just went to Supreme and had a session with a old fave. Turns out Vida ended up double booking my time, she said she would knock 50 bucks off my session to make it up to me. I don't like taking discounts from girls as stuff happens and its not that big of a deal to me.
On Wednesday I got in touch with her and booked a time for tonight. She asked me to text an hour before session to get her address, I had some phone trouble on my end and my phone was dropping network/not getting text messages. When I called her to retext me her address she sounded very abrupt and I got a bad vibe. I was thinking I should call this off but she has such awesome reviews I figured maybe shes just not a phone person. Well by the time I sorted it out I was knocking on her door 15 minutes late. I entered and as I pull out the donation she says she has an appointment right after mine. I asked if she means "right after?" and she said yes. I was holding 260 in my hand which I had intended to give her as her normal hourly rate is 250. Her attitude was very abrupt and lacking any warmth at all. I counted 60 out of the 260 and handed her 200 and said that I'm the guy she double booked and offered 50 off of the session. Her demeanor let me know this was not going to go well. I decided it was better to limit my damage.
She pointed me to the shower and I went and showered and we headed to her room. I think she was upset at my being 15 minutes late and then takeing her up on her offer of 50 off the session as she showed no warmth and it seemed a chore for her to be around me. I tried to keep a upbeat attitude but that was pointless.
No conversation during the session at all.
She was distant and the session was just bad. I offered to do oral on her but freshness was an issue, I took a few licks and tried to use saliva to deal with it, decided to stop but she said "that feels real good" so I soldiered on for minute or two.
I was in at 815 and walking to the elevator at 843. Not even 30 minutes. When we entered the room she did offer a massage to start but I passed as 45 mins for session and 2 showers is not enough to also be getting a massage if the session is done right.

I know she has a lot of good reviews and people say shes awesome, I just did not experience that. I am glad I did not give her 260 as that would of been a total waste, however 200 for almost 30 minutes is not as harsh. She is quite attractive, nice body and pretty face. I think she needs to give a good 10 minutes between sessions, I mean how is she supposed to change bed sheets, hair/make up, shower and change when one session comes right after another?

L/A/S
8/6/6

On the bright side I ended up seeing Lila Khan afterward and she was pretty awesome.
 
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Dark_Knight

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I mean how is she supposed to change bed sheets, shower and change when one session comes right after another?
It doesn't give her time to do that, why do you think she had you out in half an hour? Had you been on time, I am guessing that you still would have only got the 45 minutes. You being late turned your 45 min (hour) session into a 30 minute one.
 

MrR

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Sorry to hear that Bobo. I have been trying to schedule an appointment with her, but I am finding that at night her voice mail is full every time I try to get a hold of her, so I can't even leave a message.
 

Mick Shagher

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So let's see now. About 20 favourable and rave reviews on both boards combined for Vida, and only one bad review. Makes you got to wonder, doesn't it?
 

Bobo The Rabbit

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When I called you and asked for your address and let you know at 750 (also mentioned I was on stony plain road so I thought it made sense that I would be late) that I was having phone problems which was why I had not received your text... you were abrupt and angry sounding "I already texted you the address twice". Also you hung up the phone on me each time when I called. When I called in the lobby twice trying to get your buzz code... you hung up without saying goodbye (every time we talked) even while I was mid sentence and trying to get you to REPEAT the numbers you had said. I could tell you were angry however gave you the benefit of the doubt.. You would not even let me finish when I tried asking you to just text me the room/buzz code as it was difficult to hear you. I am sorry that my being 15 minutes late was a inconvenience to you and my phone issues were enough to anger you, however leaving me driving around downtown on Saturday night for half a hour after our start time and then texting me "oh sorry I double booked"... You could have texted me 40 minutes before then and simply said "hey sorry I double booked".... did not see me make a issue of it.

When I entered your place I greeted you with a "hi, you look nice" where as the first words out of your mouth were "I have another appointment right after you" and your attitude was cold, so yes my attitude became cold. I had the full intention of paying you your full rate and not taking advantage of the discount due to Saturdays events, however even though I wanted to walk out then and there, I decided to give you the benefit of the doubt. Who the hell thinks that's how you greet a client? You wonder why I felt as if I was in a rush? Because the first words you said to me were in regards to the time... No hello, how are you? thanks for coming, hows the weather? cold isn't it and then mention the time. When you greet a client that way and are rude on the phone it sets the tone for the session and all following interactions.

You were not fresh, why do you think I tried doing oral, then stopped? When a guy asks if its okay and gives up after a couple seconds you need to think about how well you cleaned up. You weren't into kissing, so I asked if you were comfortable with french kissing and you said you were so I tried twice to kiss deeper and each time got nothing from you, so at that point I stopped kissing you entirely. I tried to initiate LFK and gave up. The kissing is fine, maybe you weren't comfortable enough with me for that, fair enough, if I was a more attractive guy I would not pay for sex, would I? I have no qualms or hang ups over that. If it was due to a cold, then DON'T work till your 100%.

If you have several appointments leave time between them. If you have a 6, 7 and 8. How are you going to provide your clients with a hour and still shower/change/clean room?
Guy 6 comes in and leaves at 7. So is guy 7 waiting in your lobby while you clean/change/shower. One would guess showering, changing cloths and changing bed sheets would take at least 10 minutes. So guy 7 would enter your place at 710 and leave at 810, does that mean guy 8 has to sit in the building lobby till 820 while you shower/change/clean?

Read the review, learn from it. I owe you nothing and have no desire to see you again so why would I discuss anything with you before posting a review?
 
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brian355

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i certainly thought vida was wonderfull in all ways for hygiene attitude looks and wonderfull kissing.but i dont want this to become a clobber thread for bobo it was im sure just that two good people didnt click it happens
 

Pillowtalk

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Not sure why bobo you say you have issues with your phone dropping calls, not working right, and texts not received, then claim she hung up on you mid conversation? Don't you think it makes more sense the hangup was your phone's fault in that case? Also, on both sides, you rely too much on the technology of text, to the point that this turned into a mess. Just phone, talk to the person, etc, and deal with it by voice. If your phone doesn't work right, get yourself an alternative, like the hotel phone or a payphone or whatever. Continuing with faulty equipment, just a waste of time.

And Vida, no way 10 minutes is sufficient between your appts. I understand you want to maximize your booking time, but as mentioned that is not acceptable amount of time unless you are counting on the majority leaving early. How can you possibly connect with your next appt, give them the location info, and get them to the door, you all fresh, clean and the room tidies in that kind of time. You can't that's how, so there is no point trying to defend it. Book your appts at 5pm, 6:30, 8pm etc etc. A half hour apart. If the client arrives late, that is their problem, but as a professional you do everything in your power to make it possible for them to arrive on time, and if you are in an appt up to 10 minutes before their appt time, that is impossible. Maybe you do duo shower at the end of appts, but at the same time, it is simply bad etiquette to book that closely. Also, something about your booking procedure failed, where you had double booked. You are failing to connect to the client to confirm their appt times before they are on your doorstep. If you had time to get and reply to confirmation calls (using that half hour time period), you would have known in plenty of time you had double booked. Bobo and whoever would not have been on your doorstep when you talked to him, he wouldn't have even started on his journey, and both of you could have had the option to find a later time same day, or whatever.

Really, this 10 minute window, and you book hourly appts on the hour, well that just means you are not providing hour appts, isn't it?
 

Dr_X_man

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I do not like to get into this. I could have thrown my 2cents long long ago. Anyway, without taking sides as usual. Let this be a learning experience for me and everyone. This is part of why I hate booking incall appointments. It is very difficult to control besides my needs are not two days from now at 12:00 or whatever. For me it is spontaneous, instantanous,.... An outcall is better since if she is late. It's her mistake. Again, this is just general talk. It is unfortunate how men/women are treated sometimes.
I rarely agree with Pillowtalk however I agree with this in general without naming either Bobo the rabbit or Vida Santiago. They are both great.
Not sure why bobo you say you have issues with your phone dropping calls, not working right, and texts not received, then claim she hung up on you mid conversation? Don't you think it makes more sense the hangup was your phone's fault in that case? Also, on both sides, you rely too much on the technology of text, to the point that this turned into a mess. Just phone, talk to the person, etc, and deal with it by voice. If your phone doesn't work right, get yourself an alternative, like the hotel phone or a payphone or whatever. Continuing with faulty equipment, just a waste of time.

And Vida, no way 10 minutes is sufficient between your appts. I understand you want to maximize your booking time, but as mentioned that is not acceptable amount of time unless you are counting on the majority leaving early. How can you possibly connect with your next appt, give them the location info, and get them to the door, you all fresh, clean and the room tidies in that kind of time. You can't that's how, so there is no point trying to defend it. Book your appts at 5pm, 6:30, 8pm etc etc. A half hour apart. If the client arrives late, that is their problem, but as a professional you do everything in your power to make it possible for them to arrive on time, and if you are in an appt up to 10 minutes before their appt time, that is impossible. Maybe you do duo shower at the end of appts, but at the same time, it is simply bad etiquette to book that closely. Also, something about your booking procedure failed, where you had double booked. You are failing to connect to the client to confirm their appt times before they are on your doorstep. If you had time to get and reply to confirmation calls (using that half hour time period), you would have known in plenty of time you had double booked. Bobo and whoever would not have been on your doorstep when you talked to him, he wouldn't have even started on his journey, and both of you could have had the option to find a later time same day, or whatever.

Really, this 10 minute window, and you book hourly appts on the hour, well that just means you are not providing hour appts, isn't it?
 

Bone_eve

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Only I will add is that I agree with Pillowtalk that a SP should leave 30 minutes MINIMUM between sessions. Anything less you risk your lateness affect more than 1 client.
 

bigstick

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This is a tough one to decide on. Bobo has always given honest down the middle reviews. A lot of the ladies I've seen have been through Bobo. Though, with Vida a lot of great positive reviews especially from Mick. I know this is I walked into a session and I say "hi nice you look nice" and the response I got was " I have another appointment after" That doesn't set the mood. In this situation being hindsight. I would've just told or negotiated to come at another time. I just hate limited time. I like to relax and get to know the lady you know. I think this was a unfortunate situation. Hopefully Vida you and Bobo can maybe find a resolution on this. Both of you see to be fair and good human beings.
 

Dr_X_man

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This is a tough one to decide on. Bobo has always given honest down the middle reviews. A lot of the ladies I`ve seen have been through Bobo. Though, with Vida a lot of great positive reviews especially from Mick. I know this is I walked into a session and I say "hi nice you look nice" and the response I got was " I have another appointment after" That doesn`t set the mood. In this situation being hindsight. I would`ve just told or negotiated to come at another time. I just hate limited time. I like to relax and get to know the lady you know. I think this was a unfortunate situation. Hopefully Vida you and Bobo can maybe find a resolution on this. Both of you see to be fair and good human beings.
Good job bigstick and others. It is hard when you set a pre-booked appointment to just cancel. They both were in a bad situation. Let`s take these situation into the lounge. I`d really like to learn (and sure others) from experiences like these.
 

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Last time I saw Vida is when she was working at a mp. Overall it was a pretty good experience. Great body slide, sensuous touch, and a
pretty good bj.
It's those pre-booked appointments I can't stand. What if your not in the mood.
 

Dark_Knight

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It's those pre-booked appointments I can't stand. What if your not in the mood.
I am lucky that I am always in the mood. (Especially when I see some of the beautiful ladies we have here)

As for this situation. It was unfortunate that Bobo and Vida had a bad time together. It appears they have both moved on and I wish them both the best in the future. I can feel Bobo's pain in regards to the phone issue. My phone sometimes is late receiving texts from one of my favourites as well it seems to send them late occasionally too. It seems to be entirely arbitrary too. One text goes out fine the next takes days to arrive.
 

scissorme

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I can vouch for bobo regarding the "freshness" issue. I saw vida a couple months ago at the mp she worked at (I think itwas Venus) and all I'll say is the smell wasn't good. For anyone wondering y i didnt mention it on this board, I no longer write bad reviews as it seems the reviewer usually gets bashed and it's not worth the hassle of going on the defensive. First and last time I saw her.
 
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Funny thing is scissorme I haven't worked at an MP in over a year! lol nice try! Judging by the amount of other gentlemen who have never found anything wrong with my personal hygiene I suggest the subject be put to rest.
No offense Vida but you are exagerrating the "over a year" part aren't you. I can recall stopping into Venus twice in the last year and talking to you. I wouldn't get too defensive about the freshness thing, we all have stinky bums and funky private parts from time to time. :)
 

scissorme

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Lol, like I said... this is the reason I no longer post negative reviews because the reviewer ALWAYS gets bashed. And forgive me if I don't remember the exact date and time of this session, it wasn't exactly memorable. If I were u vida I would be glad to know I had this issue so I could actually do something about it rather than be completely oblivious to it. The truth hurts sometimes but the one positive that can come from this is you'll probably pay more attention to this issue.
 

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Well, hopefully this is the end of that!!! Lol I'm actually kind of embarrassed for everyone - I can relate, I've done the 'rant post' in the past, and have learned that you kinda gotta know when to say "enough" :)

Best advice at this point - think first, type 2nd
 

scissorme

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Funny thing is i've never had any other complaints from anyone else, regarding the so called "issue" I have another review a few posts down, that was from the very next day that is nothing less than stellar. THE END!
This is ridiculous, do I really hav to spell it out for you? Here we go. Sessions booked so close together result in not enough cleaning time and funky smells, THE END!
 
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