Urgent help.

[bender604]

I can't post in the health section for some reason so I'm posting here...I'll talk about my background...if it's too long skip to the last paragraph...

I guess you can call me a long time lurker.... I'm in my twenties and I'm not rich so don't really engage in this hobby...I occasionally save up and see maybe 1 sp in 6-8month? I'm usually the less risky...so I usually visit an sp who is well reviewed. With that said, that's the reason I don't post reviews since I have no additional information to contribute...I'm a fairly fit and in shape guy who has impeccable hygiene... Im always polite and always careful...

Situation:
found an sp who advertise a special and I'm a sucker for deals, I figured I can try and toftt for the board (it's about time)...Got to the sp's place... got the donations out the way...and on goes the hat and right into action...after 30min of different positions and thrusting... we're in doggie style position
The sp was screaming she's about the cum.... I was getting there....so I came....as I was pulling out I realize the condom was not there....I panicked... the sp was relaxed and said it's probably still in there...so I reach in and fished for the condom with my index and middle finger...seconds later I found it and pulled it out. We both realize the condom was empty...I was in shock...and I froze up......the sp said she was clean and I better be clean to. I am superrrr clean...so I asked if I can go get it checked out with her and etc...she said not now..however, she started questioning me as if I did it on purpose...I absolutely didn't wanna see an event turn out like this...I try to tell her how innocent I am but I understand from her perspective I'm merely a stranger... no reason for her to believe me. I gave her my # and name to keep for future. She walked me out and told me not to play her ever again. Now I'm sitting in my car and I'm feeling so frustrated and helpless...I mean Yes I came in her...but I did NOT want this to happen...I'm scared I got something from her....I'm also scared she has my info.....I will definitely go get it checked out..I think I'm gonna stop visiting sp from now on.... instead of getting any negative feedback and telling me how fucked I am...plz just give me some...supportive helpful advice thanks..

TL; DR
Visited sp....30min into session....finished in doggie....pulled out no condom = came inside sp... I did not mean to...sp accused me of doing it on purpose...I gave her my contact info.... she walked me out and now I'm going ballistic in my car. Need advice thanks.

 

[nickcan]

A few weeks ago another pooner experienced similar situation, here is the thread
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...ndom-slipped-off-during-sex)&highlight=condom

Relax and hopefully she was on birth control otherwise ensure she takes the morning after pill.

 

[Sonny]

In that situation, firstly you ask if the SP is on birth control.
If she is not, you offer to drive the SP to nearest 24 hour Shoppers Drug Mart, and purchase Plan B pills for her to take. Exit pregnancy concerns.

As for STIs, who knows who carries what, or mostly not. So phone CDC clinic on 12th Ave and make appointment to get checked. East enough.

 

[chuckertmg]

If she always uses condoms with customers the odds of you having anything to worry about are really low.
This is upsetting but there's no reason to panic. You'll both get checked - she's got your contact info. in case she tests positive for something; don't worry about that.
Personally I would send her a follow up email reinforcing that it was an accident because she's bound to wonder. It's easy to get the morning after pill if she feels she needs it.
Sorry this happened to you but I'll be very surprised if anything comes of it. It's the anxiety that sucks so bad.
Let us know what happens...

 

[bender604]

^
Wow, thanks for all the amazing support! Was not expecting everyone to be so supportive. You guys rock. I'm more calm about it now.
So, I actually did offer to drive her to shoppers and pick up plan B, or I even offered to drive her to a clinic either right away or when she's free tomorrow. She declined my offer and said she's okay and will check it out on her own time.
I just feel so ashamed of myself, and so bad. I hate it when people misunderstand me....in this case I absolutely did not want the SP to think I did it on purpose..but I think I can never change her mind on that. To be honest, the session with this SP was so hot....I thought I could definitely contribute by writing a review....but now that this happen...i think i should keep it anonymous...or end this account....and write a review about this SP with a new account... i think i'm just in a paranoid state of mind now......thinking what if she does something with my contact info...and tries to threaten me or something?? i don't know..