I have had a few sessions recently where the SP didn’t have lube, or claimed that they didn’t have lube. In both of these instances, it was the second time I had seen the SP. I have had this happen in the past, but in the past it was when I had seen the SP for the first time. Now, the first time with both of these now lube-less SPs was great: good connection, plenty of lube, you get the idea…
Then, the second time, I get the line after the BJ that we can use spit because they have very little lube left or none at all. Of course, this has lead to work on my end where I ask if DATY is on the table to get things where they need to be, but I am told it isn’t necessary and it isn’t their thing really. So on to the deed and it ends up being okay for a bit and then stopping to get a sloppy BJ re-up or spitting on my cock. Ultimately though, the SP just opts to tell me to finish because they don’t want to go much longer. Has anyone else had this recently where the SP has lube the first go-round and then the second time is pulling this? I want to think it’s a coincidence but it feels deliberate to end the date early.
Then, the second time, I get the line after the BJ that we can use spit because they have very little lube left or none at all. Of course, this has lead to work on my end where I ask if DATY is on the table to get things where they need to be, but I am told it isn’t necessary and it isn’t their thing really. So on to the deed and it ends up being okay for a bit and then stopping to get a sloppy BJ re-up or spitting on my cock. Ultimately though, the SP just opts to tell me to finish because they don’t want to go much longer. Has anyone else had this recently where the SP has lube the first go-round and then the second time is pulling this? I want to think it’s a coincidence but it feels deliberate to end the date early.





