Time etiquette What do you do if you atay too long???

[Maleman]

I have seen the same SP several times. All appointments were for 1 hour
The first visit was over by 5 minutes, the 2nd by 15 minutes the 3rd by 20 minutes

During the last visit we realized I was over by 45 minutes. We both realized this when I
was leaving. I felt like a real shit, I had no extra funds and really did not know what to say.

I texted her after apologizing and thanking her for her genorosity, and I suggested I book a longer appt
next time

Whats the proper thing to do???

ps: there is no clock in the room, and I believe both parties were fully engaged.

 

[Man Mountain]

When this happened to me in the past with a certain lady that I used to see, I did what you're thinking. Started booking longer sessions and made sure to include a tip in the envelope upon return visits.

 

[deleted Miss Lux]

I think this is a great answer

When this happened to me in the past with a certain lady that I used to see, I did what you're thinking. Started booking longer sessions and made sure to include a tip in the envelope upon return visits.

 

[Dgodus]

Aye book longer sessions if you're going over because of play time.

If it's going longer because of none sexual activities well then it's a little bit of a gray area. Are you lingering? Or is she engaging you in conversation?

One I see most frequent knows I wont be offended when she tells me it's time for me to go "do you need a shower", "I need to get some sleep", etc a not so subtle but polite way to say "get yo ass out ma room!" I leave the decision up to her, and I'm never offended/disappointed if I'm only there for the duration of the session. As was said, I book her longer than I do others, and tip.

Or maybe just bring her a present, like a nice clock..... But yea, if you're going over because of sex (especially nearly double the time) book longer.

 

[billa69]

I think it depends what you are doing during the time.....

If the overtime was due to talking or conversation I dont think you should tip.....if it was for fun stuff, tipping would be appropriate or even necessary for future visits.

I was in a couple of sessions were I was engaged into conversation by SPs (on this board and quite reputable) and I am not the type to be like "Hey! I think we should get along with it"...but when my time came (5 minute-10 minute past the hour mark), I was told that she was sorry that she did not notice the clock...blah blah and I did not even cum....

In the above circumstance, I dont think it will be alright to tip or anything like that....I was actually sort of disappointed with the lack of professionalism...

 

[bcneil]

I think at the 45 minute mark, the SP has the responsibility of mentioning the time.
Not just expecting a bigger tip.

 

[Sleepmonger]

I think at the 45 minute mark, the SP has the responsibility of mentioning the time.
Not just expecting a bigger tip.

15 MINUTES LEFT!

Yeah, that wouldn't kill the mood at all

 

[bcneil]

15 MINUTES LEFT!

Yeah, that wouldn't kill the mood at all

I was speaking to the OP who said he went over the hour, by an additional 45 minutes..........105 minutes.

 

[Sleepmonger]

I was speaking to the OP who said he went over the hour, by an additional 45 minutes..........105 minutes.

Oh my bad, I was thinking 45 minutes of the hour

No, if your going over by that much and its bothering her, then of course it's her responsibility to say something.

 

[Holly Taylor]

I have seen the same SP several times. All appointments were for 1 hour
The first visit was over by 5 minutes, the 2nd by 15 minutes the 3rd by 20 minutes

During the last visit we realized I was over by 45 minutes. We both realized this when I
was leaving. I felt like a real shit, I had no extra funds and really did not know what to say.

I texted her after apologizing and thanking her for her genorosity, and I suggested I book a longer appt
next time

Whats the proper thing to do???

ps: there is no clock in the room, and I believe both parties were fully engaged.

It was kind of you to apologize, even though it is a bit of a gray area with respect to who should be bringing up the time. Ultimately I believe it is the lady's responsibility, but this can sometimes be very difficult to do delicately. As someone already mentioned, you don't exactly want to blurt out "5 minutes left!"

It would be great if both parties could be somewhat aware of the time, and it helps to have a small, subtle clock in the room for shorter appointments.

So yes, it was nice of you to share the responsibility in the situation, and I agree that you should start booking 1.5 or 2 hour dates.

 

[Papa Chongo]

I think you did the right thing, only she can tell you for sure though, ask her!

Heres a scenario for you

What if you fall asleep in the SP's arms and vice versa? I went over once by 30 Minutes, we had both fallen asleep, so comfy cuddled up together, I'm glad I awoke as it could have been hours!

Also sometimes I struggle to see the clock in the corner, but I try to take a peek without her seeing, sounds ridiculous, but the mood can get easily killed

 

[satinguy]

I am very mindful of the Ladies time and always keep my watch on. I recall being with a lady once and we were about 45 minutes into an hour session and she offerred round 2 but i was concerned about going over the allotted time till she indicated i was her last appointment for the day and not to be concerned. In the end i was a little less than 10 minutes over my time so i guess it was not a big deal. I certainly appreciated the gesture and have seen the lady again since that time but tried to stick to 60 minutes.

 

[Dgodus]

Simple solution for reminding someone of the time. Instead of saying 5 or 10 mins left say something along the lines of "I want your cum", "cum for me baby", or whatever; dirty talk does have it's uses, and it seems quite common place (it's not something I've ever asked for but it always seems to be employed by a provider).

As for it doesn't matter what's going it kind of does. I only stay late with one and really it's because I'm not getting up in the middle of a conversation and saying "well time for me to go" that seems really really rude to cut someone off like that. First hint she makes that it's time for me to go, I go. I never expect it, but to say it doesn't increase loyalty towards a provider would be a lie (ie should I want company for more than just bedroom fun I know who I'm calling - because she's more than earned it if she wants). To say what's going on doesn't matter is a big insinuation that a client has absolutely nothing to offer beyond money, sometimes people do get along and sometimes people do enjoy talking with each other. I do book longer with the one I'm over with to ensure I'll have time for some nice conversation, but I feel no guilt whatsoever when time goes over (not only is it never expect but going ot has never been for play)

 

[Maleman]

Thanks for all the input, I did not have any extra cash, so no tip and I felt bad about that.
The overtime was due to socializing before and after.

Next time I will carry extra cash and book longer appts

Thanks again

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

Thanks for all the input, I did not have any extra cash, so no tip and I felt bad about that.
The overtime was due to socializing before and after.

Next time I will carry extra cash and book longer appts

Thanks again

Bang on, I'm sure if you book longer appointments she'll consider the time she spend with you well worth it.

Personally I think it just depends how well you connect with each other. I've seen SP's who have left early, and I've seen SP's who stayed hours longer than they booked, so it really depends. Obviously you guys must have clicked on some level and rewarding her by booking longer sessions is certainly the answer. I remember one woman where I booked for 2 and it lasted 3, so I booked for 3 and it lasted 6.

 

[badbadboy]

I always book 90 or 120 minute appts. Question though, what if your SP gets too chatty? It's happened and then I got tapped on the shoulder and told "hey BBB you are 20 min over time" :nod:

 

[badbadboy]

Then you politely get up and get out No tip required!
If you didn't get off because of her yacking, I suggest you don't see her again :nod:
You're probably not the first person she has done that to. Then you use the Power of Perb!!

I am gonna have to review your reviews from the past to see how a Pro does it ound:

I basically am seeing only a select few now

 

[sevenofnine]

you should never expect to stay or plan to stay longer then you have paid.
but sometimes it happens you forget the time

that being said, girls have different views on time and friendships and chemistry develops.
you can be friends with a girl and a regular and its easy to stay
but you should not impose or force your friendship on her.
she will respect you more if you always try to keep it to the time

you should always follow her cue on things and leave when she wants you to,

i have seen a lady for along time we don't need a clock,
but that doesn't mean i stay longer then i paid for
we just feel when a session is over, and i find a clock and guess what its pretty close to the time i paid for.

at other times she wants me to stay and i have stayed

but i don't consider it part or with in this hobby its friendship
and again you should never impose your friendship to take advantage of a lady its rude

as a general observation
the more you spend on a lady the freeer she is with her time

i mean if you book half an hour or an hour and force your company on her to extend it to 45 or an hour and longer, its just rude and the lady resents you
if your a big spender long multi hour sessions plus tips supper and drinks, the lady is more free with her time especially if your a regular

but again its her choice, she is just being thankfull, and it doesn't always happen

and i kind of think in the long run, keep it professional. and respectful
doesn't matter how much money you spend, try to keep to the time

 

[vancity_cowboy]

Simple solution for reminding someone of the time. Instead of saying 5 or 10 mins left say something along the lines of "I want your cum", "cum for me baby", or whatever...

those words are the kiss of death as far as i'm concerned. if a woman says that to me i pull out, take the condom off, drop it on her bed, put my clothes on and leave without another word - and i don't come back

in general, you have to go with the flow. some women are like little metronomes. they've got their routine, they act it out, and the last act of their routine is you walking out the door at 0:59:59 of the hour. one woman had a piece of recorded music that was timed to last for exactly 1 hour - when it was done, you were done. i've actually heard of women setting their cell phone alarm to go off near the end of the hour. others find you fun or sexy or a fascinating conversationalist and they want you to stay for while, some even fall asleep on your arm as previously mentioned. if a woman wants to go over the appointed time, that's fine by me - but i don't see the need for me to guilt myself into paying extra! if she's that friendly then i will very likely become a regular customer and reward her that way. i've encountered women that say, 'don't worry about it, i've enjoyed myself,' when i point out that we've gone way over

consider yourself lucky if you found somebody that is a little more human and is happy to spend time with you after the session, off the clock so to speak