The dark side!

[maxx50]

That is a polite way of saying the fucked up side of the escort business. . The abuse , assaults..rape and the stokers.. and long with any number of other crap that comes up. Here on the board we don't here about it that much .. but right now there is a number of issues that are in the for front .. Jamie.. had some one use the date rape drug on her.. and i am sure there were others that this has happened to and have said nothing .. There is some one out there that is very dangerous.. and it may not just stop with him trying to get free sex . this person is a serial rapist.. and any one who has had this happen need to fill a report . only then can he be tracked down.
And then there is one of the ex members of this board..that is if he has not got another handle again that Audrey .. has made her personal crusade to make everyone aware of. because he is getting out of hand.
I also . am not just going to dismiss Nadia's . situation as just lies .. Something happened to put her in dire need of some type of help.. and this is very commen in the escort business. It defiant is not all money and feeling good. I have know afew that got effected badly by this business.
This brings me to the guys.. the perbs and ponners.. that still some times have know respect for these ladies .. and try to get all they can out of them........ and it is this attitude that is allowing the before mention stuff to go on...WE have so much sex crimes in this world .. our little camunity is no different. All though we can openly talk about sex and prostitution here .. there are those here that think that women are here to be used and abused.
When we see it we have to stop it .. hen maybe this can be a safer and healthier environment for everyone.
This stuff scares the hell out of me .. and i am constanly concerned for those that i know and care about in this business..
I know we all make choices.. and we hope our intuition and god helps use through.. but it never hurts to take extra precautions .. and be proactive when it come to looking out for your self and others in this business.
I think one of the best things any girl can have is a partner that can watch out for them .. never take anew appointment with out that safety net.. and if they are not available don't take the appointment.. money is never worth it..
I understand SP's that have boy friends .. on site .. even if the client is uncomfortable .. She know that she is safe.

There is even the darker side that i did not even touch on . THere have been a number of girls killed . and not just the resent ones that come to mind.. but all through the years .. many of those deaths are still unsolved.. Pleas everyone be carrefull and play safe.

 

[wilde]

I appreciate your efforts in writing "that" but reading that just gave me a migraine.

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[maxx50]

Sorry about that.

Yes I have to admit it was difficult for me to write about this side of stuff .. i know very little .. and just have a few inkling of it when some one opens up a bit about there past. I feel bad that they had to go through these things . and that so often there is no justice or closure.. And there is so much that happens to women and children all over the world that something must be done about .. But nothing is..Because men and maybe society .in general just have shitty attitudes. when it is not happening to them . even when it is in the family or friend then will to do something is not there
Here is our so called civilized country we have to rely on the law .. but even there the attitudes stop the system from working.
Many of the girls know all to well about this .. better then I . They have come out of abused relationships have been beaten and robbed .. and have been raped before they were in the business .and when the have been on calls.. They never know what to expect when they go on a call .. or do a in call.. I have her some of the horror stories.. and know that it is only their instinct to survive that saved them..
I admit i just don't understand people like this .. that think so little of others.. And even those i am some one ho sees escorts .. for my needs.. and probably just on the edge of what is right or wrong.. I still try to respect the women i see.. and hope that i am not . abusing them or taking advantage of some trauma that they may have had in the past .

 

[maxx50]

I don't have that luxury

The sauce . I can't really drink to drown any of my sorrows .or guilt .. or take drugs . I either deal with it or put it in a box on the shelf.. then every now and then they fall out and I have to examine them again.
This world does get to me some days .. the problem is it is not out there but in our own back yard., and by being here nd having regular girls we see .. there concerns and problems . some times become ours.. just like any friends.

 

[maxx50]

Now I know

Well I can see why when any of the things i have mentioned happens to the ladies here or even to other women .. why the hesitatation to say anything?.. Because the silence on the subject says volumes.

 

[maxx50]

Yes Jamie

I thing you are right about use guy may not want to see some one that has been raped ,or assaulted.. Because we would feel awkward... But a friend I would not hesitate to be there if they need me..
And when the girls know who the guy is .. and still it ends up her word against theirs..With out other girls talking up they will continu to get away with this .. and it may escalate..
Because Escorts are not wanting any public attention.. or for their families and friend to know what they do .. they have become easy targets for this stuff.. I really had never realized that this was so wide spread.. this is something the public just does not know about
But this whole situation .. has me very angry.. these guys are serial rapists .. and it should not matter to the police if you are an escort or not .. this is a crime.. and they are probily doing it to other none pros also.. So why are they not on it. This is shit that need to be dealt with now not after we have an other Pickton farm ..
I always worries about it with the girls i see.. and it make me sick .. and angry that i can do nothing to protect them .. or deal with the matter as it should be dealt with