Rarely do I encounter clients that are not very familiar with basic etiquette. Generally it seems all those I come in contact with are pretty aware of generaly acceptable guidelines and behaviors in a session with an sp. Recently however and on a couple of occassions this has not been the case. PLEASE ALWAYS ask before you assume anything is going to be okay with the sp you are seeing. Preferrably BEFORE you agree to meet her. For example if you are expecting to be able to touch her or shower with her or want a massage that includes BODYSLIDE, confirm that this is offered beforehand and where it is okay to touch. Not everbody has the same boundaries. To me, this seems like it should be a given. ALWAYS ask before you touch. If you are looking for or expecting something specific confirm before you make the appointment that this is even an option. Sp's deserve the same respect as anybody else in any other situation. PLease do not assume or wait until the session is in full swing before you inquire. Just because the last girl was olay with certain thin gs does not mean the next one will be. And just because an sp at one time allowed certain interactions does not mean that she still does so read the ad carefully and ask questions beforehand. And if you change your mind or find someone that is more suited to your needs after you have already made an appointment then politely cancel it . She will appreciate not waiting for someone that has no intention of showing up.
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I think if you want to start getting into specifics, send me an email. If you wanna talk about restrictions over the phone or other sex acts, I may not be in the time and place to do that.
If it is simple as comfirming: rates, location, services (eg. GFE/PSE), this is acceptable. If they lady cannot or will not confirm this, she is not worth the time, imo.
If it is something small like
"I really like kissing do you kiss?"
"I like to touch your butt during massage, can I do that"
Those simple questions I do not mind. I have reviews, my website is detailed, most answers are there. If your questions are graphic, related to a fetish or more than one or two questions then send an email. Please.
HOWEVER, if the ladies ad actually says "Call me to discuss other services", then she is inviting the questions to be asked.
So as your theory goes of each lady being different in respect to the services they provide, so are they different in how they receive their inquires.
Keep that in mind too, my friend.
If it is simple as comfirming: rates, location, services (eg. GFE/PSE), this is acceptable. If they lady cannot or will not confirm this, she is not worth the time, imo.
If it is something small like
"I really like kissing do you kiss?"
"I like to touch your butt during massage, can I do that"
Those simple questions I do not mind. I have reviews, my website is detailed, most answers are there. If your questions are graphic, related to a fetish or more than one or two questions then send an email. Please.
HOWEVER, if the ladies ad actually says "Call me to discuss other services", then she is inviting the questions to be asked.
So as your theory goes of each lady being different in respect to the services they provide, so are they different in how they receive their inquires.
Keep that in mind too, my friend.
Also, when clients start asking a lot of questions they come across as "fussy". Makes me think twice about seeing them. Another thing I think when they are being over cautious with all the advance questions is, "Wow, this guy musta been ripped off a lot".
That's why it is your best bet to do some research after you find the ad you like. Check her website, check for reviews, PM other pooners.
But TOFTT is very admirable and if you do that it is rolling the dice.
Every time is a dice roll...it still all comes down to chemistry (at least for the lady anyway)
Haymitch and VanessaofBC have it the nail on the head so to speak with their responses. Some ladies only work part time too and therefore, they want you to do your research, check out web sites, read the ads in their entirety, seek out reviews etc. talk to the pooners that have seen ladies before. I totally get that some of you are sneaking off for a rendevous and might not have time to do that at the last minute, but honestly that first time round is on you. And some questions are just not acceptable on the phone as ladies might have children around or family around ... MILF's as an example .. can't talk on the phone as freely as they'd like to a lot of the times. If a lady says she's non rushed that usually also implies that she doesn't like being rushed into an appointment, so 15 to 20 mins notice is not going to suffice. Be respectful of boundaries, restrictions and fees. If a lady is well reviewed and the consensus looks to be the same within each review, then there's no BS floating around with her, therefore no reason to ask a lot of questions on the phone. If you've got explicit questions or need more detailed answers, text or email, whatever her preference is. For instance some prefer texting as it is more discreet and it is. And unless you're seriously planning on booking ahead by a couple of days or more, don't send an email or PM through a board at the last minute asking if she's around, some ladies only check their email once or twice per day.
BTW A nice greeting is the way to go always when you start a conversation, be it email, texting or phone.. a simple how is your day, hey how's it going are great ways to start off conversations .. not hey i wanna fuck you .. yeah that's pretty obvious or you wouldn't be contacting an sp in the first place. But foul language is a real turn off for some during initial contact .. save the dirty talk for the session.
BTW A nice greeting is the way to go always when you start a conversation, be it email, texting or phone.. a simple how is your day, hey how's it going are great ways to start off conversations .. not hey i wanna fuck you .. yeah that's pretty obvious or you wouldn't be contacting an sp in the first place. But foul language is a real turn off for some during initial contact .. save the dirty talk for the session.
Yep..good manners, say please and thank you....goes a long way. And don't be such a sourpuss when you show up either, smile. You're there for a good time, to relax and get a load off...your mind as well. Leave your life and traffic and all the stuff that makes you tense...outside.
As for the questions....good advice to be read above.
As for the questions....good advice to be read above.
Clients who ask a lot of questions on the phone usually have not done research (some have been scammed or are new) or they are competition looking to be nosy about said persons business or perhaps even LE, pretty rare, but it can happen. That my two cents on that aspect of it. And clients that say "are you worth it?" click.
Good point. I didnt mean to imply that the onus was completely on the pooner. Of course the sp should be just as clear. It was a lack of clarity in my presentation not what i intended to suggest. Thankyou for clarifying,
Good point. I didnt mean to imply that the onus was completely on the pooner. Of course the sp should be just as clear. It was a lack of clarity in my presentation not what i intended to suggest. Thankyou for clarifying,
