Showing ID

[d_Duck55]

Certain touring ladies (and/or their management) have requested phone number / full name / picture ID before a first visit.

I have no problem with the phone number, after all I would want them to be able to contact me if there is a scheduling problem. I am not so sure about emailing my real name and showing picture ID. I wouldn't want to end up in their database which could fall into the wrong hands.

On the other hand, I appreciate their need for security and safety. Their ladies are opening their hotel room door to a total stranger, maybe that makes THEM nervous.

How else do you get around this. The ladies could meet each client in public for a coffee, to get a feel for the client (pun intended), check for bad vibes, etc. But that would definitely cut into the working day.


How have you guys addressed this issue? What should a guy do?

TIA.

 

[O-Shoes]

Don't go see them if they want your name and ID. (especially ID)

I do not not show ID unless I'm travelling by plane, applying for something or get asked for ID at a bar. There should really be no other reason unless LE asks for it.

Do you think they share their real name? Just give any name and see what happens. Not your ID...

Why would you have to show your ID if it's just time spent together and nothing else... like a date or a massage?

 

[donnyknotts]

No way!

Send my picture and ID? No way.

One of the fastest growing crimes in Canada is identity theft. Do not under any circumstances give out your ID unless you are very certain about the person or business you are dealing with. This applies just as much to transactions outside the poon biz as within, especially when you are dealing with the unknown.

Most providers can come up with less intrusive ways of ascertaining your intentions, if not, give her a pass and look for another. This is definitely one situation where the big head has to be doing the thinking.

 

[bluedkk]

I understand there need for security, but not risking my freedom

This is a business and there is risk to all business


If there scared to open the door, try a new line of work that pays less and move on

I know that seems harsh but, life is harsh

 

[tanya]

RE: view webcam prior

I've had Webcam dates/viewings prior to my bookings. That way I know who to look for when I arrive. All I ask for is a contact # and I don't usually have any issues with an email address for the men email me directly anyhow.
It's all about discretion and the men that have seen me before know that I am very discreet.
Anyhow, I'll see you all tomorrow.
Good night
Tanya xoxoxoxoxo

 

[Oh_Claire]

I know in the US its very commun to show ID before continuing. I don't think there is anything to be paranoid about, the girls don't want to get involved in your life, nor do they want you to get involved in theirs. However in Calgary, I guess it's the honour system. I have never had a problem in the short time I've been in Calgary. In the states, nothing but- men stealing, or ripping you off, and I've heard stories of other girls being held up at knifepoint and other wacky stories. If someone's going to do damage, having a name would help indefinately. Sorry guys, but IMHO if you're going to cause trouble that's the only reason you should be scared. I'm not against girls asking to "see" ID at all.

 

[gawsha]

What he said

 

[D.W.B]

As a victim of a recent Identity Theft, my opinion is UNDER NO UNCERTAIN TERMS. well, maybe 1 term, I wanna see yours. The people who stole my identity got away with my money, my identity and no trail. And a mess for me to clean up. It is too easy nowadays to steal an ID and I do not think anyone should make it easier for it to happen. Now I'm not assuming that any SP or agency is up to no good at all, regardless of the fact there are bad apples everywhere. Unrelated however, the 1 and only time I have used plastic, it was abused by the SP -not the agency. That said, I've never had to show my ID to a SP and I do not understand what the SP gains from seeing it. Maybe a SP could explain exactly what they use it for. I understand you want our real name, but will you give yours out? If not, why should I be expected to (not that I don't, I'm just playing devil's advocate)?You can hold me up at knife/gun point just as easy. for now, my ID is just to valuable and no SP will ever see it. And I do not expect to see theirs any time soon.

you said it dtb considering the potential for id theft and blackmail there is no way i would ever give out anything but a cell# (pay as you go under an assumed name preferrably) no piece of ass is worth having your life ruined.

 

[Rockman59]

I agree...nothing but a phone number, in case things have to be changed. What are the chances of us seeing one of the ladies real ID??